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    Hi Im a web cam model of the last month or so , I was getting along grand until my ex who was my boyfriend started trying to get me to stop web camming tried to make me feel dirty about what I was doing and then all of a sudden tells me he cheated on me a few months into the relationship with his ex a girl i despised we were with each other about 2.5 years, Im now living in my mums house and trying get back on my feet have no money and no motivation every time i start webcamming i get so depressed etc over whats happened ,I just feel so betrayed and useless. I just really need to get the motivation back some how hopefully

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    Just log on and fake it til you make it. This is work, your personal emotions shouldn't get in the way (all though they will often). If you worked any other job and you went through a break up you definitely would still have to show up and be productive. Just log on, go through the motions, smile and keep doing it. Eventually you'll heal over time over your ex, it shouldn't effect your work. I find camming to be better when I went through a break up. I was sad but buried myself so deep into my work that by the time I had time to look around and see what was going on in my personal life, enough time had passed for me to realize I was better off.

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    Girl I think the best thing he did was tell you, imagine if you actually stopped camming for that man after he cheated..and he had the nerve to make you feel dirty I'd honestly look at it as a blessing so you didn't end up wasting more time on that man. Breakups I'm sure are hard to get back into the groove but the best thing you can do right now is work, save up that money and get yourself a new place that would be my motivation. I don't think you should feel useless he obviously didn't see a good thing in front of him, so he does not deserve you. I wish you well but I think you should be celebrating getting away from that man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx View Post
    Just log on and fake it til you make it. This is work, your personal emotions shouldn't get in the way (all though they will often). If you worked any other job and you went through a break up you definitely would still have to show up and be productive. Just log on, go through the motions, smile and keep doing it. Eventually you'll heal over time over your ex, it shouldn't effect your work. I find camming to be better when I went through a break up. I was sad but buried myself so deep into my work that by the time I had time to look around and see what was going on in my personal life, enough time had passed for me to realize I was better off.
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    I know we're not in the exact same situation and some people say money can't buy happiness, but honestly when me and my boyfriend got into it/broke up i put all my effort and time into camming because i had nothing else to do and i made so much money it was ridiculous.

    I'll admit, the feeling doesn't last forever, but it made me so much happier for a while because i didn't even think about the break up, just money, money, and of course more money! And honestly, if that guy was cheating then the money would definitely be much more important to me. I haven't had sex with a guy or even depended on a guy for anything since i started this, i hate to put it so harsh, but guys are Fucking worthless to me now unless their one of my customers. And i know this doesn't apply to everyone, just my personal opinion.

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    The fake it til you make it works! Just act like you dont care about him, and act like you're enjoying the webcamming and in a couple of weeks you'll realise that u aren't faking it anymore Worked for me! xx

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    Hi thanks have read all the replies so carefully , and Im starting to realise im wasting time just thinking over and over about a waste of 2.5 years with that ex , Im gonna get off my ass put on my make up and keep myself as busy as ever just making money and maybe a confidence boost lol , thanks for the help im gonna take it all seriously now that I have no 1 to call me names over webcamming and such and hopefully make my goal of $1500 dollars hopefully in the next three weeks if I put my mind too it thanks girls if you can do it then so can I

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    Default Re: how to get back into camming after a break up

    I'm so sorry this happened to you beauty! I totally know how you feel! Here's a little advice that has worked for me in the past:

    If you can afford to, take a trip to a beach or visit a place on your bucket list.

    Talk to many of your friends and family if you can about what happened, they should be able to cheer you up, plus talking about it excessively will eventually get it out of your system to the point you'll laugh at the fact you wasted your time with this moron.

    Like Dolleyes said, celebrate that it's over. Ask yourself, what did you learn? How did you grow from this experience. Chances are that the gains outweigh the loss and you wont likely have to experience it again.

    Dive into your work. Camming is a great way to get out your frustrations on the man that burned you. You wouldn't have that luxury if you worked in a cubicle from 9-5. Have fun and develop a new cam character/persona. Experiment. You'll get over this fucker in no time.

    And like someone else said, spoil yourself! Treat yourself to a spa day, get that fancy mani/pedi you always wanted. Allow yourself to get what you deserve because you are a Goddess and worth it!
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