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    Default Turnovers and your following.

    I just had a complete turnover. I'd like to think it's because I did my job and spent all of their money but the fact is they broke up with me to seek new sex styles. I'd like to think I busted em but reality settles in

    How long do you usually keep your following, how much do they normally spend before they stop showing up and how do your survive the replenish phase?

    I asked, I'll answer. 3 to 6 months, 4k to 10k avg (gross- sometimes more if I am lucky) and play upbeat music.

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    My longest regs are 4 years and counting there are 3 of them. My average is about 1 or year and half.

    Not counting the 3 vets, because they would skew the results about 8 - 10k.

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    Default Re: Turnovers and your following.

    I have a few regs that been there pretty much since i started, over a year or so. But for the most part 1-4 months. It's weird cuz I notice it and it seems like no one in my room does. Ill have a group of guys who'll be hardcore about showing up everyday, spending money, interacting with each other. There'll always be a regular crew but eventually one by one they'll stop showing up, spending and slowly get replaced by another regular crew. When I feel like my following is starting to slow down, cheapen, or the guys are just driving me crazy i switch the times i'm on. I'll do day shift for a few weeks and when I feel like I've sucked all that I could out of them and everyone has jacked off to me twice, i'll goto night until i wear myself out there. Usually by that time there's a new batch of day shift guys for me to work with and I just do this over and over again.

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    I'd say on average - 6-9months but only because Im on a few smaller sites that tend to have very devoted followings with less variety and less model turnover - and those are sites I tend to spend the most time on. But if you throw in huge sites where model turnover is rapid and Im not logged in consistently or my performance on the site is weaksauce, it definitely drops the average to 1-3months. There are a handful of guys who have been seeing me regularly since I started which boggles my mind since I had no idea wtf I was doing back then... but in those cases they seem to be very heavy camming users in general. Like theyre invested in the whole hobby of camming or just spend great deals of time online.

    Something Ive been considering lately is - I also have my own cap? Like I reach a creativity and rapport limit as well? Basically I get bored by the dynamic or tired of myself too. I appreciate that they're engaged and their presence is affirming to the whole reason Im even logged in but it can be hard to gauge how to 'elevate' the relationship. I don't mean basic customer service like making an effort to remember sessions, friendliness, offline communication - I mean, it just hits a brick wall after awhile. If the guy is someone who spends regularly but isnt pleasant, that brick wall arrives much faster.

    Times I've consciously tried to elevate a relationship with customers who are great in every way have usually resulted in problems around my or their boundaries and trying to 'go back' feels off. Times Ive tried to aggressively retain them as a regular I havent enjoyed the drama that can come with it...So I just kind of leave it up to them. TBH this balance is something Ive always struggled with. Social networking and freechat makes this balance even harder to figure out. Girls who have this down to a science are geniuses.

    Basically when they stop coming or I am obv no longer one of their favorites or I can feel the expiration date coming, some part of me is relieved. I'm unsure how my embodiment of their fantasy can mature? It is wayyyy easier if the guy likes having conversations or enjoys off-the-wall shit, but if it is a guy who just likes a sexy horny girl- after awhile it is like "so........................................ "

    So when regulars expire, some part of me blames myself for being confused about meshing fantasy and customer service, another part of me blames the nature of the odd dynamic of developing a relationship with moving pixels on your screen - but most of me is like "hey, dude, there are tens of thousands if not a hundred thousand camgirls out there. Why you even focused me on me for so long, idk?"

    But one guy - I swear, has been seeing me since the first week I started live camming. Almost every week (as long as I am working), about 2-3 times a week, no matter price fluctuations, without fail. Our sessions are usually 6-10minutes long and pure business of his specific (but vanilla) fetish. I don't know much about him and he doesn't ask any personal questions, ever. He comes in, affirms what he likes, gently comments on what he doesn't care for, says thanks and leaves. That's it. Week after week. He seems to get uncomfortable if I ask him anything personal beyond "How are you"..... lol ironically, I kind of love him tbh.

    But in all of my guest files the "Ive been here 10 times or under" customers remain king with the regulars in the minority. Good bad or indifferent, it makes me appreciate how widespread camming is becoming because there will always be new crops of customers. I can have whole shifts without recognizing any screen name that pops up and that is kind of cool to me tbh.
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    Something is wrong with me. I start to hate regulars after awhile.

    I had this guy that came in a few times a week. I made $250 off of him without fail every week---and I'll I had to do was talk to him. I kept my clothes on.

    But the more he came into my room to see me the more I dreaded seeing him. I ran out of things to talk about.

    But what really killed it for me is he started to come into my free chat after his paid sessions. I hated it. I HATE guys that come into my free chat after being in a paid show to "hangout". It reminds me of a guy who wants to cuddle after a one night stand. It grosses me out.

    Anyhow, this guy would come into my free chat sessions. Because he only talked to me in private and never saw me naked, I felt weird doing gold show countdowns and getting topless---so I wouldn't do them and I would lose money.

    Finally, I just blocked him---I know. I'm insane.

    I wish I could say this is the first reg I did this to but it is definitely not. LOL

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    The longest reg I ever had was about 5 years... The last time I talked to him, he was in a hotel room and he said that him and his wife had a huge argument and she told him to leave. We did our session, and then he said he would get in touch with me as soon as possible as soon as things settle down, and never heard from him again..that was about 2 years ago Crazily enough, I got a linked in invite from him just a couple of weeks ago, but I didnt see any messages from him in my IM's or any other emails, so I think he just sent out a mass invite to everyone in his contacts list. He was so cool though, 90% of the time we'd just talk, and he would always send me anywhere from $200-500 for my time. Whenever Id disappear and come back again, he would send me $500 or so "to make up for lost time" he really was a sweetheart *sigh*

    There are about a handful of guys who have been regs for about 3 or so years now, but Im not around long enough for them to get tired of me...whenever they see me available they are all excited Im back again and get shows. But on the average, especially when Im really on regular and trying to hustle, my regs last around 6 months before they say they have to break their addiction lol and disappear.
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    I have had one regular for almost 6 years. When I started I only cammed very part time but he always found me. It took awile but he eventually found me when I moved to SM. He always does 30 minute blocks and we have great chemistry together.
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    You never know...the guy that hung around for 5 years, almost everytime we talked he would ask me to come up and visit him. I never led him on and told him I couldnt...but guys like a challenge...he was always trying to think of ways to get me to come up. He wasnt pushy or creepy about it though, he would just bring it up and Id tell him awe! you know I cant do that! and hed saw ohhh it was worth a shot...lol
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    Im on a few smaller sites that tend to have very devoted followings with less variety and less model turnover - and those are sites I tend to spend the most time on.
    This used to be my approach as well. Beats the hell out of dealing with the 'bargain hunters' and general disrespectful D-bags on the high traffic / high turnover webcam host sites.

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    Well, I've only been on the camming side for about a year now, so I can't comment on a lot of this...

    What I will say is that I am with LAChloe....even when dancing, I would get so sick of regulars after a little while. There are the odd few that I actually really get on with, but even with them, if they come back ALL. THE. TIME. I start getting tired of it, and dreading seeing them. I have one regular now that I have had for about 8 months, and he is a decent guy (and pays a fair bit) but he shows up to every show.

    I think that it bugs me because it starts to feel like pressure and as though I am obligated to them. It starts to feel like I OWE them something - a certain amount of energy, conversation, something....and I just hate that feeling! I would rather have new guys every day.
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