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    Default Single girl going to a strip club

    I just saw a bunch of videos in the vids of you dancing thread, and Im back to my "I want to go to a strip club!" whine... Ive only been to a strip club once...I went to Scarlotts in Miami, and the ladies there werent doing anything like what Im seeing in the videos here... But I would go in a heartbeat to see talent like this, but I think that Id look like a wierdo going in a club just to sit there all wide eyed and going woooow! But seriously speaking..I spend a good amount of money to go see music and dance performances, and I would spend that same money to see this too... I just cant imagine someone not seeing this as an art on that level.

    What sucks is most of my male friends go to strip clubs all the time, but none of them want to go with me...and none of my female friends would set foot in one...I feel like such a loner lol but jeez, would feel so self conscious and out of place. And I dont know how ladies would feel about it either... Even though Im not interested in getting a lap dance or anything, I would go out of my way to make sure and tip a lady whose performance I really liked (since Im pretty sure none of them would go out of their way to come up to me when they are doing lap dances...I know dont fit the demographic)

    Would that be too weird though? Am I overthinking things or am I pretty right that I would I really be looked at like, what is she doing here? And avoided by everyone. And also, what clubs in Miami would be a good one to see really good talent?

    On a side note...I need new friends.
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    Girl, I have one word for you if you wanna get your ass into a strip club with a bunch of male friends: shots.

    Seriously, make your guy friends take you, you shouldn't have to go alone, infact many clubs won't let you come in when you're by yourself as a girl. Just invite your guy friends over for some beers or whatever and when they're good and hammed suggest the idea, they'll probably bite have fun!!

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    Ooh yes you brought up a good point, I have heard that many clubs wouldnt let a girl in by herself anyway.

    Nah, I have been trying for a good 5 years now....they just look at me like awe how sweet, you wanna go to a strip club, thats so cute But of them at least took me seriously and said he woudlnt feel comfortable getting dances if I were sitting there. Like I really care, what they do, I just want to go.

    And the guy that did take me, I was there with him as his escort, and he was a total jerk so Im not seeing him again anyway. Okay yeah, I will be a bit more persistent in getting the guys I know to go with me...
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    Maybe try one on one. I can never convince my guy friends to go as a group, but just one of them is super easy. Maybe it's like a group intimidation factor or something? Maybe as a group it feels like this huge manly man outing, and having a female there tagging along is wierd? But when it's one on one its a really quirky fun friend-date type thing. A few times I went with guy friends I bought them their first lapdance. They were soooo scared. It was soooo entertaining haha. It actually made it way easier for me to hustle younger guys after going to the club with a few guy friends..seeing the timidness that hides behind the testosterone-soaked front they will sometimes put up allowed me to loosen up around the younger guys at work...when I realised it was more likely that they would be intimidated of me than anything, well, I thought that was hilarious!

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    Odette made a good suggestion- ask one to with you instead of a group. I wish I could send you some of my guy friends lol they never turn down my request to tag along. If all else fails, I think the best approach would be to go early so you can get acclimated to the environment of being there alone, or go later on when it's a madhouse so you won't be noticed as much. People may just think you are with someone but they are somewhere else in the club.
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    Thanks ladies..I will try that
    I could also just kidnap one of them under the guise of going out for happy hour, and take them to a strip club.

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    make them take you! If they're a friend, they can do you a favor once and take you, they can go the following day by themselves if they please to. For cool stage shows and a fun time for girls I recommend BTs, Showgirls or Kind of Diamonds.

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    BT's really? Wow thats across the street from me! It looks so small that Ive never paid any attention to it at all!!
    Ive heard a lot about King of Diamonds, but not Showgirls...

    I am armed with knowledge now hehe! Thanks so much!
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    You know what?? Thats a damned good point!! I cant believe that didnt cross my mind. Its hard enough to go out to a regular club by myself to see some friends perform without guys bothering me... Yeah, I cant go by myself

    Yeah, I could see too if I can get a client to take me...a reg though that I know, cause the client that took me to the first one was just such a horrible guy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    BT's really? Wow thats across the street from me! It looks so small that Ive never paid any attention to it at all!!
    Ive heard a lot about King of Diamonds, but not Showgirls...

    I am armed with knowledge now hehe! Thanks so much!
    weird!! it's across the street from me, too!!

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    Eep! Woah!! We've probably crossed paths grocery shopping and didnt even know it...lol!
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    haha probably... let me know how you like it if you go!

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    Walking into a strip club as a solo female custie can be very intimidating. I took a guy friend along the first time (early Sat evening, hustle club) and it helped a lot.

    A friend who's an industry veteran (and who's sort of coaching me through newbieness) said I should always go alone since the level of harassment (from getting hit on, from rude drunks etc) is small potatoes compared to what I'd experience as a dancer.

    It can be fun going alone - lol I got a job offer at one club just for showing up on a weekend

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    Just a suggestion but if you have a client who buys blocks of time & likes to go out for dinner etc you can suggest it spontaneously, like hey let's go check out this club nearby.
    He'd probably feel all big & important walking in there with you.

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    I wouldn't go to a strip club as a customer by myself for a few reasons (unless I was scoping it out for an audition briefly):

    A.) Male customers might bug me with conversation or advances which could irritate me and take away money from the working girls
    B.) I doubt the girls would come up to me because they'd be like wtf

    I'd love to do it, but I just wouldn't try it because it would be weird.
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    ive been to clubs alone before. i frequent one usually. i go 1-3 times a week.

    i started off going with guy freinds. but it was so hard to find someone willing to go. so i went alone. the first time alone was weird for like 5 minutes, but them im like. ah so what. i dont have any freinds anyway. usually i just sit ther and think. i have my usual chair and am considered to be a regular now.

    1. guys do try to talk to me. i dont encourage it 99 percent of the time. they should be talking to the girls that work there. a couple pinched my thigh and were kicked out.

    2. none of the girls come up to me anymore. some did at the beginning. but the majority didnt. Now only some of the new girls come up to me. its okay with me that they dont talk to me. i dont ever buy dances. and if they talk to me it kinda defeats the purpose of me being there. i have my favorites. i watch them dance. see what i like about the different dance styles. im impressed with thier abilities and thier confidence.

    anyway. its a norm for me now. just think, your still a paying customer and lots of people go there alone.

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    Ooh, thanks so much everyone for the input!!! In the meantime! I have found a friend who I was bemoaning how I cant find anyone go to with me, and he looked at me and said uhh...you never asked me. I mean, hes so serious, so so serious that it didnt occur to him that he would want to...but he talked to his gf, who has never been before but said shes all for it if Im there lol and said that he can probably rally up a few more friends and make a fun night out of it for us.

    Sooo...looks like I was just asking all the wrong people Hopefully it will happen sooon, and Ill let you all know how it went. For sure though, they are cool people, so now I dont have to worry about feeling nervous, or dealing with a jerk like my first club experience, which I couldnt even enjoy cause all I remember of the night is sitting there thinking..this guy is the douche king. lol
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    ^^^ your lucky you have freinds to take you

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