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    My Bf dropped his wallet last night and we went to cancel the credit card this morning and someone charged 500 dollars at NCT. Like seriously wtf I thought every deja vu club fucking checked your goddamn ID when you spend half a grand on a credit card. They check at my club if the guys only spending 20. I am so fucking livid, I don't know what to do. We're canceling the card obviously but it really pisses me off the didn't even check this guy's ID. Is there anything I can really do?

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    Default Re: I am so pissed

    Check with the club. Match the time the credit card is used to the time on surveillance cameras. You may be able to see the perp.

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    Did you dispute the transaction as a fraudulent transaction? If so the credit card company should be doing the investigation for you. Some give temporary credits and some dont. But being able to dispute the transaction is a government mandate. The only way to get this resolved at all is to allow the credit card company to investigate the transaction and charge it back. By doing anything on your own you could end up waiving any protection you have under the law.

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    No offense this really should be posted in Dollar Den btw. Mainly because there are alot of financial savy people who post in Dollar Den that do not post in other parts of the forum.
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    The one question that came to mind for me was: are you sure that he actually dropped his wallet and that someone else used his card? Could this be a story he is telling to cover himself? I only ask because many clubs, including this one from what I am reading, require ID and other forms of verification due to the high rates of challenges and reversals that clubs often face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    The one question that came to mind for me was: are you sure that he actually dropped his wallet and that someone else used his card? Could this be a story he is telling to cover himself? I only ask because many clubs, including this one from what I am reading, require ID and other forms of verification due to the high rates of challenges and reversals that clubs often face.
    If it does end up that he has done this himself and is lying to you... the credit card company will not reimburse any money until you file charges against him for theft if the card is in your name and not his.

    I said this earlier and I will say it again... Taking the investigation ie going to the club etc into your own hands could nullify your rights in this matter. I know it sounds crazy. But there is a very strict protocol in how this is handled. It is why charge backs cost so much. The credit card company has to be the one to request signatures, information, and copy of the video footage. They will do this if you dispute the transaction in question.
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    Default Re: I am so pissed

    I hate to say this but I thought the same thing RickDugan posted.
    If that were my bf he'd be sleeping on the lawn.... but I'm really, reeeeeaaaallllly jaded.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missykrissy View Post
    I hate to say this but I thought the same thing RickDugan posted.
    If that were my bf he'd be sleeping on the lawn.... but I'm really, reeeeeaaaallllly jaded.
    LOL missy. I'll admit to being a touch jaded too, but this one is starting to seem obvious. With what I know about cc transactions in other clubs and what BOTM has posted about this particular club, if I had to bet my retirement fund on whether some other guy used his card or if he did it himself and is now trying to cover his ass, I know which way I'd bet.

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    I know it wasn't him. I mean one it's really unlikely for him to go to a strip club in the first place, and he had gotten my strep I believe and we were on the phone at least until like 3. if this guy's going to spend 50+ dollars, it'd be on a tattoo. And if he wanted to be sketchy he'd have no problem just finding another girl to fuck. It makes sense because we dropped it about two blocks from larkin, and it's the TL, so not the most trustworthy of people.
    Argh now I don't know whether to talk to the club (thank you BOTM!) or just let the credit card company figure it out. I don't want to fuck shit up though. :/

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    Talk to the credit card company and ask them if it is ok to talk to the club in question. Filing a police report is a good idea as long as you know he didnt do it himself.
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    Default Re: I am so pissed

    Yeah I will tell the credit card company about the info BOTM, thank you. We will also file a police report. To clarify, it was his credit card not mine, which probably pisses me off even more because I go all mama bear (uh, what's the equivalent when it's your bf and not your kid? o.O) with him and when people fuck him over I just want to claw their eyes out because he doesn't really deserve to have anything bad happen to him.
    Thank you everyone for your input. Much appreciated.

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