I'm used to paying for my half of the date. Scenerio usually goes like...check comes, I pick it up, and I put down my portion plus tip. I'm starting to think i've been stupid, and should really let the guy take care of it. I have this problem, though, where I feel like I will be judged as a gold digger (makes no sense; I know). Perhaps it's me just trying to overcompenate, knowing what I do for a job (try to get as much $ as possible from guys), even though the guys usually don't know what I do (yet).
I think my last straw was when I purposely put down more $ to tip way extra to the bartender, and he proceeded to TAKE BACK (once he realized the total amt put down) some of what he put down. I was like...wtf, in my head, but I didn't feel comfortable saying something aloud.
Please put some sense in me and tell me that guys usually are expected to pay. Also, I never ask a guy out, as I always wait for him to ask me (so he initiates the date).



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