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    Default not using chipin ever again.

    apparently there is no way to delete peoples names off if they leave comments and no way to delete chipins. even after you close them the links still remain.

    i decided to just try and close my chipin (which was for something non adult related) and it wont work. i wen tto the faq and support page, and theres nowhere it says that you can even delete yourself off of chipin. this is all i found:

    Opt-out/correct/delete/deactivate

    [FONT=Verdana]While ChipIn does not give you the opportunity to remove your information from our database, you may remove your registration information from your profile page. In addition, you may elect not to receive future communications from ChipIn or to discontinue use of our service. If you are a registered user, please log in and visit the “Profile” page of our Web site and uncheck the box related to sending information to you via email. If you are not a registered user but are a recipient of a ChipIn event invitation, you may delete your email address from the event participant list by requesting to be removed from the participant list on the event page.

    though they dont tell you where you go to do so at.

    does anyone know where you can do so at?
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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    A bunch of strangers gave you money - without factchecking or asking you any hard questions. They empathized with your situation and gave quite generously. Most people would see that as a victory? Your dog now has a vet bill paid for. That's great. Even better the original thread addressing this is gone so most don't even know what this is even about. Another positive Id think?

    Unfortunately youve now reopened it, voluntarily, and on a dismissive / defensive note. Like a pre-emptive strike against criticism.

    Id hope youre giving 2x the amount of attention to all of the donors?

    Im unclear what youre hurt about. If youre hearing people think you're not being responsive: ChipIn gives you the emails of the donors, you have their emails, email them? Just email everyone who donated and take it offline instead of resurrecting this? They gave you gifts, waiting for them to contact you is backwards etiquette (edit: you removed the lines Im referring to, sorry just hit refresh so the text is somewhat different).

    You seem to become preoccupied with anything critical said about this scenario or any scenario involving paypal. You dismissed what people have said repeatedly about the problems using this interface bc you seem to insist on prioritizing convenience over safety or privacy. You had (and appear to still have) little appreciation for the privacy of people who donated. If you didnt know, you didnt know - shit happens. But people have warned you already about Paypal's problems. You'd also see in ChipIn's TOS/FAQs they say that full names are published in the comments.

    Before soliciting SW, Id guess youd review it since although it is "non-adult" youre soliciting "adult workers" bc sex workers tend to care about things like privacy more than customers, but you didnt. OK, fine, again shit happens. But someone told you it was a problem, and you dismissed it. When that person also asked you a hard questions about finances (makes sense to ask if youre asking them for money, delivery wasnt rosy but that happens in an open forum) - you decided to go on a personal attack spree. In the other thread you excused the attacks as justified. Here youre making it seem like the people who were concerned are just being annoying.

    There is no gratitude or hell even "hey that sucked, I wish Id known, oops" or even anything resembling positivity (again, a vet bill is paid, people gave you money) --- anywhere here. Maybe there is positive energy on other sites but SW is where you got donations from, why no positivity? Youre making it sound like SW is telling you you should stop using Chipin for life and the ppl who donated inconvenienced you. That is quite dramatic post-solicitation, dont you think? It also doesnt touch on or address what people were getting at. Also, dude, people gave you a bunch of money.

    But I expect anything that is even slightly critical will be dismissed?

    Just email the people who gave?

    Im unclear why you started this thread.





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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    no no, apparently some people were saying i wasnt getting back to them, when i was. i posted this in case some messeges didnt make it through to emails on here or via regular email. i tried to delete my account and delete their messeges and it didnt work. im just putting it out there that apparently you cant even delete a chipin completly after its started nor can you delete your account becuase they have no support which is strange and i had never known this before and ive used it for raffles and other things on cam sites with no issue.

    im letting people know ahead of time that if your looking to collect money for anything at all that chipin isnt a good avenue. serisuly what site doesnt allow you to delete your account? its baffling. i never knew that. and it was a little late for me to close it in the middle of having it open. i found out a little too late. if the post seems dramatic-it is. people want things deleted that i have no control over and it makes me feel bad.

    thats all, thats the only reason i posted this. i have emailed the people that donated? im not trying to start anything. im confused....

    if you want to get into things that arent about what ive posted above:

    ive said thank you many times to the people that donated but thats not what this is about. not one person thats donated has complained to me or wanted their money back, so im not sure where you are getting any of this from.

    i had a messege from a mod saying that i needed to delete all links of the chipin, and i did. but theres no way for me to completely get rid of it, theres not even a support email. its bizzaare. also, this was not an adult based thing the donation was for it didnt break any rules on paypals side. so again im not sure why people who didnt donate are getting mad. the people that did have been thanked plenty of times i thought. i even did the raffle and the winner didnt want any sort of prize for donating. im super thanksful to those that donated and they have been told so.

    people who havent donate are people who are calling me a scam artist it hurts my feelings. its hard to be positive when im getting so much negativity thrown at me.
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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    Not taking sides for or against anyone - I did not see all of the thread that was deleted or anything that has transpired off site - I sent Crispy 3 or 4 private messages regarding this and she responded to each one and responded timely - the first one was requesting her to remove the thread as soon as she reached her goal - the thread was deleted -

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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    Quote Originally Posted by crispy View Post
    people who havent donate are people who are calling me a scam artist it hurts my feelings. its hard to be positive when im getting so much negativity thrown at me.
    I'm upset too. Because the OP slandered me and bashed my name around on twitter because I questioned her about her post in the first place. (that wasn't even supposed to be posted on SW because panhandling is against SW rules)

    I was called a "fat redhead" and "a bitter judgmental person" and "you know whats funny? a fat girl who drinks diet coke and eats brownies. it's like being nutritionally bi-polar." I said NOTHING mean or nasty to you. Not ever. What did I do to deserve that???

    Where is my apology???

    Why are you focusing on negativity and tons of "woe-is-me" posts and not 2x that energy THANKING all of the girls who gave money to a complete stranger?

    Until that changes all you get from me is a tiny violin.







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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    OH NO here comes more SW drama


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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    baahhaa that made me lmao.

    ive never seen the office, maybe i should watch it.

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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    I don't understand why you are upset... You got the bill paid for, the dog is alright... and shouldn't there be a list where you can e-mail everyone and thank them? Is there a reason why you want to delete that? Why don't you want to use them anymore? I am lost. Is there something you wanna hide by doing all that?

    Why are you so un-happy that you want to get off Chip-in so bad? I mean there's no positive as Roast said...what gives? I would be jumping for joy if someone saved my dog's life - but you are worried about that... I don't think anyone wants to use Chip-in just because of Pay-pal in general.

    As far as the adult thing and Pay-pal, everyone knows that's a HUGE no-no. That's like on the first 5 things of being a cam-girl. You have been here, solicited here, and you should already know that... Again, I don't understand.

    Are people that haven't donated mad because they may have thought this wasn't for the cause you were advertising? Or maybe because of the fight and attacks that happened? I think you are being called a scam artist because again, there wasn't any jumping for joy that you got this issue taken care of. Most girls that help people here are elated and keep everyone updated every step of the way.. Not to mention, we are all big girls, we don't put messages here asking for help from anyone else just because something happens... We get on cam, get naked and make the money - that's all. If any of these girls gave you money, you should be hella thank you and be kissing tons of ass - because this is a family here. It's what we do...but I agree, I hear a violin playing... and if you did what girly up there say you did about the name calling and the fight, then you should be worried.

    As far as people questioning your intentions - We are bullshit proof because it is in OUR job descriptions. We don't let guys bullshit us so what you think that can BS us? I don't know - I would be tickled pink that people helped me out... Here or from a cam site.. but instead, I wouldn't be posting how I want off there so bad... because you aren't doing a very good job of improving your credibility at this point. And if there was anyone that wanted their money back, for whatever reason, you should give it to them - it's called good business practice. I don't care how bad off things are. It's integrity. All we have in this business is two things - our word and our snatch. If one or both goes bad, then you have a real problem.

    I am not trying to attack you or make you out to BE a bad person, innocent till proven guilty but I just call it as I read it.
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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    i was trying to delete the chipin for the couple people that donated that left comments and they wanted them deleted but theres no way to delete them apparently. so i was going to delete my account to get rid of ther names to keep them happy thats all. im unhappy that i cant ge tthe girls names off of chip in. i think you guys are misentepreting things, honestly. no one thats donated has wanted there money back, if they did i would give it to them, but the money has been withdrawn so my dog can have her operation. i even posted the invoice from the vet for credibility. i have the emails of everyone who donated and they ill be updated on whats going on if they choose to.

    the chipin only ended yesterday and the mods deleted the thread becuase of a few reasons so by posting this thread, i am trying to keep people updated!

    my lord i only posted this thread to warn people that you cant delete your chipin accounts nor edit other peoples comments off of it, as a warning from the experiance i just had. thats it! i have hayden blocked i dont see her posts. ive been followed around by her lately and shes been badmouthing me along with one of her friends so i dont read nor respond to her anymore, as per my judgement and the mods have suggested. take what she has to say with a grain of salt, like anything else.

    i just wanted to get the info out about those 2 key factors of chipin and now im being made to look like im trying to run off or something? thats not why. read my first paragraph over. thanks.

    i didnt expect this thread to be a drama fest at all.i thought i made myself out to be clear about why i posted this. im not sure how i could have made it clearer for you guys.

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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    Well, there should be a way to delete the comments, in the very least. I just don't understand why people would comment IF they wanted them deleted in the first place?

    The girls who did donate, I am sure they are happy the donated and I don't think they would care if their names were there... Right?

    I don't know if I am misinterpreting... Why would people what their names deleted when they were happy to help you?

    I am so lost. These people were happy to donate to you but then you want to delete their names to keep them happy?

    Well, if you have her blocked, why even comment about that, just move on with that. We are girls, we follow each other.

    I don't know who has used Chip-in but being it is a public campaign, I think you should leave that there... What could it possibly hurt for a list of names of the people that were happy to help?

    We are all just trying to understand why you said that - your post said never using chip-in again, all because it won't let you delete your account or a list of names?

    Mk.... whatever floats your boat there love. I don't know - happy the dog is ok, but that's all I can really say..
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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    Quote Originally Posted by MissMafia View Post
    Well, there should be a way to delete the comments, in the very least. I just don't understand why people would comment IF they wanted them deleted in the first place?

    The girls who did donate, I am sure they are happy the donated and I don't think they would care if their names were there... Right?

    I don't know if I am misinterpreting... Why would people what their names deleted when they were happy to help you?

    I am so lost. These people were happy to donate to you but then you want to delete their names to keep them happy?

    Well, if you have her blocked, why even comment about that, just move on with that. We are girls, we follow each other.

    I don't know who has used Chip-in but being it is a public campaign, I think you should leave that there... What could it possibly hurt for a list of names of the people that were happy to help?

    We are all just trying to understand why you said that - your post said never using chip-in again, all because it won't let you delete your account or a list of names?

    Mk.... whatever floats your boat there love. I don't know - happy the dog is ok, but that's all I can really say..
    The problem was privacy. She asked SW girls to donate. They did. But they did not know that ChipIn displays names on the chipin page. So yes, a lot of people want the info deleted.







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    Default Re: not using chipin ever again.

    Well, that's another reason why I wouldn't use that place.

    I hope the girls who want their stuff deleted, can get it deleted... by the sounds of it, doesn't look like it will happen.

    Not that I am trying to give her a hard time, I am just trying to grab a better understanding from all POV.

    Next time, I wanna advise using WePay.. I am just gonna throw out there that, even though in their TOS it says no porn, even in this case I know it was for the pup - I have dealings with these people all the time. I am allowed to use my stage name, make up the names of any campaigns I want to, and more so, I keep the names on the campaigns to something like college tuition or something like that just to CMA. They have some awesome customer service via their live chat feature. I have mentioned many times what I do, I have not gotten in trouble for it. You can have the options on there set to not have the names displayed, the amount donated private, the total amount raised private, and you can make options for the amount to donate. Everything can be made private. You can also use it to send out invoices and that too. So, it is a better option and which I have used it plenty of times myself for the guys who have not wanted to deal with payoneer and just wanted to help me out. They charge 3.5% I believe as well. I have collected several times and again, have told them I am a cam girl, had plenty of conversations about the things that happened in the past with pay-pal, gotten ALL of my information verified up-front just to safeguard it because you can never be too sure. Credit card, all that jargon to make sure I am verified - and they have given me zero problems. You can put it on your blog or website too. So really, you can use it for your random donations such as this or even if you have a customer that wants to spoil you.

    Just an idea in case someone else wants to learn from the chip-in mistake. Again, I hope everyone gets their name removed that wants to.
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    miss, it was that the girls wanted anonymity, they didnt want their real names posted becuase they are on this board as far as i gathered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by crispy View Post
    miss, it was that the girls wanted anonymity, they didnt want their real names posted becuase they are on this board as far as i gathered.
    Yeah I see that - but I was figuring that they would all use their cam names because they all talk about keeping those things private. I was thinking it was the people that she cammed for that also helped her out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissMafia View Post
    Yeah I see that - but I was figuring that they would all use their cam names because they all talk about keeping those things private. I was thinking it was the people that she cammed for that also helped her out.
    When they donated with their personal paypal accounts it showed their real names. They didn't realize that the info would be made public if they left comments on the chip-in.

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    when you leave comments on chip in it signs it with your name that you pay with automatically. theres no way to delete it at all. thats why i wont use it again, that and they dont even have a way for you to delete your own account! thats the part that really makes me go wtf. i never knew that until i tryed. ive never had an account anywhere that didnt allow you the option to delete it.

    im not sure for the people who donate without a paypal account if it does the same thing or not. you can donate to chipin without a paypal account its still processed by them though.

    btw im glad the thread is back to where i was trying to take it, bout the technical aspects of the site.

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    Welp, try to contact their support team - see if they will take it down and stress the anonymity of the people that donated.
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    they dont have one serious.

    http://blog.chipin.com/support/

    read the top paragraph its baffling.

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    Well, what about making the page completely private then?

    Check the settings with a fine-tooth comb...
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    No name calling..
    Anyone who chose to donate, took a risk when they did so. Apparently Crispy has gotten back to everyone and is working on a solution to fix whatever it is that needs to be fixed. As for the Twitter b.s., well that's a whole other topic that needs to be handled on Twitter. I can't have every thread derailed and full of all this drama. It's not getting anyone anywhere and it's giving me a whole lot of work to do

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