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    Thumbs down SW should be more private!!!

    Today, I had a MFC member named Bandido or something like that come in my room and said "Hey you have a account on stripper web dont you?"

    I banned that person immediately...

    There's also two male members on this site that uses this site to pick up strippers. Twice, a male member pvt messaged me in chat asking me where I work etc and how much would it cost for a pvt show, begging to exchange facebooks, and other contact information.

    Shouldnt SW be more pvt? Like change it to a members only site? There's a girl on MFC who runs a forum and you cannot read any threads unless you're a cam girl. I've seen several forums like this so what does it take?

    I don't want these guys knowing about my relationship problems, work problems, other places I work, etc...this can hurt our business if more men know about us.

    Does anyone agree?

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    Default Re: SW should be more private!!!

    There are threads and threads and threads on this.

    Stripper Web is free. This encourages a large community, making it a pay site and the population will flee.

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    There is already a private forum called exoticdancersnet.com. They have only a certain amount of thread show for the public but for everything else you have to be a member, and im not just talking about picking a screen name and a password. Once you sign up, you have to take a picture of urself in ur stripper outfit while holding a sign with ur stage name or "i love money" and then they will look at it and approve you. Then u can fully access the whole site and other threads. This site is just an alternative for a bunch of dancers or newbies that want some more information into the world without having to go through all the loopholes. Unfortnately u get the creeps with that as well. But thats ur best bet exoticdancersnet.com

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    oh...ok, i did not realize that, thank u. maybe ill just be more careful about what i say on here. thanks army

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    I wasn't aware exoticdancers was still around. I used to post there (unless it was .com)and it was closed after people started flaming each other and an influx of trolls.

    I wish though that each section was not viewable unless a person had so many posts. We have seen recently new members bump old threads and most of the time it made no sense.

    JoJo, I've had male members here pm me for everything from sex, to private parties, to dates. While most of the males here are cool, especially the regular male posters, there are males here just for ulterior motives. When I get these "offers" I politely tell them I will not date guys here, or do a party for them, and certainly no sex. Many pm me asking me for suggestions for clubs in Chicago and things like that and those don't bother me.

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    Default Re: SW should be more private!!!

    im sure even if it was a paysite the males would come... if they pay for cam shows [and accounts there? not familiar with the area] im sure they would still sign up regardless. i like how the ladies only bits are private but it is the internet unfortunately we cant verify if anyones REALLY a female or just saying so to access those areas :\
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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    ^^i think that's mainly from the feature "similar threads." people see a link at the bottom of a recent thread to a dinosaur thread and they accidentally respond to the old one. One of the many reasons why I still dislike the new SW.
    It could be. One of the threads was almost 10 years old, but it was a well known poster who didn't realize it was an old thread. I do think some are trolls though because some of their posts were rather odd and a few were spammers.

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    I think the whole point of this is... You signed up. You agreed to the T&Cs, you posted here and you also get the benefits of community and information. Also, it's a free service and no doubt it takes a considerable amount to run.

    It was never claimed to be a democracy and if how the site is run offends you... Leave.

    Just my thoughts. This is how it's always been... (at least as long as i've been lurking and posting) And you have the choice not to post personal information. When in Rome... Do as the Romans. Or get out of Rome!

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    Default Re: SW should be more private!!!

    I'm sorry hon but there is no such thing as private on the internet.
    "Well done. Here are the test results: You are a horrible person. I'm serious, that's what it says: 'A horrible person.' We weren't even testing for that."

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    Quote Originally Posted by MaliaMonroe View Post
    There is already a private forum called exoticdancersnet.com. They have only a certain amount of thread show for the public but for everything else you have to be a member, and im not just talking about picking a screen name and a password. Once you sign up, you have to take a picture of urself in ur stripper outfit while holding a sign with ur stage name or "i love money" and then they will look at it and approve you. Then u can fully access the whole site and other threads. This site is just an alternative for a bunch of dancers or newbies that want some more information into the world without having to go through all the loopholes. Unfortnately u get the creeps with that as well. But thats ur best bet exoticdancersnet.com

    I still havent finished the process but wanted to add they do verify cam performers as well. I asked them this awhile ago - jsyk Jojo?





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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    I'm sorry hon but there is no such thing as private on the internet.
    Exactly. Scary but true.
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    @ natasha...telling me to get out...thanks a lot. (wtf?!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    telling me to get out...thanks.
    No... Just saying, that like most things in life, if you choose to join a group you also have the choice to leave. You also choose what to share and what you don't.
    This is the internet, not a democratic state.

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    No talking about the site that shall not be named!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post

    There's also two male members on this site that uses this site to pick up strippers. Twice, a male member pvt messaged me in chat asking me where I work etc and how much would it cost for a pvt show, begging to exchange facebooks, and other contact information.

    Shouldnt SW be more pvt?
    There's been a lot more than two of them.



    Unfortunately, a few of these guys have been far less than ethical in their pursuit of female members. We try to discourage this, but it's a free country and a free forum--and some female members also enjoy getting large amounts of money and gifts from willing male members. Which makes it much harder to discourage.
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    I've met a few blues from this site.. I guess I sometimes use it as a means of networking.

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    Thankfully, you at least have good judgement and will be able to avoid the predatory types.
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    ^ Ha! Remember what I posted in the mod's lounge?! You can never be too careful ladies!

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    Quote Originally Posted by _natasha View Post
    No... Just saying, that like most things in life, if you choose to join a group you also have the choice to leave. You also choose what to share and what you don't.
    This is the internet, not a democratic state.
    im complaining about the men trolling on the site, and bought up a suggestion or idea to help our community. i do realize i have the choice to leave, thank you.

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    I don't think Natasha meant it in a mean-spirited way, JoJoX.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MaliaMonroe View Post
    There is already a private forum called exoticdancersnet.com. They have only a certain amount of thread show for the public but for everything else you have to be a member, and im not just talking about picking a screen name and a password. Once you sign up, you have to take a picture of urself in ur stripper outfit while holding a sign with ur stage name or "i love money" and then they will look at it and approve you. Then u can fully access the whole site and other threads. This site is just an alternative for a bunch of dancers or newbies that want some more information into the world without having to go through all the loopholes. Unfortnately u get the creeps with that as well. But thats ur best bet exoticdancersnet.com
    Just to clarify, SW was here first.. Ya know, just sayin'..

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post

    There's also two male members on this site that uses this site to pick up strippers. Twice, a male member pvt messaged me in chat asking me where I work etc and how much would it cost for a pvt show, begging to exchange facebooks, and other contact information.
    I'm not going to wallow into the age-old argument about whether SW should be more private but I would like to mention that there are systems in place to protect you ladies from predatory male members. Offensive posts and PM's can be reported to the mods as can instances of men behaving badly in chat. See something say something...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I wasn't aware exoticdancers was still around. I used to post there (unless it was .com)and it was closed after people started flaming each other and an influx of trolls.

    I wish though that each section was not viewable unless a person had so many posts. We have seen recently new members bump old threads and most of the time it made no sense.

    JoJo, I've had male members here pm me for everything from sex, to private parties, to dates. While most of the males here are cool, especially the regular male posters, there are males here just for ulterior motives. When I get these "offers" I politely tell them I will not date guys here, or do a party for them, and certainly no sex. Many pm me asking me for suggestions for clubs in Chicago and things like that and those don't bother me.

    Different site, exoticdancernet.com is the one she is talking about. It is made up of mostly old school girls from here and others that like a little bit more privacy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    No talking about the site that shall not be named!!!!
    I'm assuming since pryce no longer is here it would be fine, there is no reason they can't coexist, it's all ancient history (4 years in fact!) SW is far bigger.
    Of course SW was here first! It's where everyone met in the first place.
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    Thanks Velvet for clarifying that--I was a little confused about the ExoticDancers.com reference myself.
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