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    I normally post in the camming connection but I needed a place to unload and maybe get some support. I have been married almost 5 years and I had planned to leave in June when my daughter got out of school but my husband beat me to it. He left two days ago. This is what I wanted but yet I am falling apart. We will tell our three girls (1, 4, and 5) together tomorrow. I' just not sure how to hold it together, We haven't been happy for 2 years but yet I am falling apart. How do you ladies handle it? How do you help your kids handle it? I'm trying to force myself to cam and make money but I fear I will cry on cam. UGH!

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    It will be ok. Do what you can to show the kids they are still loved by both of you (hopefully he doesnt ditch them) and keep your head up.

    If you think theres hope, or need to learn how to be stable separated family, try counseling.

    The good news is you both knew this was coming. Sucks he didnt talk to you about the timing and make a better plan.

    Pm me if you need to talk. Ive been there

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    Also, since your kids are relatively young it will be easier now more so than later.
    Tons of ladies do it and so can you! Good luck
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    Default Re: My Husband left me and the kids............

    Counseling is a great idea - it never hurts to have an outside person who is not emotionally involved to help sort things out for yourself - and as said above hopefully your ex will continue to be a support system for the kids - lots of hugs for you and your kids

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    Default Re: My Husband left me and the kids............

    It is def hard to go through any sort of break up, but throwing kids in the mix makes it even worse.

    It may feel like the end of the world right now, but you will get through it.
    Once you do you will find someone new that will make you happy or you may end up fixing things with your ex.

    Keep your head up & be strong.

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