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    Default How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    Over the last 2 weeks I have had 2 new types of requests from 2 different costumers, neither of them wanted me to dance for them, the first one just wanted me to say that I wanted to fuck him in the ass with a strap-on while his wife filmed it ..(?!)...one wanted me to kick him really hard in the balls (wtf?)
    I did both and I especially think I liked the kicking, omg I kicked him probably 20 times really hard...this idea just really caught me off guard though! I don't know why this has come to me, maybe I am giving off something that attracts these type of men lately? I actually dont think I mind it, it's refreshing, but I feel I don't really know what I am doing. I didn't really know how to act. I am a very nice and soft girl really, sensual rather than aggressive. I am more of a girlfriend experience type in VIP. Have any one had experience with these type of costumers? How do you deal with them and make them spend all they got? I want to step up my game if these men decide to come back and also be prepared if someone new comes along.... Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    Hmm...no answers... maybe I expressed myself badly?!

    Anyways...I have gotten some advice from a friend and basically the most important thing I think is to not go soft on these type of men. Like never ask them "are you OK?" or "am I doing this right?" or "are you enjoying this?" because that is not part of their fantasy!
    It should be easy to get these guys to spend everything they have on them because they like to be told what to do so it is even worth trying "get out your wallet and give me everything in it, do it now"

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    I don't really have experience with this type of customer (I'm also more of a sensual GFE stripper) but work with a girl who gets a lot of that type. She basically just tells them they're going to VIP or extending, so maybe try being very dominant with them and just taking control? It seems like that's what that kind of customer is looking for.

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    Sounds like you got it locked down. Just go with your flow. Keep on doin what'cher doin. But don't focus too much on the especially dysfunctional guys because that market sort of comes and goes.

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    I tend to attract these guys for some reason, too, and I do what I can. Mostly just take control and don't let go; don't let your confidence slip even if you're unsure. Watch their reactions to whatever you're doing and adjust accordingly. Don't ask for permission, but be aware if it looks like they're losing interest or you're heading down the wrong path with them. I find these guys more interesting than the average Joe. It's kind of fun and challenging.

    Wish I had more advice for you; I feel like I need to do some research on it, too.

    edit: One thing that has helped me get ideas is watching a bit of fetish porn where the woman is the one in control. Not for specific things to do, but more the attitude and the talk.

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    I get these guys all the time. Everyone at the club where I work knows I work as a dominatrix as well so they refer them to me. If you can figure out what they want they make great regulars!

    I have one client who gets a bunch of "lapdances" but I just stand in front of him and kick him in the balls... Some light taps and then a good hard one, stomp on his balls like you are putting out a cig, pull his hair, choke him, yell at him when he looks you in the eye and tell him you did not give him permission to look at you (a light slap in the face while doing this gets the point across).

    Hmmm lets see some other ideas for you: make him kiss your feet at the end of the dances and thank you, have him call you Mistress, Goddess, or Maam. When it comes to talking down to them you have to figure out if they like humiliation and what kind. Ex: calling them a worthless piece of shit, a dirty slut, and a useless submissive all create a very different vibe.

    For the strap on dirty talk guy something along the lines of "you are such a dirty little slut, wanting to make porn... I bet you want a real cock in your ass... You know women are far superior to men and thats why you want to get fuck hard by us isnt it?" something like that will keep him coming back for more.

    I know it seems hardcore and kinda scary at first but you have to realize it is all just a fantasy. And can be a lot of fun for us dancers! Take out your anger on them

    Hope that helps!

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    One of my coworkers had a customer who asked her to spit on his face in front of everyone. She did it without saying a work, hahahaha. Then he paid for a lap dance and asked her to kick him in the groin.

    If a customer asked me to do this stuff I wouldn't hesitate. I think it sounds fun. I've never been asked to hit someone but I do get customers who want a girl to be rough.

    I tend to like being dominating though

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    Yep, I've had these types before- sure breaks up a monotonous night
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    Thanks for some great advice! I cant wait for my next time...hope it happens tonight!

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    I had one that wanted me to punch him and to hit him with my shoes.





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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    Can you get in legal trouble for kicking them, etc. even tho they requested it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by leiaswift
    Can you get in legal trouble for kicking them, etc. even tho they requested it?
    I dont think so...? If it's on camera it's quite obvious the guy asked for it since he just sits and takes it

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    Kicking and/or dirty talk = charging more.

    It's great because sometimes you don't even have to do the actual dance.

    Works for me.




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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    I think it's nice that you got some fetish customers! I always liked those ones. It sounds like you are doing just fine to me. Since it IS a specialized service, don't be afraid to sell a CR or a "block of time" if you club doesn't have a VIP room.

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    Default Re: How to hustle costumers that want to be treated bad?

    One of my regulars was exactly like this. Really nice man and was never rude to me. But he wanted me to be rough. He didn't even get real dances just the kind where he was hurt here and there. I think he liked me so much over other girls because I am a sub just like he was. We worked well together on that and he understood his boundaries. It was a pleasant work relationship. Even though others at the club thought it was weird for some reason I attract the oddballs lol. I'm totally cool with it though, makes my shift more interesting.





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