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    Default Did I go about this the wrong way?

    SO is not ok with me camming, but he is ok with me doing it until I graduate. Now that camming is taking a dive, I'm ready to get out of it. I'm planning on becoming a waitress at a strip club (btw, does anyone know how much they average on a night? Is $500/week doable?). I told SO that I want to be a waitress at a strip club, and he was against it at first, but a few minutes later, after convincing him that the money would be better and I'd be happier, he told me that he supports whatever choice I make and that he is behind me and he loves me. He then said that he was ok with it as long as I didn't strip . The problem is that I want to eventually work my way into becoming a stripper. I'm hoping that after working as a waitress for a while, he will slowly be ok with me stripping. I don't want to ruin our relationship, but I also want to be in a better financial situation. I feel like I should've flat out told him that I want to be a stripper, but part of me feels like I should ease him into the idea of it.

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    Default Re: Did I go about this the wrong way?

    Waitress money varies so much by club, so it's truly impossible to estimate if you'd make $500/week.

    But if you want to strip, don't waste your time waitressing. Just go back and tell him that you want to strip because it's way more financially lucrative, but were too nervous to tell him that's what you really wanted to do because you weren't sure how he'd react. And then hit the pole!

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    Default Re: Did I go about this the wrong way?

    I find it funny that he was against you waitressing at a strip club until you mentioned money.

    If he really does support your choices, is always behind you, and loves you... Then he will be more open minded about you stripping.

    I agree that going ahead and making your goals known but easing into it sounds like something I'd do too. It really depends on how much he is against it.

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    Default Re: Did I go about this the wrong way?

    I wouldn't have lied about wanting to strip. Lying will just start problems. My so hates that I strip, but he'd rather know I'm doing it than have me lie. As for waitressing, hard to say what money you'd make. Depends on the club, customers and your shifts.

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    Default Re: Did I go about this the wrong way?

    I wouldn't "ease" my SO into anything. He met me as a stripper and I'll be damned if I'm going to give up my money and my security for his insecurity issues. I don't mean to be harsh but I have seen too many situations like yours and they don't end well. Either the female 1)winds up quitting stripping and resents the SO or 2)dumps him sooner in lieu of $$$$.

    Most of them come around because as I have said before greed can win over almost anyone. My husband is a greedy fuck and will openly admit to it. He loves the money.
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    Default Re: Did I go about this the wrong way?

    I do want to be a waitress before stripping. Even before we met, I'd planned to do that just to get comfortable with working in a strip club. I want to eventually become a stripper, but I don't want to do it immediately. Even once I mentioned the money, he still wasn't really for it, until I kept talking about it, so it isn't just the money that convinced him to say "ok." We've talked about strippers in the area before, and he's mentioned that I'd make a lot of money, but not in a "I want you to strip," kind of way.

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