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    What would possess an otherwise intelligent & a VERY sales-savvy woman to go into explicit detail about her latest boy-toy sexathon to her lesbian SC regular? This is the second time that she's done this, and it has happened before with other dancers that I have gotten to know fairly well. Why would they think that I want to hear this stuff? I know that I'm a good listener and all...but PUH-LEEZE! I do NOT share your love of sausage! As she talked about her latest liaison (again, in explicit detail), I was mentally knocking down the amount of dances that I was going to buy. By the time she wrapped up her painfully detailed fuck-fest story, our usual 1 hr VIP was now gonna be a simple 2fer1 - the cheapest they offer. Talk about losing the mood. When we finally headed over to the dance area, she looked genuinely surprised at this most unfortunate financial turn of events for her. I wonder - would she have talked about this kind of thing if I was a guy? What on earth was she thinking? That it turned me on? Seriously? I certainly didn't bring up the subject - she did. She knows that I have a "wife" - I can't begin to imagine what was going thru her head, and I didn't bother asking. She doesn't know it yet, but she's probably lost me as a customer, and its a shame because we definitely had a good thing going there for awhile. But now I have that disturbing image of her and her boy-toy bumping uglies emblazed in my brain, and there's no turning back now.

    Are you male customers routinely subjected to this type of thing? I know most of us don't even want to know if the dancers are married or otherwise "taken", since it can ruin the fantasy. I for one certainly don't want to hear who they've just banged before coming to work!


    Damn - my luck with dancers lately is really in the shitter. I think it's time to clean the slate and start anew .

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    It sounds to me like the offending dancers are forgetting that you are a girl who likes girls! It's simply bad business on their part. You may be female but you are not "one of the girls". They should understand that and be smart enough to act accordingly. I mean, for crying out loud, they may not share your sexual orientation but how smart do you have to be to realize that yapping to you about their latest sexual conquest is just as dumb as yapping to a male customer about it!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    It sounds to me like the offending dancers are forgetting that you are a girl who likes girls! It's simply bad business on their part. You may be female but you are not "one of the girls". They should understand that and be smart enough to act accordingly. I mean, for crying out loud, they may not share your sexual orientation but how smart do you have to be to realize that yapping to you about their latest sexual conquest is just as dumb as yapping to a male customer about it!

    Exactly!
    I thought I was in the fucking Twilight Zone. I think that you're absolutely right, yoda - some of these dancers forget that I like girls, and slip into "girl talk" with me when they get to know me a bit and start getting too comfortable and (here's that word again) - COMPLACENT!

    Yet another reason why I kick myself when I start spending too much time with one dancer - I know that when it's runs it's course, it won't end well for one reason or another.

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    Doesn't she think about why you're going to a VIP with her?
    Not to have a girly blab about who fucks who that's for sure! She must have forgot that just because you're a girl, doesn't mean you're into juicy dressing room type gossip.

    Customer is a customer. It's terrible that she ruined that fantasy ans mood for you.

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    not telling a lesbian customer about b/g sex, especially mine and especially in detail is just pure common sense. even if i was with a female customer who also likes men, i wouldnt be telling such things. it is just common sense to talk about lesbian sex.

    and no, i do not tell my male customers about this either unless he was probing for it.

    if i were you, id find someone else who provides better customer service.... and common sense.

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    ...it does sound like she may be too comfortable around you and that she may even see you as a "friend" as well as a regular. Or maybe it was reccent, she was still caught up in what had happened and wanted to share the juicy details with anyone who would listen (in that case, the girls in the DR would have had the same ear bashing lol). It's not very appropriate or professional really.

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    "Do not share your love of sausage" lmao.

    Why didn't you speak up and say "Hey, I'm lesbian remember, no offence, but I'm not into stories invovling cock". I'm sure she would have prefered that to losing a patron.

    I do admit that some strippers have a hard time focusing on the task at hand and go on,weird tangents, but thankfully not all.

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    ^^^I could have spoken up, but the psychological damage was already done. She killed the fantasy. She not only killed it - she ran it over with a big Mack truck. You'd think that the look of sheer horror on my face would have been a dead giveaway that I wasn't exactly enjoying the conversation .


    I'm still shaking my head over this.


    That's two dancers gone in two weeks.
    I'm on a baaaaaad roll here.
    I think I need an SC exorcism or something.

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    I've heard many an explicit tale I had no interest in hearing from dancers. What's worst of all is when you then actually see the douchebag she told you about later in the club or them together at another club or whatever.
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    I don't expect my fantasies to be acted out, especially in a strip club.

    One stripper told me she was a lesbian and had a girlfriend. It was okay, because I was playing with her very large tits when she told me about her girlfriend. Anyway, she could have been lying, either to stop me from asking her out or to turn me on. So what - I only would have asked her out so I could play with her tits.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    This... also, girls out here are used to male customers who "know the game" and who feel more special getting to chit-chat all about dancer's personal lives/aren't bothered by girls being married or engaged as long as they still get their dick sucked and such.
    FWIW, I enjoy sharing some personal info w/ the dancers that I get to know - but isn't it common sense for them to realize that I wouldn't have any interest in hearing about her boyfriend banging her all hours of the day & night? Now if she had told me it was her GIRLFRIEND doing that it would have been a completely different story, of course . That's what threw me - this particular dancer was quite the saleswoman....I remember the number she did on me when we first met. Damn she was good and knew just what to do & say to get my juices flowing. So what happened? Personally I believe she pushed the envelope and got completely complacent. Ultimately it cost her plenty.



    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    I don't expect my fantasies to be acted out, especially in a strip club.

    A stripclub is exactly the place I want my fantasies acted out.
    If I wanted real life I'd stay home.
    To each their own, I guess.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    ^Her loss. Next!


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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I mean, for crying out loud, they may not share your sexual orientation but how smart do you have to be to realize that yapping to you about their latest sexual conquest is just as dumb as yapping to a male customer about it!
    I once had a customer (male) who got turned on by dancers who would talk to him about the sex they had with their boyfriends/husbands. I can understand where the OP is coming from because I'm sure she doesn't care about anything involving a man in a sexual encounter, but there are guys who do like to hear those stories.





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    ...there are guys who do like to hear those stories.
    Oh, know there are some...Of course, there are guys who like to get their balls crushed by a dancer in 7" heels too...
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    ANY dancer worth her salt would never talk about her sexual escapades in the SC. The only exception to that would be telling a MALE customer, that is into the whole BI thing, about a crazy one off with some girl, preferably another dancer
    Some of my long time regulars knew I was married but I sure as hell didn't talk to them about sex with the husband. wtf?
    Sometimes I wonder about the dumb shit girls do.
    One thing about it, you probably taught her a lesson, if she was smart enough to "get it"
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    Funny when I tell my male customers about my adventures with other women it never fails to excite & sell more dances even when they know & been told by me I'm a lesbian with zero sexual interest in them. I however do this while giving a hell of a tease/lap dance & giving them the details I know they will enjoy . Men like wanting what they can't have & the converting the lesbian fantasy so it works for me.

    Personally when I'm on the other side as a female customer that checks out all the local scs as a hobby of mine. I've only received exxxceptional customer service from other dancers except the few girls that are totally afraid they are going to catch being a lesbian from giving me a ld or taking my tip money, but I never pick those out 4 myself -- my guy friends sometimes make me suffer thru & I'll just sit there & laugh cuz I know I should be getting a refund for this horrible air dance my buddy paided her for, but I sort of like how uncomfortable she gets trying to be sexy all afraid of me while I'm completely relaxed laughing at what a bad job she is doing. Sometimes I just want to tell them to stop & ask to get on their laps to show them how to give a girl a dance that isn't pure crap.

    Still I don't bother much with those girls as why would I when there are soo many hot truly bi & les girls in the bizz that get me their a game & then sum. I've never needed a dollar to hookup with another stripper, but I spend the money really just so it's understood that for me it's just casual fun & supporting the bizz I work in. Besides I only date dancers I hookup with off the clock as a general rule. If they give me more then the tease I paid for I feel cheated, but I don't get upset over it.

    Now as for the treatment other girls get from me while I'm working. It depends maybe if she is a hot girl & I know I can get away with whatever I want with a girl I might just go push her against a wall & have my way if I want (after I make her spend something out of sheer principle) or I'll let her hands touch alittle more then I would allow male customers during an exxxtra sexy dance (if she is asking for it & I'm in the mood), but if I'm not digging the chick the fact I like chicks might work against her cuz I expect men to turn me off & dancing for them to just be a routine. However if a woman turns me off then I won't care if she wants to go to vip cuz even though if she is a good well behaved customer I'll still sell her the tease, but it's just that much more awkward for me to run my a game on a girl as then I got to deal with them crying & not getting that no is no as girls are not so used to being turned on just to be teased for money. IDK then some female customers try to talk to me like they are my mother & then turn away & try to go down on my out of nowhere. It just effects me differently & mainly cuz female customers can act like they don't know the rules unlike most male customers that get the business & boundaries of the stripper/customer relationship.

    Still if a girl told me some story about what her & her bf did last week I'ld just tell her how I'ld bet her that if she was fucking with me tonight I'ld make her 4get all about it & then I'ld walk away. Or maybe I would trade sex stories & see how she feels about hearing about all the dirty naughty things I like to do to other girls.

    I wouldn't pay to hear all about it, but hey in a club full of dancers there will be another girl that wants my money & won't pull the (I'm dancing for a lesbian so I have to feel the need to tell her how much I love doing dick routine) as unlike the flip side with men it really doesn't work as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    ANY dancer worth her salt would never talk about her sexual escapades in the SC. The only exception to that would be telling a MALE customer, that is into the whole BI thing, about a crazy one off with some girl, preferably another dancer
    THIS. IMHO most dancers understand that telling guys about their sexual escapades with other guys = insta-turnoff. Now there are exceptions to every rule, but IMHO most guys do not want to think about other guys banging their ITC playdates.

    I've had some girls share some fucked up stories over time, including tales of childhood sexual abuse, prison stints, baby Daddy drama (also including prison stints), child custody issues, multiple drugs ingested that day, GF issues, fucked up family situations, rape, theft, and others. But even THESE girls knew better than to tell a story involving another guy's penis, which should tell you something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Oh, know there are some...Of course, there are guys who like to get their balls crushed by a dancer in 7" heels too...
    Yeah, or customers that just love to be beaten up. Before I stopped dancing (since I started showing a lot of belly) several months ago, a guy wanted me to punch him in the face with my left hand because he likes the sting of rings on his face, and he was like "oh yeah, it hurts so good, I love it" every time I punched him.





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    lopaw is spot on as usual. In the same vein, any dancer who tried to impress me with girl/girl got my boot on her backside (figuratively speaking). A dancer as a salesperson should figure out quickly what her customer is into. Keep it close to the vest, ask a few questions and then make her move.

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    Its doesn't bother me to hear a chick talking about fucking other men, in fact when talking dirty I'll being up the fantasy of having her gangbanged on stage on my orders.

    As for lesbianism, I've actually brought the fantasy of us fucking other dancers into the dirty talk. Its a great way to work out frustations with hot air dancers and its cheaper then duo dances. I might do that with celeberities too.

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    So nice to see you again, FBR! Your contributions to our (sordid) conversations was sorely missed!


    A quick update on this story - against my better judgement I went back this weekend to see Dancer X and tell her where she went wrong. I felt I owed her at least an explanation of why I was blowing her off for the last month. She was genuinely apologetic and I could almost see her mentally kicking herself for not realizing the damage she was doing with each new detail during her story-telling. I politely told her that I wasn't interested in getting any more dances, and that hopefully we could still be "friends". Ha! That's when she went a little apeshit on me (in two different languages!), which is what I kind of expected. Oh well.

    And so another chapter closes in the saga "How the LapDance Turns"

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    LOL this is a funny story lopaw. Not really for you though! Silly girl. I tell every customer I basically have not had sex in ages except of course with my many bi-curious girlfriends, but "even then I really don't get much attention... you know its hard working nights"... I find that goes over better than "omg the reason my pussy is a little bit pinker than usual and juicy is because it took a deliciously satisfying pounding about 20 mins before work" - which is probably the truth. :-/

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    Maybe she thought you were getting too attached to her and felt the need to remind you that OTC was off the table. If you were her regular customer, maybe for whatever reason she felt uncomfortable with the way your relationship was progressing and wanted to cool things down. I've felt the need to remind regulars about my husband before. Sounds like she overdid it, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    I find that goes over better than "omg the reason my pussy is a little bit pinker than usual and juicy is because it took a deliciously satisfying pounding about 20 mins before work" - which is probably the truth. :-/
    I dunno...that's working for me! Of course, I'm a lecherous old perv....
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    Quote Originally Posted by azaleanola View Post
    Maybe she thought you were getting too attached to her and felt the need to remind you that OTC was off the table. If you were her regular customer, maybe for whatever reason she felt uncomfortable with the way your relationship was progressing and wanted to cool things down. I've felt the need to remind regulars about my husband before. Sounds like she overdid it, though.

    No, I doubt that was the case at all. I didn't see her all that often, and when I requested her company she'd come in on a Saturday (her day off) just to see my wallet...er....I mean ME .
    I told her at our second or third encounter not to worry - that I had no interest in taking our meetings OTC. There really wasn't a reason to. And I am very glad that we never did.

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