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    I just saw a girl say to her room:

    "No normal girl can squirt. You've seen too much of that fake porn."

    I'd be lying if I said I wasn't floored and flabbergasted! I know a lot of women have not had an ejaculating orgasm, but to deny them based on ignorance is a bit odd considering our ability to quickly trade information online.

    So it made me wonder; what are some misconceptions women have about our own bodies and profession?



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    Oh MAN it's going to get hot in here...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Incantatious View Post
    Oh MAN it's going to get hot in here...
    I think I'm missing something lol. Why do you think that?



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    I do sometimes feel tempted to tell guys "You've been watching too much porn" when they say things like "I want you to cum all over the place." *rolls eyes*

    I was going through my ImLive host recorded sessions, and I was SMH listening to how many times that guy had said to me "Are you gonna cum for me? I want you to cum all over the place." Sorry, but how am I supposed to relax and enjoy the session when you keep demanding me to "cum all over the place" (I will cum wherever I fucking cum, okay? LMAO).

    And usually, when a person cums, it doesn't go "all over the place"...it goes in that spot beneath you. Cum is not gonna splatter onto all four sides of my wall...lmao.
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    I'm not sure it's a misconception. There is still no actual proof that this is ejaculation in the sense that a man ejaculates when climaxing for example. In most cases it is simply urine.

    I've had to bite my lip a with a few guys before, in order to not roll my eyes and say oh for fuck's sake you're watching too much fucking porn and have lost all track of reality!!! But I don't, instead I say mmm yeah baby so hot isn't it? no i can't do it, but guess what else I CAN do.. then go do something else lol x

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexysusie View Post
    I've said this myself a few times. Seriously, what woman in her right mind would do this naturally for fun? lol. It's wee eww. No offense to anyone who loves doing it x
    lol well like TheBrownFox said, it doesn't go all over the place all the time. And you don't really have complete control over it, so it's not like every woman can do it 100% of the time.



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    I'd like to weigh in on this: I only squirt sometimes, but when I do, it smells nothing like pee and it doesn't stain like urine would. It has a totally different texture that is almost slippery. I'm not sure if anyone else pees when they squirt, but I sure don't.




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    Quote Originally Posted by maryjaynexo View Post
    I'd like to weigh in on this: I only squirt sometimes, but when I do, it smells nothing like pee and it doesn't stain like urine would. It has a totally different texture that is almost slippery. I'm not sure if anyone else pees when they squirt, but I sure don't.
    The possibility of there being urine in your ejaculate is more common than most realize. We ejaculate from the same tube used to pee, so it does happen. However, it's usually trace amounts and goes completely unnoticed.

    I'm trying to remember more misconceptions women have about women, but they're on the tip of my tongue (trying to recall past conversations).

    One I remember (not sure if this really counts as a misconception) is that camming would ruin a girl's reputation in being a scream queen (a sexy female who plays screaming victims in horror films)



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    I would like to weigh in on this from a personal side... I squirt, and I squirt allot!
    I usually can't squirt if my bladder feels full, I squirt the best after I have gone to the bathroom and am completely empty.
    Trust me, my husband and past sex partners would tell you it does not resemble piss in anyway.
    It tastes good, it's clear (mine is anyway), and feels AMAZING!

    I really wish all women could experience it!

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    Squirting is insanely fun.
    I seem to notice a general trend in girls who can't or have not squirt(ed) thinking it's just pee or faked. I myself figured these girls had to be peeing because that's what I thought I was doing when I'd gush. It's not always legit, but it's common for girls to squirt nowadays when there's so much info about it.
    I was watching a sex documentary and a scientist took a sample and examined it in the lab. It contains the same chemicals as male ejaculation minus the sperm. They couldn't even find traces of urine. Where as guys can't pee when they orgasm we can't either. Triggering the gspot is how to really squirt, but when you push the grape-like organelle it presses into your urethra making it so pee can't come out. Sure, some DOES come out with it especially since there is some in the urethra itself. I even looked up the doctor online to check it out more and read some of her work on it.

    I'm not proud of it but
    I find myself often looking at cams and thinking omg what a stupid bitch...then I realize I'm being petty. I don't know if this actually the girl or a persona she puts on or even if it's what she does all the time. I often mentally correct myself going no she's probably not stupid but that moment right there I thought that was stupid.

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    Oh, the squirting-is-just-peeing debate.

    Argh!!! This is a real hot-button for me, so please forgive me if I get a little...agitated.

    The reason that this is such a hot button for me is because this misconception (and it IS a misconception) that squirting is "just peeing" has seriously fucked up my ability to have orgasms. Female ejaculation is never mentioned in sex-ed classes, your-body-is-changing books...anywhere. As such, when I had my first orgasm as a pre-teen, and ejaculated, I had no idea what happened. In fact, my mother also had no idea what happened, decided that I had wet the bed (at 12!!) and told me that if it happened again, we would have to go to the doctor. I was too embarrassed to tell her that I had been masturbating. I started stopping before I actually came, because I was so afraid to "pee" again.

    The next time it happened was with a guy, and again, he thought I had wet myself. (bear in mind, this was over 10 years ago, basically in the pre-internet stone age!! Guys hadn't seen all the squirting porn like they have now) He was absolutely DISGUSTED, and even told his friends so that they all made fun of me. Awesome. Cue another few years of not ever actually orgasming with a guy, because I thought that there was something wrong with me, that if I kept doing the stuff that felt good, I would pee.

    In the next few years, it happened a few times, always when I was drunk enough to let my guard down and actually just enjoy the sex. And EVERY. Single. Time. The guy thought that I had peed on him, and was appalled. So gradually, I taught myself to hold back. To not cum as hard. To not enjoy it.

    After a while, I found out that this was actually called squirting or ejaculation, and I was floored! This thing that felt SO GOOD wasn't, in fact, some dirty disgusting medical issue that was causing me to pee when I came, but was OK. Finding out that many guys actually liked it was a freaking revelation!

    But the really depressing thing is that after nearly a decade of trying to PREVENT myself from squirting, now that I know that it is ok, and actually a good thing, I CAN"T DO IT. There is a psychological block created from years of people thinking "its just pee". I can orgasm (thank god!!) but I keep thinking that there is something more, or better, because I remember it being so much better - and I am missing out, courtesy of all it "its-just-pee"ers.

    So guess what? It IS a misconception. I'm sure that there are some girls who don't squirt, and there are some who are working and don't squirt, so fake it with pee. But there are a LOT of girls who DO squirt. And I am betting that I am not the only one who went through years of a less-than-fabulous sex life and low-self-esteem thinking that there was something wrong with them because of it.

    SO - next time you start up the "oh its just pee" thing - maybe you should stop perpetuating that horrible myth!!! THINK about what it means if you are, in fact, wrong about that. Think about how it would feel if someone told you that the way you orgasm was wrong or disgusting. Just...think about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLuna View Post
    I just saw a girl say to her room:

    "No normal girl can squirt. You've seen too much of that fake porn."

    I'd be lying if I said I wasn't floored and flabbergasted! I know a lot of women have not had an ejaculating orgasm, but to deny them based on ignorance is a bit odd considering our ability to quickly trade information online.

    So it made me wonder; what are some misconceptions women have about our own bodies and profession?
    Yes, there are women who can squirt.... HOWEVER..... I would venture a guess that 99% of them on cam who "squirt" are actually just peeing and or doing something else to fake it. I promise you. lol A particular top model comes to mind................ I bet that room smells like total piss. YUCK.

    But yes, squirting IS REAL, some women on cam can do it, but if a girl is doing it just sitting there in her free chat, or can claim to do it in a split second = FAKE.
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    I wish i got so wet, to shoot it all over the place, then the lubricant factory would go out of business. Not so wet since on birth control, doesn't matter how aroused, and certainly not happening on cam for 6- 8 hours a day to make a decent living. Real squirters should charge high as the sky, because that's some seriously special stuff you do, if it's real, and i think most of you are underselling yourself big time then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    But yes, squirting IS REAL, some women on cam can do it, but if a girl is doing it just sitting there in her free chat, or can claim to do it in a split second = FAKE.
    Actually, although rarer, being able to squirt basically on command doesn't always mean fake!! I used to work with a pvt party dancer who did squirt shows, and although she couldn't do it INSTANTLY, she could squirt repeatedly in one day - she just had to stay really hydrated...and it took her a lot of practice to learn which spot to hit juuuuust right to get it every time...but dayum that girl had some distance and accuracy!!

    And I was working with her doing couples shows and going down on her and "cleaning up" etc etc, and there was no pee to be seen....

    I really don't understand WHY women are so quick to dismiss female ejaculation....we would never think that a guy was faking it if he was working on cam and ejaculating multiple times in one day....
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    I don't doubt there are some women that have mastered it and know exactly what to do and can do it quickly and/or multiple times a day.

    I'm just saying..... take a look at the average "squirter" on streamate for example...... it's so blatantly obvious that it's fake, any REAL squirter out there should be able to tell you the same thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    I don't doubt there are some women that have mastered it and know exactly what to do and can do it quickly and/or multiple times a day.

    I'm just saying..... take a look at the average "squirter" on streamate for example...... it's so blatantly obvious that it's fake, any REAL squirter out there should be able to tell you the same thing.
    To be honest, I never watch the other girls on cam - either I am away from the computer, or I am logged in!! So I can't really comment on exactly what they are doing or how they look....

    I'm just saying that there are many women who squirt in different ways, amounts, etc etc. I'm sure some fake it. I doubt it is anywhere near 99%.....but I could be very wrong, because I don't watch other rooms.
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    Not sure how this turned into a squirting debate lol.

    I didn't say squirting didn't exist. I said that it was a misconception that the average women (outside of porn) didn't have the ability to do it. I posted the thread to talk about the things our own sex is misguided about.



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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    take a look at the average "squirter" on streamate for example...... it's so blatantly obvious that it's fake, any REAL squirter out there should be able to tell you the same thing.
    Yeah truly.. I do hope this won't be looked upon as gossip / bitching, (no names here!), but I mean, the one I've seen who squirts, does it in free chat.. with, er.. no pussy stimulation whatsoever. And the way it "squirts" looks exactly like how piss comes out.

    I've seen some squirters (in porn) who appear to be firing that squirt out like a water pistol! And I just don't think it's possible for urine to pass quite so... aggressively! XD




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    Quote Originally Posted by Incantatious View Post
    Yeah truly.. I do hope this won't be looked upon as gossip / bitching, (no names here!), but I mean, the one I've seen who squirts, does it in free chat.. with, er.. no pussy stimulation whatsoever. And the way it "squirts" looks exactly like how piss comes out.

    I've seen some squirters (in porn) who appear to be firing that squirt out like a water pistol! And I just don't think it's possible for urine to pass quite so... aggressively! XD




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    Just because some one can just about squirt on demand or almost instantly it doesn't mean it's fake..it means she knows her body. I can squirt in under a minute if I tried.
    I'd definitely say if she can"squirt" without touching herself it's fake unless she mentally jab her gspot.

    I hate the misconception that having babies makes your boobs bigger. Well...it stretches them when they fill with milk but once the milks gone..so is the fullness. I've heard girls go on about how they cant wait to have a baby and have big boobs...WTF??

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    I learned the other day that the existence of the g-spot is still up for debate. :| Some hardcore feminists are actually really upset about any research that suggests that it does because they feel it's cheapening the sexual experience from the woman's perspective, making female pleasure too similar to a man's; which is to say that a male's arousal is shallow and uncivilized. They also claim that by perpetuating the "myth" that this puts undue pressure on females to perform in a certain way and makes sex traumatizing (i.e. "Oh noes, I didn't have an orgasm from this position! What is wrong with me????" -___-;;. I believe this would stop being an issue if people would demystify the female body and stop dismissing every experience that doesn't mesh up with what's conventionally acceptable. We are not all the same.

    Anyway...Dan Savage was counseling some couple on this clip of a show about the female not being able to orgasm unless she was on top. Mr. Savage said that there is no such thing as any orgasm outside of a clitoral one. I was miffed and appalled. Doggy is my favorite position for a reason and my clit is in no way being stimulated when I get off that way. It pissed me off that he said that because I feel like he doomed this chick to a life of mediocre orgasms by saying that. Clitoral stimulation is the bees knees, but when that spot that isn't supposed to exist gets hit just right...mind-blowing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spinnerette View Post
    I learned the other day that the existence of the g-spot is still up for debate. :|


    Oh yeah, the g-spot is there...lol. My newest toy is a Don Wand glass toy with a bent tip, and it's made specifically for the g-spot. It's so much better than my other glass toy, and every time I use it I feel like I'm gonna pee...which probably means I may soon be approaching 'squirter status'?
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    Very few women are able to or ever have, squirted, so it goes without saying that the majority of us tend to think that it's either impossible, or very very rare. I personally have never done it and don't know anyone who has (that's told me about it anyway lol), I've always thought of it as an american porn thing. I'm pretty sure most of the girls who do it on cam are faking though.. guys love to think they can "make you squirt, mmm yeah bb, i made you soooo hot!" This is an interesting run through on the history of female ejaculation according to sexology http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation x

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