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    I recently got out of a long relationship and while my ex could be a sweet man and definitely the best dad, he could also be really mean and rude to me, and I simply got the impression that he didn't love me as much as he said he did. Everything was always made out to be my fault and he never put much effort into making me happy. On top of that, he was broke! I often had to work extra to help him out with gas and stuff.

    Now that I'm single and don't want to seriously date anybody for a long time, I do want a sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship. When I'm ready to be in a relationship, I'd like to find someone who I do love, but also someone with a really good job. I hated being in a poor relationship (I think the relationship would've been more tolerable if he was a better me, but I didn't need someone he brought me down financially and emotionally) and I know it's not how I want to spend the rest of my life.

    Are there any other sugar babies who want to eventually marry rich?

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    Lol. I think most if not all SB's would marry for money lol. O.K. O.K. I am overgeneralizing but be very careful with the "Pretty Woman" myth and all of its variations. While not unheard of, it is very rare for an escort or SB to marry a client or an SD.

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    Hell yea I would! Who wouldn't? lol...There are a lot of pro athletes I've met that would love to marry. Just so many cheat but with all that money lol...i might be tolerant.

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    Usually those that say "I'm going to marry rich" end up marrying the janitor. I'm just sayin...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    Usually those that say "I'm going to marry rich" end up marrying the janitor. I'm just sayin...
    Rotfl. True. Very true.

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    i want one lol

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    It could work but you'd really have to think about it.

    A sugar baby/daddy relationship is a business arrangement, if it wasn't you'd just have sex with him for free. That means your relationship will start on unequal terrain (he has the money/power) and he could forever hold that over your head. You'd also have to consider if that was what this sugar daddy actually wanted that kind of relationship. Some sugar daddies are married, others have busy work schedules involving a lot of travel. People in the "pay for play" business typically have it set up that way for a reason, and while he may want a "relationship" when you are together, there's a convenience factor to pay for play. (i.e. you go away when they don't want you around). There is also little-to-no commitment and marrying one another would mean revealing the relationship to family, the inevitable questions, and him sharing his things with you...forever.

    Could it work? Yes. Would I do it? Probably not. I don't believe in marrying for money because I think it can wind up backfiring on you in the long run, and money is not the basis for a loving, caring, long-term relationship. If you met a sugar daddy and fell in love with him for HIM, and didn't care about the money, that would be an exception. I caution you in your journey.
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    http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com...men-marry-for/ just saw this in my rss feed reader.. Relevant?

    The comments below respond to some of the bloggers questions... the ability to earn/work ethic is a value, and a persons values have to be congruent with our own. Part of the love equation?

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    I don't like to think of SD/SB relationships. Those that happen are pretty rare and lucky!
    If you are constantly around men with money then your chances of marrying one will increase.

    Do you know how to put yourself in an upperclass enviroment?

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    Unfortunately, by the time a woman is most emotionally primed for a SD/SB relationship, she's usually older than the ideal age to be a SB. Younger women are usually still looking for the love and romance, (along w/the wealth), and as someone posted upthread, these SD's aren't looking for that. Young girls aren't typically at a point yet where they are ready for a pragmatic, business like arrangement/relationship with a man, (although some women are that way from a young age, everyone's different). A sugar baby in her mid 30's and beyond often have to look to a man in his 60's and up for a sugar daddy, since most SD's up to their mid 40's want a college aged SB.

    I agree that if you're serious about marrying a rich SD, you really do have to go where the rich men go. It could take time to figure out the best places in your city and some careful planning and effort.

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    I was married to someone with a lot of money. He was one of the most manipulating and financially controlling men I have ever had the misfortune to meet.

    Just because you marry someone with money doesn't mean they will let you have access to that money. They usually will put you on an allowance. In general, those types of men know that since they control the purse strings they control your strings. Now that I have that experience under my belt, I personally would never again trade my freedom for money unless I ever happen to meet a really amazing lawyer with a soft spot for me that will work pro bono in case it doesn't pan out.

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    I can't remember where I read it, but reading this thread, a line springs to mind...

    "people who marry for money usually end up earning it"

    money IS power, and if a guy is totally financially supporting us, we give a hell of alot of power away

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    Completely and totally agree with that quote lovehooks... As well as the power aspect of it thats been brought up several times.

    I wasnt married to money, but I was in a long-term relationship with it, and I walked out of it saying to myself, I will never put myself in a situation where a guy says "I dont pay you to to think" to me again. He wasnt always like that, but it evolved to a point where he felt he put more value into the relationship because numbers are a lot more concrete than efforts are. He could (and did) tally up everything he ever spent on me, and everything I put into our relationship meant nothing because it didnt have a monetary value..hence my value was not as big as his..hence I had right to say anything if I didnt agree with him. Screw that.

    I swore after that, that I would never ever get involved with a guy who had money again. And as luck would have it...found my average joe schmo, who turned out to also be very well off. And when I had some problems, he helped me out even though I told him I didnt want or need his help...and hrmm..guess what? Now he holds it over my head, tallying up every dime he ever gave me...even though I did a shit load more for him than he ever did for me when we were together. But again...that has no value compared to monetary value.

    No thanks...I dont want to marry rich, I dont even want to date rich. Unless its for my time and companionship as an escort lol but no way Im going to end up in a situation like that again in my personal life. In case you cant tell..it still pisses me off!! If I ever do settle down and marry again, it will definitely be for an average guy who has a good standard of living/lifestyle. Im not looking for riches and wealth, just someone who can hold their own.

    BTW, the whole idea that if youre in your 30's etc, that you can only end up with an SD in his 60's...not true at all I dont know if Im a magnet for wealthy men or what...but Im 35 and still get the brush ups with men my age and up who are interested in a relationship with me. Most men over 50 feel too old for me and out of my league...and will usually give me the "If I were 20 years younger!!" thing But not all men want a 20-something college co-ed. Not only in my personal life, but also as an escort, many guys interested in me wont look twice at a lady under 30 because they want someone they can relate to, and also be able to be seen with without being looked at like a chump or a wallet...especially if they have a pretty high position, perception is everything and they dont want to be laughed at behind thier backs for what people will assume for dating someone young enough to be thier daughter.
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    I want to know where to meet these athletes and rich men, I would love to be a sugarbabby. Anyone know any spots in NYC?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Completely and totally agree with that quote lovehooks... As well as the power aspect of it thats been brought up several times.

    I wasnt married to money, but I was in a long-term relationship with it, and I walked out of it saying to myself, I will never put myself in a situation where a guy says "I dont pay you to to think" to me again. He wasnt always like that, but it evolved to a point where he felt he put more value into the relationship because numbers are a lot more concrete than efforts are. He could (and did) tally up everything he ever spent on me, and everything I put into our relationship meant nothing because it didnt have a monetary value..hence my value was not as big as his..hence I had right to say anything if I didnt agree with him. Screw that.

    I swore after that, that I would never ever get involved with a guy who had money again. And as luck would have it...found my average joe schmo, who turned out to also be very well off. And when I had some problems, he helped me out even though I told him I didnt want or need his help...and hrmm..guess what? Now he holds it over my head, tallying up every dime he ever gave me...even though I did a shit load more for him than he ever did for me when we were together. But again...that has no value compared to monetary value.

    No thanks...I dont want to marry rich, I dont even want to date rich. Unless its for my time and companionship as an escort lol but no way Im going to end up in a situation like that again in my personal life. In case you cant tell..it still pisses me off!! If I ever do settle down and marry again, it will definitely be for an average guy who has a good standard of living/lifestyle. Im not looking for riches and wealth, just someone who can hold their own.

    BTW, the whole idea that if youre in your 30's etc, that you can only end up with an SD in his 60's...not true at all I dont know if Im a magnet for wealthy men or what...but Im 35 and still get the brush ups with men my age and up who are interested in a relationship with me. Most men over 50 feel too old for me and out of my league...and will usually give me the "If I were 20 years younger!!" thing But not all men want a 20-something college co-ed. Not only in my personal life, but also as an escort, many guys interested in me wont look twice at a lady under 30 because they want someone they can relate to, and also be able to be seen with without being looked at like a chump or a wallet...especially if they have a pretty high position, perception is everything and they dont want to be laughed at behind thier backs for what people will assume for dating someone young enough to be thier daughter.

    I am near your age. I see that I relate to alot of what u say in ur posts and I def agree with what u r saying here. And I full agree that guys in thier 40s and 50s would indeed go after a woman say in her 30s bc sadly many women in their 20s r still girls and have alot to learn still. They dont want to deal with alot of immaturity. Also the younger girsl are just looking for money and usually the men realize their isnt love involved. A woman in her 30s knows how to nurture a sD relationship oftentimes alot better than a girl n her 20s.

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    I just looked and saw a book called GoldDigger and surprisingly it received some great reviews. I don't think it's about using men but about strengthening women in getting what they know they are worth.

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    I also suggest that if anyone is interested in marrying rich be prepared to be cheated on too. Guys that have financial power generally know women will flock to them in droves even if he's the most hideous man to look at. So his self worth will be centered around his income and any drop in income or loss will be like an attack on his man hood. Think castration. He may put you on allowance or he may give you small bits and pieces. If a woman is smart about it then she'll save everything he gives into a nice little pot. That way when he's interested in replacing her, she has a nice little nest egg to live off for quite some time.

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    That's the way to do it Cherryblossominspring!!!!!

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    I agree. I've been a sugar baby before and even in my late 20's (27) I still struggle with my finances. Even as a married wife, to a average joe, I still occasionally get the whole "I bought you this and that" thrown at me and it's frustrating. Especially when it should be about love and I do way more for him than any amount of money. There are some wealthy daddies who are looking for love. I actually left one who's still pining for me but I chose my husband instead lol. My issue was, I could love his money, but never love him. Sad, but true. I think it would be better to build your own wealth, or build wealth with a guy you love. Sugar daddies are fun to play with, but as some mentioned, all that glitters isn't always gold.

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