Completely and totally agree with that quote lovehooks... As well as the power aspect of it thats been brought up several times.
I wasnt married to money, but I was in a long-term relationship with it, and I walked out of it saying to myself, I will never put myself in a situation where a guy says "I dont pay you to to think" to me again. He wasnt always like that, but it evolved to a point where he felt he put more value into the relationship because numbers are a lot more concrete than efforts are. He could (and did) tally up everything he ever spent on me, and everything I put into our relationship meant nothing because it didnt have a monetary value..hence my value was not as big as his..hence I had right to say anything if I didnt agree with him. Screw that.
I swore after that, that I would never ever get involved with a guy who had money again. And as luck would have it...found my average joe schmo, who turned out to also be very well off. And when I had some problems, he helped me out even though I told him I didnt want or need his help...and hrmm..guess what? Now he holds it over my head, tallying up every dime he ever gave me...even though I did a shit load more for him than he ever did for me when we were together. But again...that has no value compared to monetary value.
No thanks...I dont want to marry rich, I dont even want to date rich. Unless its for my time and companionship as an escort lol but no way Im going to end up in a situation like that again in my personal life. In case you cant tell..it still pisses me off!!

If I ever do settle down and marry again, it will definitely be for an average guy who has a good standard of living/lifestyle. Im not looking for riches and wealth, just someone who can hold their own.
BTW, the whole idea that if youre in your 30's etc, that you can only end up with an SD in his 60's...not true at all

I dont know if Im a magnet for wealthy men or what...but Im 35 and still get the brush ups with men my age and up who are interested in a relationship with me. Most men over 50 feel too old for me and out of my league...and will usually give me the "If I were 20 years younger!!" thing

But not all men want a 20-something college co-ed. Not only in my personal life, but also as an escort, many guys interested in me wont look twice at a lady under 30 because they want someone they can relate to, and also be able to be seen with without being looked at like a chump or a wallet...especially if they have a pretty high position, perception is everything and they dont want to be laughed at behind thier backs for what people will assume for dating someone young enough to be thier daughter.
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