
Originally Posted by
djezcheeze
Yeah... well last night i tried to do this. A guy seemed very interested and wanted to sit with me on the couch and buy me a drink. After talking for about a half an hour I mentioned dances and he said, oh yeah i'd love to get "A dance." I started fuming inside. I literally spent a half an hour sitting with this guy who said i could get whatever i wanted to drink. I mentioned the VIP... He said "I went in there last time, and my checking account wasn't too happy about that." I think my problem is i don't pay attention to the red flags that this guy is a cheap ass. He was asking the waitress if he left a stack of $5 in ones somewhere. And he was like... it's not a big deal, but i just want to know if i left it somewhere. He kind of kept trying to reassure me that he was a baller. Apparently not. I have a problem picking out the guys who have money by just looking at them because a lot of times the ones that do are those who I would least expect. I do know that the ones who are the most generous tend to not throw their money around obviously or talk about how much money they have. But when you're trying to size people up before you walk up to them and introduce yourself, it's really hard to tell by just looking at them... IMO. Which is why i end up going from person to person. Anyone else have this issue?
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