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    Lately, especially since I really caught my "niche" with erotic modeling and bodyrubs I've had friends wanting to know how to make "Adult Biz" money. Huge payouts, little time, minimal work. Just show up and be cute and get paid...right?

    *shakes head*

    Everything, webcamming, modeling, stripping, escorting, etc is like starting a new business. You must advertise it, work hard at it - and yes, your inital work may be completely uncompensated; that's to be expected in almost any situation of self-employment. You will have failures. You will need to invest SOMETHING if your trying to be any sort of "high end" or "luxury" anything.

    There are risks. There will always be risks. You cannot demand adult industry income without SOME risk, and SOME amount of sexual work with people, usually men, you have no attraction to whatsoever! I've lost count of the friends I know who want to make a couple grand like I do while offering much, much less.

    Honestly, if someone says to you "Here, I'll help you make money. I'll show you my business model. I do X, Y, and Z. For this I charge A, B, and C. I've been doing this for X months/years....."

    And you respond "Um, okay but I don't want to do X,Y,Z .... well maybe I'll do X but it would have to be for lots more. And um, I want to make 2x's what you made last week, but in like...3 days. Can u helpz me?

    That's RUDE, that's insulting! Adult money starts with adult risks, it always will that will never change. There are risks because this is all taboo. Its naughty, its bad, its what we're not "supposed" to do. If it were not this and there were no risks then there would be no industry.

    Understand that you can also do EVERYTHING someone else tells you, but your limited by different looks, markets, and just sheer luck. Yes, I'm sure if your a busty blonde former pornstar you can make an awesome social companion in Las Vegas....but not if you a Ginny Weasly lookalike in Jersey! Listen to and appreciate all advice but understand that any advice is useless unless you can put it in context to your reality. Learn your market.

    Desperation does not pay. Selling yourself for $50 on Backpage will not solve your financial woes. Entitled attitude does not pay. You will not post one ad on CL and get a whale of a sugardaddy overnight. Both attract a very twisted and malicious type of man who preys on naive girls.

    No one in this industry has their best day every day and even the factors that create a "best day" are sometimes completely out of one's control.
    - Save money. Tomorrow is never garunteed in adult work.
    - Figure out your limits before you step in. Your uncomfortable with all of it? Then don't do it.
    - Accept competition.
    - There is no price on safety. No one can barter or negotiate that.
    - Lots of guys talk about the cash they have. Until its in your hand, they are worthless to you.
    - You will need to maintain yourself and invest in your work

    The most important aspect is hard to really put into words but its something I've noticed of all the most successful girls I know who do adult work of any kind:

    On the outside, your an angel. A dream girl. You maintain a shapeshifting personality that adjusts to the desires of the target client/customer/viewer. You have no drama, no problems, no flaws. You are feminine perfection and you radiate a welcoming confidence that comes from a place far beneath your makeup.

    ...on the inside, your calculating, intensely listening, and measure everything from body language to tone of voice. Your hunting, and your prey is always a slow kill. Is it greedy? Decisive? Manipulative? Hell yea...but they'll never know it.



    Hard work and luck is the only thing that ever pays and only thing that ever will.





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    Great post, all so true. I need to give you more thanks! ;-) You should post this all over SW for all the newbies after a quick buck.

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    What an awesome read...Thank you for this!!!
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    YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much for this post!!!!! Preach it girl!!! You hit on all the most important points in this adult biz( can also be translated for any self employed biz too). One-click Thanks isn't enough for this. Can we make this a sticky? Or at least front page post upon entering SW? Love it! xoxoxoxo
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    Thank you guys so much. It really was just a rant that I needed to get off my chest after an insane week. If it manages to help or encourage anyone else, all the better <3

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    Thank you... Sometimes we don't have the best days at work and it can be saddening.. but this is very encouraging to get back to work the next day/night.

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    Yes! Love it! The last bolded part hit the nail on the head

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    You rock so hard for this





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    I agree with saving your money. I can't stress how important that is. I worked in a strip club before doing the camming thing, and I have to share a few story from those days.
    I met a woman who had been stripping for 15 years, and she told me if she had to count all the money she had made in that time it would have amounted to about $2 million. Her best nights she was pulling in upwards of $6,000. Guess how much of that she saved? None. Not a penny. If she had saved just 25% of that (which is definitely do-able) she would have a healthy $500,000 (if she had that in a high interest account, well it could have been $750,000). She is now 38. How many years does she have left dancing?

    What was this woman's error? It's one I see very often, unfortunately. She convinced herself that she needed the best of everything to achieve maximum profit. For example: her weekly expenses amounted to the following:
    -Professional manicure/pedicure: $75
    -Real Hair faux eyelashes: $50
    -New outfits weekly:$200
    -Daily Take-out: $70
    -Booze: $75
    That adds up to about $470/week or almost $25,000/year!
    Here is how I did it:
    -Walmart eyelashes which I would wear until they were ragged:$4
    -My own nail polish:$2
    -Had maybe 4 outfits I wore on rotation but mix & matched:$10
    -Ate at home and brought crackers to work:$5
    -Booze, I only drank when someone bought it for me:$0
    My weekly expense: $21 and yearly: about $1000
    Guess what? with that additional money I opened a Roth IRA retirement fund which is growing everyday.
    Analyze your expense to return. No guy on camera is gonna notice if you painted your toes yourself or had a pedicure. Maybe she did make a little extra money for her effort, but NO WAY did she make enough to get a return of her investment.

    Even on cam I'm cheap. I wear VS panties, but when I sell them I go to the dollar panty bin at DEBs. A guy wants me to use a certain toy? He can pay for it off my amazon wishlist. Want me to get drunk? I buy an $8 bottle of wine and have guys REGULARLY tip $50 for me to drink it.

    Daniella is 100% right SAVE YOUR MONEY. I had a family emergency which took me away from camming for two months. Boy was I glad I had a savings account to dip into so I could still maintain my quality of living yet not stress about it paying rent or eating.


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    Awesome! I think this should be a sticky here and on CC

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    Quote Originally Posted by buddysmom View Post
    i agree with saving your money. I can't stress how important that is. I worked in a strip club before doing the camming thing, and i have to share a few story from those days.
    I met a woman who had been stripping for 15 years, and she told me if she had to count all the money she had made in that time it would have amounted to about $2 million. Her best nights she was pulling in upwards of $6,000. Guess how much of that she saved? None. Not a penny. If she had saved just 25% of that (which is definitely do-able) she would have a healthy $500,000 (if she had that in a high interest account, well it could have been $750,000). She is now 38. How many years does she have left dancing?

    What was this woman's error? It's one i see very often, unfortunately. She convinced herself that she needed the best of everything to achieve maximum profit. For example: Her weekly expenses amounted to the following:
    -professional manicure/pedicure: $75
    -real hair faux eyelashes: $50
    -new outfits weekly:$200
    -daily take-out: $70
    -booze: $75
    that adds up to about $470/week or almost $25,000/year!
    Here is how i did it:
    -walmart eyelashes which i would wear until they were ragged:$4
    -my own nail polish:$2
    -had maybe 4 outfits i wore on rotation but mix & matched:$10
    -ate at home and brought crackers to work:$5
    -booze, i only drank when someone bought it for me:$0
    my weekly expense: $21 and yearly: About $1000
    guess what? With that additional money i opened a roth ira retirement fund which is growing everyday.
    Analyze your expense to return. No guy on camera is gonna notice if you painted your toes yourself or had a pedicure. Maybe she did make a little extra money for her effort, but no way did she make enough to get a return of her investment.

    Even on cam i'm cheap. I wear vs panties, but when i sell them i go to the dollar panty bin at debs. A guy wants me to use a certain toy? He can pay for it off my amazon wishlist. Want me to get drunk? I buy an $8 bottle of wine and have guys regularly tip $50 for me to drink it.

    Daniella is 100% right save your money. I had a family emergency which took me away from camming for two months. Boy was i glad i had a savings account to dip into so i could still maintain my quality of living yet not stress about it paying rent or eating.

    STRIPPERNOMICS! <3

    I have the 10% Rule: You should aim to spend no more then 10% on what you make in re-investing in your total business expenses. If your making $500 - $1,000 a week you should have plenty left over for savings and the occasional treat. Simple as that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Buddysmom View Post

    Even on cam I'm cheap. I wear VS panties, but when I sell them I go to the dollar panty bin at DEBs. A guy wants me to use a certain toy? He can pay for it off my amazon wishlist. Want me to get drunk? I buy an $8 bottle of wine and have guys REGULARLY tip $50 for me to drink it.
    Um actually the smart thing to do would be to buy that $8 bottle of wine, pour the wine out and fill it up with water or apple juice, drink it and fake drunk.
    Don't get drunk for custies... seriously. If they want you to drink your pee, pour apple juice in a cup , pee in a different cup , grab the apple juice and drink it bwahahahahaah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    Um actually the smart thing to do would be to buy that $8 bottle of wine, pour the wine out and fill it up with water or apple juice, drink it and fake drunk.
    Don't get drunk for custies... seriously. If they want you to drink your pee, pour apple juice in a cup , pee in a different cup , grab the apple juice and drink it bwahahahahaah.
    Yeah that would be economically smart, but I love me some wine
    I guess that would fall under the "treat myself" category in this situation. Although, I usually take 3-4 hours to finish an entire bottle.

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    Buddysmom, you have just described how I was before the recession. I made crazy easy money, didnt save any of it (the only thing I have left to show for it is a Bachelors degree and a car that is all paid for) and wasted 80% of it on things that no longer matter to me now. I am just thankful that at least now I have pulled my head out of my ass and am working more now and trying to save, even if the money isnt as good as it used to be. It feels like I am starting all over again as a newbie dancer. I hope this thread gets sticked and more girls read this and avoid making mistakes that so many of us have foolishly made.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DaniellaOHC View Post
    STRIPPERNOMICS! <3

    I have the 10% Rule: You should aim to spend no more then 10% on what you make in re-investing in your total business expenses. If your making $500 - $1,000 a week you should have plenty left over for savings and the occasional treat. Simple as that.
    That is some damn good advice - thank you!

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    Golden advice, OP. So much truth.

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    Great advice!

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    Love the advice!

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    This advice is simply golden. I LOVE it!!!

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    Thank all you guys so so much. Can we figure out a way to PM hugs?


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    Great post....Im a little late reading. lol
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    certainly a post worth moving back to the present

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    Great thread! I needed to read this...I'm such a newbie.

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    great thread.. i totally bookmarked this THANK YOU

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