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    WWW getting customers to "think" they know you

    SO im just thinking to myself Im really pvt on cam... I mean idk if its that im pvt or that i dont have much of a life outside of camming. But I don't have any crazy party stories or stories of me hooking up with guys Because in real life i've got a man with 3 kids, me and him are homebodies that do like the outdoors and movies and going out to eat and hanging out with his kids. That is fun for us lol But anywho what im trying to say is how do u get customers really into you when i dont have much of a life outside of cam or not willing to talk about it. Because i know some camgirls talk about where there really from and what not and i think it brings up good conversation but i say im from FL which im not and that im single Which im not.... Im just not willing to give anything away so what do u do? Just make up exciting stories? lol or just make it seem that ur more interesting than u really are hah... Im happy with my life and content but some people may think im lame! lol Whatever Im doing ok with everything else but i kinda feel like i could be connecting and Hooking these guys better if maybe they felt more connected to me or that they "knew" me better. This may be confusing. thnks for reading

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    I think this is a very valid question, and you are right to think that a more personal connection = more $.

    A couple possibilities:
    -Make up stories, or EMBELLISH your real-life ones?
    -WHen you do something fun with your husband that you want to talk to your room about, replace "husband" with "my best friend Stacy" or whoever?
    -Seek out activities to actually DO in your personal life that you can then tell your viewers about?

    I would love to hear more suggestions myself, if other people have found a solution to this....

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    Thanks a bunch! I will def try the "Stacy" that's good! And Yah I've made up plenty of things but sometimes feel dumb but they don't know the difference. Yes I'm excited to see what other camgirls think! thank u!

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    It's a good question. A lot of guys really do like to learn more about us and what our interests are. I think it's cool to tell them a little about yourself, as long as you're careful about what info you're giving them.


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    If you're a college student, you'll want to refrain from telling everyone which college you go to.
    If you're going to a strip club later that night, you should refrain from announcing the name of the strip club you'll be at.
    If you just had a baby, you're not gonna want to announce your baby's full name to your public chat.

    I'm sure you get the point.
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    Default Re: getting customers to "think" they know you

    just make up stories.
    it doesnt matter...

    omg.. I was at this party the other day...( insert 1 page of details.. HERE)

    omg..This guy wants to date me but.. ( insert HERE)

    omg.. I dont know what to do...!! This radio station called me, they want me to be on the show. ( LOL)... ( insert details HERE)

    omg.. I saw 2 of my girlfriends KISS!!! ... (insert.. HERE)..

    omg... I got drunk with my friends last weekend... ( insert HERE)

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    I like to rehash stories from my crazy days and tell them like they happened this weekend.

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    I LOVE making up stories and adventures. lol

    Especially on MFG. I'm like this spontanous, adventurous girl that doesn't have any structure and does weird ass things all the time.
    Guys seem to love it and it helped me to make a lot of "friends" that love hearing my crazy adventures through paid messages.

    On streamate I have a very bouncy charactor that's always in for a party and a fun time.
    My charactor is basically a hyperactive my little pony. So I talk about crazy parties I went to and all the crazy and naughty things I've done there.

    In reality I sit in my livingroom watching Batman on blu ray all day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Milaa View Post
    I LOVE making up stories and adventures. lol

    Especially on MFG. I'm like this spontanous, adventurous girl that doesn't have any structure and does weird ass things all the time.
    Guys seem to love it and it helped me to make a lot of "friends" that love hearing my crazy adventures through paid messages.

    On streamate I have a very bouncy charactor that's always in for a party and a fun time.
    My charactor is basically a hyperactive my little pony. So I talk about crazy parties I went to and all the crazy and naughty things I've done there.

    In reality I sit in my livingroom watching Batman on blu ray all day.

    Yep im very much lke you... Quirky silly and lots of energy... That's Exactly What ill do Hah just tell my man "if you hear me talking about some random shit" just ignore it lol : )
    Thanks everyone for the input Easy ENough!: D

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    I will make up ANY story I can think of if they start asking...for the most part, I am pretty honest, because I can't be arsed coming up with a whole fake life to talk about....but I exaggerate like there is no tomorrow!!

    I'll bring in random stuff from books, tv, movies, pictures I've seen, biographies I've read...anyone's story can become mine!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post

    I'll bring in random stuff from books, tv, movies, pictures I've seen, biographies I've read...anyone's story can become mine!!!
    Great if you can do that!

    Unfortunately my memory is not good enough for that, I simply would not be able to remember who I told what. (I have been in a coma for more than a week in 1995 and that effected my "short-memory")

    Not really a problem, I stick to the thruth, as a flower power girl if have done it all

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    Quote Originally Posted by nemcis View Post
    Great if you can do that!

    Unfortunately my memory is not good enough for that, I simply would not be able to remember who I told what. (I have been in a coma for more than a week in 1995 and that effected my "short-memory")

    Not really a problem, I stick to the thruth, as a flower power girl if have done it all
    Its awesome if you have enough of your own stories to do that!! Sadly, even my wild days are not enough, because there is nothing new to tell!!

    And I don't mean that I re-do the entire plot of a book or movie, sometimes I just use a scene for inspiration! Maybe I'll watch IronMan, and then I'll make up a story about a big house party with all the beautiful people in a playboy's mansion! Or I'll be watching an episode of how I met your mother, and so I'll talk about being at a party in NY, or my craaazy friends going to try and get married in atlantic city....I'm sure one day I will stick too much to the plot, and someone will say "hey, wasn't that an episode of the big bang theory?" LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Its awesome if you have enough of your own stories to do that!! Sadly, even my wild days are not enough, because there is nothing new to tell!!

    ...I'm sure one day I will stick too much to the plot, and someone will say "hey, wasn't that an episode of the big bang theory?" LOL
    Yes, at that moment there is only one way out, tell hem the truth, that you wrote that series

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessica1001 View Post
    .. EMBELLISH your real-life ones..
    I do this all the time. IMHO it's best to stick as close to the truth as possible because if you stray too far it's easy to forget your story. I have some of the funniest damn stories lol. To those of you who actually do know who I am, we've had a lot of laughs over some of the shit I come up with )

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    Quote Originally Posted by nemcis View Post
    Great if you can do that!

    Unfortunately my memory is not good enough for that, I simply would not be able to remember who I told what. (I have been in a coma for more than a week in 1995 and that effected my "short-memory")

    Not really a problem, I stick to the thruth, as a flower power girl if have done it all
    By which you mean, 'remember that time I went to this crazy party and did something so crazy I was in a coma for a week?', right? ;3

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    I have a pretty good stash of stories from my college days and well most of my twenties and early 30's. I'm older but my subs love hearing about my exes.
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