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    Now Lets be Honest , and drop the Modesty . Most here come from a better dam good Gene Pool , So with this in mind what is your first memory of being noticed ?? By Guys aor Girls ..Were you a late bloomer , Ignored in High School and College or Were you a Hot Babe from the beginning . With some fun thoughts in mind ..Lets hear your first memories ?? And if there were problems ..How did you ( attempt ) to overcome them ?? Interested to hear your thoughts .
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    I was an early bloomer, so was noticed, but for all the wrong reasons.
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    I figured in your case you may have been Celeste !! Two main reasons sweetie
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    Fifteen. My dad and his two friends were drinking out on the front porch together one night. I came home, walked up and passed them, saying hi to my dad. One of his friends turns to him and goes "Damn, R- your daughter has some niiice legs."

    My dad then promptly punched him in the face and knocked him out of his chair.

    For the record I was a very late bloomer. Didn't even get my period til I was 14. That was cool with me though... I didn't want to get it!

    Maybe it's also pertinent to explain my dad is Scottish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Fifteen. My dad and his two friends were drinking out on the front porch together one night. I came home, walked up and passed them, saying hi to my dad. One of his friends turns to him and goes "Damn, R- your daughter has some niiice legs."

    My dad then promptly punched him in the face and knocked him out of his chair.

    For the record I was a very late bloomer. Didn't even get my period til I was 14. That was cool with me though... I didn't want to get it!

    Maybe it's also pertinent to explain my dad is Scottish.
    Ha ha ha ha ha .......... Glad I wasn't hanging around perving at you legs Mediocrity !! Ouch ..
    Your Dad didn't Mess around . The Scottish guys I know ..Would just say " Shut - up and finish your Drink D/ head " ..ha ha ha
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    When I was 9 I started getting breasts and the boys at school started making comments. I also during this time overheard a comment from a family friend telling my parents they needed to watch to make sure I wasn't taken advantage of by boys. Also remember comments mentioning that I looked like I was going to be a beauty and later on comments mentioning that I resembled a Playboy Bunny. Friends of my dad would tell him what a beautiful daughter he had. Strangely, I just met one of his friends and he told me this friend commented on what a pretty daughter he has.

    However as for actual boy's comments probably not until high school. I was in a coed swimming class and my bathing suit had cleavage and when I came out of the locker room all the boys turned around and stared. Then there was the time in school when I got in trouble for wearing a shirt with cleavage when another classmate did not. I asked why and was told because she was flat chested. Oddly, even though I knew all these boys were interested in me I didn't get a lot of dates in high school. Years later I asked several guy friends and they all told me that half of the boys at school thought I was hot but was afraid I would turn them down because I was "too beautiful". I worried that perhaps I wasn't as cute as I thought only to find out I was much cuter than I realized. I realize now looking at photos of high school I really was beautiful.

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    I was a late bloomer. I didn't really start getting noticed until I started cocktailing at my club back in '02.. I was never even asked out in H.S. :/ Oh well... I'm a hot piece of ass now

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    I was noticed by older men from a very early age, which was creepy. I dressed older for my age though. My mother was constantly telling me I was "nine, not nineteen!" I was thin with really long blonde hair that older men always commented on because it supposedly reminded them of "girls on the beaches in the seventies." However, I was a very awkward looking between 13 and 15. I don't think I became exceptionally pretty till I was 19, almost 20, but have been met with onslaughts of sexual harassment since 9 or so.

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    I was 18... Before then I was a goofy, geeky awkward kid. When I joined the army though and in basic, guys were always running behind me, no matter how slow or how much I struggled and they'd motivate me to keep going... At graduation one of em confessed they all did that to check out my ass. I was like.... Me?!

    That's the first time I was aware I had anything worth noticing. But I was still geeky and awkward... Just with a nice ass lol but I didn't get noticed as an attractive person, so to speak, til I was about 24. REALLY late bloomer here...
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    I was definitely not a late bloomer. I got boobs and a huge ass very early. From 7th grade on, I got noticed and harassed. But I didn't get confidence until my freshmen year in college. Confidence made all the difference.

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    Very much a late bloomer. Also moved to Maine from Detroit and went to jr high and high school in hell, basically. So I was oblivious to a lot of attention I was getting in college for a while, but I had a pretty hot girlfriend so it didn't matter all that much. But the first time I really noticed getting attention was when I took off my clothes & jumped into a hot tub with a bunch of naked people in Florida one summer break. It was very nice to get that reaction from the females.
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    I don't really get noticed a lot... Apart from in the club. As a child I was adorable, so I got those 'gonna be a heartbreaker' comments all the time. I grew out of that though! My mother has always said I do get attention and that I just don't notice it... So who knows. I've had marriage proposals before and not realised. I'm in my own little world most of the time. So maybe I'm just oblivious or maybe I'm really plain apart from under club lighting!

    Doesn't bother me either way, I quite like being under the radar until I get into the club.

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    ^^ Me too. Not much people check me out now since I had boy short hair, but until I wear my wig and get sexified for work, I get checked out from all directions.
    But hmm.. earliest for me I think was when I was 12-13, I started developing a decent ass and my sister's friend secretly told her that he know it's wrong, but he reckons I have a really good ass.

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    Great comments all .... Its interesting because the experiences are quite different . I think there are a lot of people out there who dont actually Notice ..that they are noticed !! lol ..If that makes sense . Plus the Altar Ego in the Club which is a whole different thing all together ..

    Thanks for the responces ..keep them coming ... Dave
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    Quote Originally Posted by Davey17 View Post
    I think there are a lot of people out there who dont actually Notice ..that they are noticed !! lol ..If that makes sense...
    Yeah it makes a lot of sense. Sometimes it's quite obvious, but at other times I am very dense about it. I have had friends give me endless shit for being oblivious to it before.
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    Late bloomer..... I wore my brothers close until 10th grade in highschool.... Then somehow i went from that to tight tees, jeans and heels the next year. but yah same here i feel no so Noticed until im ready for work or going out. It's like a transformation lol i think i "clean up well" any other day u find me in shorts and a plain tank with hair up. but i guess i felt noticed at like 18 or something idk lol

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    When I was younger, I don't think I was noticed that much. But eh, I don't really know. I had huge self esteem issues in high school and I was scared of guys so I'm sure that didn't help much.

    I really realized it in college. Now it's like ... never ending. I know I was oblivious to it in college but then my friends kept pointing it out so I got to know the signs. I guess it could be worse??
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    The first time I noticed I was noticed wasn't until I was 18. after that I went a little nuts with the flirting and light hearted teasing and became a stripper lol. I think since I went so long being teased and picked on when I finally "bloomed" I needed all that attention.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hf487 View Post
    Late bloomer..... I wore my brothers close until 10th grade in highschool.... Then somehow i went from that to tight tees, jeans and heels the next year. but yah same here i feel no so Noticed until im ready for work or going out. It's like a transformation lol i think i "clean up well" any other day u find me in shorts and a plain tank with hair up. but i guess i felt noticed at like 18 or something idk lol
    I don't know if that's you--but I am noticing that avatar of yours has an extremely fine ass...
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    I don't think I really got noticed until my first night dancing...though, my mom had a grown ass man who was within our 'circle' ask for her permission to marry me completely out of the blue when I was 16. I mean, I didn't even talk to this guy, except to say hi or bye or ask how he was--lol. It was so weird. So maybe that was the first time I was 'noticed' IDK.

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    I remember getting on the school bus for my first day of junior high (7th) grade and I hate this cute white top on.
    (at least I thought it was cute)
    Then this boy yelled out on the bus "DAMN GIRRRRRL, you are FLAT chested!!" the whole bus laughed.
    and my first day of junior high was ruined...and I had to fight tears off all day. I remember going home and crying..and ever since then, I have been EXTREMELY insecure about my breast size.

    So much in fact that after that, I started wearing padded bras. So I appeared tall, skinny and big titted..(which, was all from the amazing WONDER BRAS!)
    and then I started receiving attention.
    (which is also why I think it's complete BULLSHIT when guys say 'oh, small boobs are better than big fake big ones'..stfu)
    Then in High school I got labeled a whore. I was the VIRGIN WHORE! Because I dressed in little shorts, little tops..and because of the way I dressed, I was a whore. :/

    A few year later, I'd turn into an ACTUAL whore! hahaha.. :/

    anyway though, I guess I was first noticed and made fun of back in junior high...then noticed and labeled during high school.

    and I still have fucking insecurites about my flat chest.
    I realize how stupid it sounds, coming from kids who were 12/13, but it's been with me ever since that day...and even though I worked it in the clubs for years with my small chest, I STILL to this day, wear padded bras outside the club just because I like that image MUCH better. :/

    wow..sorry, that was long and depressing lmao

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    ^isn't it sad how what kids say to us in elementary-jr.high sticks with us for the rest of our lives? I'm still haunted by those things that were said to me in that timeframe..I mean wow, everything those fucking kids ever said about me I still wholeheartedly believe to be true! I often wonder what my self-esteem would've been like had I been a popular kid in my elementary-jr. high days, lol.

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    ^^lol, I'm glad I'm not the only one!
    They're probably all fat and gross now or in jail fucking goats..who knows...so I don't even know why I let it bother me anymore! lol

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    I don't recall getting much attention, aside from a few sweet crushes when i was 17/18. I started trying sexier/trendier clothing when I left home for uni but I was still kinda awkward about it. And I really only learnt to do decent makeup and sort my hair out a year or 2 ago, so maybe that's why! I definitely knew I could attract guys when i was 19/20 though, had fun with that... only since dancing though do i know how to make myself look really good, and have the confidence/flirt skills to go with it!

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    I remember it like yesterday. During the first day of summer vacation in the year that I turned 13, my girlfriends and I were walking down the road towards a local 'swimming hole'. I was wearing the same bathing suit which my mother had bought for me the previous summer. The local paper boy rode his bicycle past me - and promptly crashed into the roadside ditch. It wasn't until my father started screaming at me after I returned home from swimming with my girlfriends that I actually realized why the paper boy had rode into the ditch ... apparently it had something to do with my 'newly grown' D cups which were barely covered by the straps of last year's bathing suit !

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