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    Default Re: Escorts: How do you handle rejection?

    This is why I despise the review sites. You should not feel like you owe them any more of an explanation than what you have already given.

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    Welp. I love my ter reviews. 9s and 10s. Never been rejected. If I don't want to see someone, I tell them straight up. This is not the business to play games. Respect his time and tell him you won't see him so he can find another escort. Again reviews love them. I'LL even go as far as saying I'm way more confident now than ever.

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    I tell them straight up reviews don't me anything to me anymore I know I have a enough decent reviews of myself out there. You don't owe them a more detailed time wasting explanation if they keep contacting you, you already told them your not willing to see them, it's not our problem if they can not handle it. if they do come back with something negative keep a copy of that contact incase they do post something on the boards and soemtimes you can use that info to get whatever they post removed.

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    Default Re: Escorts: How do you handle rejection?

    Saying we're not a good match has backfired against me so I'm just "never available" for the ones I won't see. However, TER seems to be a board with way less drama than my local board so the first option may work for you.

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    Default Re: Escorts: How do you handle rejection?

    I simply tell them its not going to work out for us to meet, and leave it at that. Usually they will be fine with that..those who push to find out why, I ask them to respect my decision and tell them to have a wonderful day... I dont feel any pressure or remorse whatsoever to see someone I dont want to see, or to explain myself.

    I also dont care one way or another what sort of pull they may or may not have on whatever site. If theres no date, I cant be reviewed anyway. And whats he going to do? whine to the community that I wouldnt see him? What would anyone else say to him? rub his head and tell him its okay and Im such a bitch, or get curious about me with the knowledge that I dont see just any and everyone with a dollar in their pocket? My bet is on the last one.
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    Default Re: Escorts: How do you handle rejection?

    I lurk TER general discussion boards, and you would have nothing to fear if you nicely reject them. If those guys do go there to whine, then they will get shut down, told how whiny they are, and told to keep it moving.

    I just say "sorry, we won't be able to meet," and be gently honest.

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    just a thought: the 2 times I've changed my mind on clients I first rejected have been horrible experiences. Your first gut instinct can be very valuable.

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    Default Re: Escorts: How do you handle rejection?

    Yes, you've already been polite and told them either you don't think you'll mesh, or that they don't have verifiable references. After that, you don't owe them anything and should block their messages instead of reiterating the same thing over.
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