I don't want to take a cynical stance towards my customers, or even potential dates/partners. But more and more, in my personal and professional life, that's hard to do. Sure, there are assholes and freeloaders online but you deal with that in every service job. That's what I tell myself when I have a particularly trying guy.
But then you have the respectful, articulate guy who will cheat on his gf or wife every chance he gets, even maxing out his cards for his kinks. In many cases they're turning to online providers because they don't want to end the relationship but seeing someone in person would be too difficult (or require too much effort) or risky. And then there are single guys who complain about not being able to meet someone. Not that they put any effort into dating when paying for a GFE is so much easier. How am I supposed to respect that?
And it's not just customers. I don't need to give examples because sexist, entitled behavior is everywhere. But ok, one example - have you seen the kind of advice that is passed around the "pick up" community regarding women? It takes objectification to a new low.
Intellectually, I know not every guy is like this. I know that at least half of my customers are genuinely good guys. And I love my work most days. I don't look at them as just ATMs or manipulate them. But some days I think I would be better off if I just hustled and maximized my time with them. Because one I thing I know for sure is that every one of my regulars used to be someone else's and most of them will move on sooner or later.
This is more of an issue for me professionally because I'm bi and more emotionally attracted to women. So how do you deal with male sexuality and stay optimistic about them? Do you just do the job and keep your personal opinions out of it?



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There is much less drama and way more professionalism here.




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