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    A friend of mine called me yesterday asking me that because she wanted to dance and the hiring manager brought her to the office and asked her to show him the stomach and boobs. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think that's how it's done. They usually see those things during the audition, not in private. It hadn't happen to me, and I told her that showing before the audition is not a common practice, but I think it might be in some places, I don't know.





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    Default Re: Managers asking to see stomachs/boobs/butt before hiring

    It happened to me and I posted about it. I auditioned for a club supposedly opening (hadn't yet)and this guy asked me to come to his office to audition. He asked me to dance for him to show him then to undress. I stupidly did this and never heard back. I have since found out he was a scam artist pretending to hire for the club but he never did.

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    Alright... So I had to take this down because I was slightly butthurt by the fact that people were finding my experience to be hilarious. Serves me right I guess.
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    ^ That's fucked up. Pull your pussy lips apart?! I would've said in my best "mobster" accent, "Are you fuckin' kiddin me??"

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    Hahaha ^I was young and really stupid! lol

    Its one of those moments where I wish I could go back in time and just slap myself and yell 'wtf are you doing?'

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    Yeah it's nice to think that I would've done that but in all actuality, I probably would've done exactly what you did.

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    I didnt have to audition, but the housemom did ask me to get naked and do a 360. Granted, it was in the middle of the locker room full of dancers. Never in private. The only private moment i had getting hired at any cllubs was about 2 years ago, the front door girl took me upstairs to dance on a vip stage, but fully clothed. I dont even pull my pussy lips apart for money, let alone some creepy manager. Alll clubs are different, but me personallly, i woulda walked out. Thats just odd to me.

    Back to the original topic... me personally i dont see a whole lot wrong with just showing ur stomach and boobs. Makes sense, they wanna see what customers r gonna be paying to see, make sure all is up to par lol.

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    Hmm, interesting...

    @MyButter: when I read what you wrote, the first thing that came to my mind was that if another dancer had herpes and was offering extras the club might wanted to avoid a lawsuit. Think about it...


    But still, I think it's not right and I told her that she should try somewhere else. But, I'm also curious to hear some crazy stories.





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    Quote Originally Posted by JcMarch View Post
    I didnt have to audition, but the housemom did ask me to get naked and do a 360. Granted, it was in the middle of the locker room full of dancers. Never in private. The only private moment i had getting hired at any cllubs was about 2 years ago, the front door girl took me upstairs to dance on a vip stage, but fully clothed. I dont even pull my pussy lips apart for money, let alone some creepy manager. Alll clubs are different, but me personallly, i woulda walked out. Thats just odd to me.

    Back to the original topic... me personally i dont see a whole lot wrong with just showing ur stomach and boobs. Makes sense, they wanna see what customers r gonna be paying to see, make sure all is up to par lol.
    Isn't that the whole purpose of the audition?!





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    I've undressed down to my thong and bra for a manager before, but that's it. His office was connected to the DR, so he let me undress alone then walk to the door of his office, turn around once, and then he gave me the okay. He didn't bring me back there alone or anything and he asked whether I had on underwear before he asked me to remove my jeans and shirt. We didn't do auditions there, just the glance over and paperwork. It's pretty common from my experience, but you can definitely tell when they're being creeps about it.

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    I meant at the most recent club i didnt have to audition. Ive had to in the past, but not most recently. Regardless, ive never had to go into an office butt naked, which was the point i was trying to make lol.

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    Isn't that the whole purpose of the audition?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MyButter View Post
    Hahaha ^I was young and really stupid! lol

    Its one of those moments where I wish I could go back in time and just slap myself and yell 'wtf are you doing?'
    I've had a few when it comes to modeling and dancing. Some of the things I did were now abusive I realize but at the time thought it would land me a lucrative modeling or dancing job.

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    Once when I was applying at a club a manager asked to see my boobs. I didn't have to audition, they just wanted to make sure everything looked okay under there lol. I didn't get a creepy vibe at all from him, he actually seemed really embarrassed to have to ask me. He took a really quick look and then looked away. So that situation didn't seem fishy, but I don't doubt creepy managers try to take advantage like that sometimes.

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    If you're talking about a club in Austin I know exactly who and where you're talking about. Did this happen in Austin?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    Hmm, interesting...

    @MyButter: when I read what you wrote, the first thing that came to my mind was that if another dancer had herpes and was offering extras the club might wanted to avoid a lawsuit. Think about it...

    When he had asked me I (stupidly) didn't hesitate because in my mind I thought that ^this (or some similar scenario) was the reasoning behind him asking me to do this. IDK, he was so calm and collected throughout the process that I thought (at the time) that maybe it was standard practice in nicer clubs. I rationalized (at the time, again) that it made sense to want to visually make sure that a girl inquiring about a position didn't have any obvious venereal diseases.

    But now that I've been in the business for a while I look back on all of this and I think he was taking advantage of the moment because I was really young, incredibly naive and I probably seemed eager to please because I wanted to get hired.

    IDK, it seems so easy for men in managerial positions to potentially take advantage of young/newbie women in the adult entertainment industry as a whole...wow, reflecting on that incident has made me a temporary man-hater, lol!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MyButter View Post
    IDK, it seems so easy for men in managerial positions to potentially take advantage of young/newbie women in the adult entertainment industry as a whole...
    ^This may have been an "abuse of power" kind of scenario (or common place practice for a yucky dive). In my experience, I've only ever been asked to strip down to my bra/underwear at interveiws or auditions (never from just walking into the club and asking for a job though) and the dancer managers/hirers that have conducted the auditions have always been women. I worked in a dive once where drunk chicks would often walk in off the street at 1am+ and the ask for a job...the sleezy male manager, whilst laughing his ass off at them, would lead them into one of the free private rooms for an "audition"...and then not hire them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    If you're talking about a club in Austin I know exactly who and where you're talking about. Did this happen in Austin?
    It happen in the Landing Strip. Was that the same one you had in mind?



    Wow, all different replies and very different points of views. IMHO, if a manager wants to see how we look like he/she must make us do an audition showing what's allowed in that specific region; for example, I would find completely unacceptable a manager wanting to see a girl naked if the club is just topless or pasties.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    It happen in the Landing Strip. Was that the same one you had in mind?



    Wow, all different replies and very different points of views. IMHO, if a manager wants to see how we look like he/she must make us do an audition showing what's allowed in that specific region; for example, I would find completely unacceptable a manager wanting to see a girl naked if the club is just topless or pasties.
    I'm surprised actually. That sounds like James, the GM at Perfect Ten. That guy is a total piece of shit. He tries to force girls to give him nude dances in the office. He told my friend "that pussy belongs to me" when she refused and tried to lock her in the office.

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    Jesus he tried to lock her in his office? Thats fucking scary-i'm sorry that happened to your friend.

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    I'm cracking up about the pussy lips post LOL!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I'm surprised actually. That sounds like James, the GM at Perfect Ten. That guy is a total piece of shit. He tries to force girls to give him nude dances in the office. He told my friend "that pussy belongs to me" when she refused and tried to lock her in the office.
    Thanks very much for the advice!





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    When I was still dancing, most of the clubs told me to get an side stage and dance for a minute in a thong.

    But there were a couple of times when managers asked to see boobs/butt/stomach (while still wearing clothes)or do a quick 360 in a thong and heels in the office or dressing room. Not a big deal.

    Asking a woman to spread her vag lips is straight up demeaning. I was pretty fortunate to never encounter anyone so cruel.

    Escort "agents" however tried some stuff... One so-called agent tried to get me to undress while he took pictures "for his business partner to see." I said I could submit some professional photos but that's it. He insisted on photographing me, pulled out a video camera and tried to get me to fill out some form asking for my SSN - I walked out.

    Another told me I must "audition" with the owner and in exchange I'd would automatically be given the next 4 jobs. After explaining that not one (legit) agency has asked me to do that. Her response, "We've been doing it like this for 10 years and never had an issue." I told her, "No thanks, not in the mood to exploited today." She then had the nerve to tell me never to contact her again - as if I was the one being shady!
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    Crazy! I've worked in every club downtown Toronto - the most upscale clubs to the sleazy dives- and I've never heard about these audition requests/requirements. I suppose business is done differently here than in some of the big name high profile US clubs. I've never even been asked to get partially naked before hiring. Interesting to hear what is sometimes expected elsewhere!

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    I've been "screened" both in private, in a packed dressing room, and on stage. If it was a nude club, I was nude. If it was a topless club it was in a thong and shoes.

    Some auditions were skeeve-y... some were entirely professional.
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    I never had to audition in Tx. It was always just a quick strip in the managers office or the DR.

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