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    ok...i will admit, i have zero text game and probably zero real life game...

    anyway, story goes...i ended up at a gentlemen's club and chatted up a dancer there. after a couple of dances we just kept hanging out, got into a little make out action and she had me text her my number to see her outside of work....yes, im probably getting hustled, whatever...i want to hook up with her.

    i don't know what to text her so some suggestions help on how to initiate text to see her....

    what would you girls be ok getting as a text? guys...suggestions?

    thanks

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    Default Re: need help: what to text "dancer"

    how about you start with "Hey, it's xxx from the other night. How are you?"

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    Default Re: need help: what to text "dancer"

    this one's easy!

    You "Hi, it's swagger from the other night at the club. Would you like to meet for coffee one night this week?"

    Dancer "Hi, when are you coming to see me at work again?"
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    feel like i need something witty....?

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    this one's easy!

    You "Hi, it's swagger from the other night at the club. Would you like to meet for coffee one night this week?"

    Dancer "Hi, when are you coming to see me at work again?"
    lol, sounds right....

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    Witty:
    Hey its xx from the other night. Ill double your slowest night if you have lunch w me at the ritz. That's it, just lunch

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    Default Re: need help: what to text "dancer"

    LOL Yoda, but if she is any good, I think that she might be a little more subtle. I could see something like this:

    "Hi, I'd like to but I'd really like to get to know you better first. Maybe you could visit me at the club?"

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    Default Re: need help: what to text "dancer"

    How about: "when will you be at the club next?" " I enjoyed our last dance and would like to come in for more."

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    Quote Originally Posted by swagger View Post
    yes, im probably getting hustled, whatever...i want to hook up with her.
    Take it slow Cowboy. First, how often do you visit clubs, and how often do dancers give out their numbers to you? Second, have you thought that you might not be the only customer to whom she gives out her number? What's interesting is that you admit that you are being hustled, yet you want to see her. I hope she does not empty your pockets with empty promises. Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by swagger View Post
    Anyway, story goes...i ended up at a gentlemen's club and chatted up a dancer there. after a couple of dances we just kept hanging out, got into a little make out action and she had me text her my number to see her outside of work....yes, im probably getting hustled, whatever...i want to hook up with her.
    You're probably getting hustled?

    Is the sky probably blue?

    As the others have said, you don't need to be clever or have game to text a dancer whose sole interest is getting more money out of you. What's confusing you is that "probably" in the back of your head, which is your ego trying to explain why this hot woman could possibly have been crawling all over you.

    Since you "ended up" at a gentleman's club, that means that this experience is new to you. Do the right thing by recognizing the first rule of all strip club activities: It's always all about the money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by swagger View Post
    ok...i will admit, i have zero text game and probably zero real life game...

    anyway, story goes...i ended up at a gentlemen's club and chatted up a dancer there. after a couple of dances we just kept hanging out, got into a little make out action and she had me text her my number to see her outside of work....yes, im probably getting hustled, whatever...i want to hook up with her.

    i don't know what to text her so some suggestions help on how to initiate text to see her....

    what would you girls be ok getting as a text? guys...suggestions?

    thanks
    1. Also no capitalization game, your shit is lazy.
    2. Got into a little make out action ... nice phrasing.

    Um OK. What do you want from this woman, I would say dancer but for some reason you put "dancer" in quotes in your subject. Possibly you did that because making out with you in the club makes her some sort of PG13 escort but, whatever. Do you want to date her? Do you want to become her regular? Put your intentions out there and don't let yourself get hustled. If she says she needs to get to know you in the club or needs to be compensated for her time out of the club while you want to date her, just let it go, the situation will not change.

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    Post deleted by moderator. If you have something to add to the thread go right ahead. Correcting another poster's punctuation does not qualify.
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    First, you haven't made it clear here exactly what it is you are interested in obtaining from her. Different game plans apply to different situations.

    Why don't you just send her a friendly text and play it by ear from there? Feel her out (figuratively speaking) and see if there is anything promising in the way she responds. She'll realize you have an interest in her and you'll soon learn whether she has any interest in you other than as a prospective customer.
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    Text her... "Let's get together, like we talked about. Other dancers at your club said you kiss and hustle every customer like this but I can tell you aren't that kind of sluty and dishonest person. We'll show them! Friday sound good?"

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    I'd say don't text her. Show up to the club again. Any guy she exchanges numbers with can text her. Be different?

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    just start with reminding her who you are, and asking how its going, let her take the lead from there, if she doesnt take the lead, ask her when she is working and if she wants you to stop in

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    Quote Originally Posted by swagger View Post
    yes, im probably getting hustled, whatever...i want to hook up with her.
    Lmfao. At least you're honest. As for the rest of your question. Don't bother. Nothing you say is going to get this girl to hook up with you. Even if you go back and spend thousands. At the end of the night, she'll give you a hug and a peck on the cheek and then go home to her husband.

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    Quote Originally Posted by swagger View Post
    feel like i need something witty....?
    Try to text like you talk in person. If you were witty in the club, say the same things in txt. If not, don't suddenly start trying to be funny over txt; it will come off out of character. Also, texts are unlimited for most now, so keep the messages short and sweet and don’t try to get everything you want to say in on one txt. Ask “what’s up”, what she’s doing, then go from there. After a couple msg, tell her what you are doing that night or the following night (or whatever your plans are) and ask her to join (also keep in mind some girls are more spontaneous than others and a rejection may be simply due to her schedule). Grammar like a Nazi if you want, but again keep the formality of your texts in line with how you speak in person. It would be silly to text like your turning in your college thesis, when you use a lot of slang in daily conversation or vice versa. Last, listen to the dancers here (there seems to be a lot of blue ribbons in here )

    …this thread is a few days old now, you contact her yet?
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    "I just hit the ATM and have fifty 100-dollar bills with your name on it."

    She'll be over in no time!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RonClubn View Post
    Text her... "Let's get together, like we talked about. Other dancers at your club said you kiss and hustle every customer like this but I can tell you aren't that kind of sluty and dishonest person. We'll show them! Friday sound good?"
    That is really dumb.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shasta View Post
    That is really dumb.
    This entire thread is dumb.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    Try to text like you talk in person. If you were witty in the club, say the same things in txt. If not, don't suddenly start trying to be funny over txt; it will come off out of character. Also, texts are unlimited for most now, so keep the messages short and sweet and don’t try to get everything you want to say in on one txt. Ask “what’s up”, what she’s doing, then go from there. After a couple msg, tell her what you are doing that night or the following night (or whatever your plans are) and ask her to join (also keep in mind some girls are more spontaneous than others and a rejection may be simply due to her schedule). Grammar like a Nazi if you want, but again keep the formality of your texts in line with how you speak in person. It would be silly to text like your turning in your college thesis, when you use a lot of slang in daily conversation or vice versa. Last, listen to the dancers here (there seems to be a lot of blue ribbons in here )

    …this thread is a few days old now, you contact her yet?
    Well look who's back....

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    Tell her you are out and about and she is welcome to join if she is free.

    "free"- pun intended.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by swagger View Post
    ok...i will admit, i have zero text game and probably zero real life game...

    anyway, story goes...i ended up at a gentlemen's club and chatted up a dancer there. after a couple of dances we just kept hanging out, got into a little make out action and she had me text her my number to see her outside of work....yes, im probably getting hustled, whatever...i want to hook up with her.

    i don't know what to text her so some suggestions help on how to initiate text to see her....


    what would you girls be ok getting as a text? guys...suggestions?

    thanks
    Well. First I have to agree with what most people tell you here, and like you yours elf admitted that you are probably being hustled
    My warning sign on this is that she started to make out with you, at the club, and she said she would like to see u outside of the club. I think that is her game and how she gets her customers to come back, especially with newbie, I believe most of the strippers can tell if you are new to the club scen

    But if you like here and what to find out for sure if it is real, then you just text her and say “hi how are u doin”, not mentioned anything about meeting her outside or coming to club, dont worry about not having text game, just be u. if she is real and wanted to see u outside of the club, then she will let you know, but if she does not mention anything after a few text, but ask when u will come back and so on then u know. but hey remember if you go and see her at the club, she will treat you good, and it is always nice to have a hot girls to treat you and make you feel good, even though it will not be anything more then that. It Is her job to get u to come back and spend money on her,

    A stripper that truly likes a customer and wants to date them, will usually go out of there way to let the customer know they looks at them more then just a customer, and wanted to date them for rea!

    I wish you the best of luck, and hope it all goes your way

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    Quote Originally Posted by RonClubn View Post
    Text her... "Let's get together, like we talked about. Other dancers at your club said you kiss and hustle every customer like this but I can tell you aren't that kind of sluty and dishonest person. We'll show them! Friday sound good?"

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