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    Hello!
    I am very new to camming. I had three really good days where I had a lot of fun, but tonight was bad. I would be considered BBW and I am in that category, so I thought only people who are into that would come in my room. Today a guy came in and was nice for a while, but when I wouldn't get naked on free chat he started harassing me. He was calling me a "fat slob" and other names. I tried to block him several times, but somehow he kept coming it. I was expecting there to be some assholes, but for some reason it really bothered me when it actually happened. Nobody knows I do this, so I don't really have anyone to talk to haha. When I started, I thought it was empowering. But now I'm feeling kind of gross.

    I was just hoping someone here could tell me if they've had similar experiences and could tell me how they handle things like this.
    It would be nice to know there are people I could talk to

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    Read this hun http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ater-Cam-girls

    Unfortunately or fortunately it happens to us all and no one is exempt. Doesn't matter who you are or what you look like. Hugs. Xxx
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    I have guys who say I have no boobs or I'm too skinny. I'm a UK size 6 and my boobs are 32A. I point out to them that there's someone for everyone on MFC and suggest they try a different room. I even get guys with names like bigbooblover or curvygirllover (I made those up! Good, huh?) and I wonder why they're watching me!
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    There are rude people in every line of work and every outlet of life. This will show you all kinds of weird, fkd up, and rude people. This will make you stronger. I worked in telemarketing and had a guy tell me he was going to cut my head off and mail it to my mom in a box. I was not calling him, he was calling me and it was dealing with pharmaceuticals so I'm sure he was off his meds. No matter what job, assholes will be there. This is a learning experience just live and learn from it. They do not matter to you, please don't let it bother you and I hope it makes you feel better to know that everyone deals with this, every body type and skin color.

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    Lol! I get offended by "milflover" who keeps coming into freechat. I'm 26 for fucks sake!

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    aw thanks you guys!
    It's helpful to know that it's not just me haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnshinne View Post
    aw thanks you guys!
    It's helpful to know that it's not just me haha
    No definitely not just you: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...-Have-you-ever





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    Of course its not just you! Everyone deals with rude people and if guys don't get stuff in free chat many times they will get nasty. Ban them and try to forget about it.

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    Ahh I have one more question. I've bee reading through this website and I see that everyone agrees that you shouldn't give them your address. They already have my id and the only way I can get paid is to have the checks sent to my house. Is it really a serious concern? Is there anything I can or should do now? Really sorry if this doesn't belong here!

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    Nope, definitely not just you! I had someone come into my room telling me I looked like a guy in drag and just decided to field it. I started singing "today's a holiday" from Priscilla Queen Of The Desert. Assholes will be assholes, just remember they have tiny peens and still live with their parents at forty Just boot their asses and don't let it get to you.

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    Shouldn't give who your address? Who is 'them'? I have my address set up on MFC and guys can't see it, MFC uses my address to send me my check. What site are you on?

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    I'm on imlive. I was reading a lot of posts saying that you shouldn't send them an id with your address and you shouldn't have your checks sent to your home address.

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    When someone calls me fat, it's one of 3 things: (and I'll be so scientific in this post)


    1st example:
    He:"You're fat"
    Me: "Mmmm, yeah, do you like all that fat? (grabs arms or hips) You want to see it jiggle in private?"

    outcome a.): he hates BBWs and this grosses him out, he loses his boner and gets out of my room. WIN!
    outcome b.): he loves BBWs and he said I'm fat because it turns him on. In fact he has a fat fetish. He takes me exclusive and I'll make a shitload of money while jiggling and showing off and talking about his fetish. WIN!

    2nd example:
    He: "You're fat"
    Me: "Oh, am I? Do you like it sweetie? Or should I be ashamed of myself?"

    outcome a.): He's a jerk and he came to my room to troll me. He replies with some more insults. I ban him and never see him again. WIN!
    outcome b.) He has a humiliation fetish. He takes me exclusive and I'll make a shitload of money while he insults me and humiliates me. WIN!

    3rd example:
    He: "You're fat"
    Me: (too bored to care) BAN!

    WIN!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnshinne View Post
    Hello!
    He was calling me a "fat slob" and other names. I tried to block him several times, but somehow he kept coming it. I was expecting there to be some assholes, but for some reason it really bothered me when it actually happened.
    Was his member name MisterRoberts? If so I had that sneaky fuck in my room tonight.

    Called me a fat slob and said "how can you expect anyone to want to feed your pie hole with all the beauties on this site?". I laughed and got up, made my belly jiggle and told him I have lots of jelly if he wanted some.

    Problem got to be when he kept on interrupting my privates; coming in and out and staying only 30 seconds. He completely destroyed a private session I was having with one of my regulars and I was not quick enough to block him as I don't cam right in front of my computer. My regular got pissed and left. This regular normally does 10-15 minute sessions, but this time he stayed only 5 minutes. I ended up sitting by my computer with my camera aimed at my wall and waited for him to come back in my free chat. Sure enough he did and I got him right then and there. Blocked him and sent an email to support about this guy.

    Normally when a guy calls me fat I just say something like, "yeah I am so fat and disgusting they should just shoot me now. I bet the bullet would make my fat jiggle so much that your penis would errupt and you would become impotent. But it sure would be a good orgasm considering you love to stare at my big jiggly belly". I laugh these guys off and make humorous jokes. Don't let the haters get to you.

    I do make jokes with these assholes, but as soon as they start fucking with my money they are gone ASAP. I get pissed when they screw with my money and I block. Unfortunately one of these fucks cost me $15 today because my reg left 5 minutes in to our session.

    BTW I am 5'7 tall 165 pounds. I have seen a 5'3 tall 95 pound girl get called fat. I have seen black girls get called the N word. I have been called racist names because I am Asian. Tonight I saw a girl with glasses dealing with some ass calling her "4 eyes deaf dumb blind". I bet every girl on this forum has something she has been made fun of for (be it their nose, weight, accent, etc).



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    Can't help with the address question, but totally agree with what the ladies have said so far. Also don't forget that 99% of these guys don't have the bollox to say these things in person to your face, they just became brave when you can't see them. Whilst you can't see them just conjour up a pic of how they might look

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    ImLive is notoriously inconsistentabout sending checks - definitely check the Payment forums to see if that is the payout option you'd like. They may have gotten better but I definitely remember seeing many a post that is like "It is February, I havet received my check from October? pls advise". It may have gotten better though as I havent been paying attention to it as much this year, so ymmv.

    Also Ill be honest, for me ImLive's freechat is easily one of the most brutal freechats Ive ever endured. Lol seriously. Im usually made out of teflon (well mostly), so trust me when I say it is the worst

    It is godawful, like slice your Achille's heel and rub bathsalts into the wound awful. Like having a drunk barricuda perform oral sex on you awful.

    OK Im being hyperbolic but it isnt fun.

    What was said about IDs is it is ideal to use your passport because your videos could be relicensed where your ID can be included, so people buying your content could have access to your address. PornLaw (the person who first suggested camgirls do this this) explains why really well in that thread if you review it again. It was just strongly suggested you use a passport or an ID with a different address not "you should never", if you cant you cant.

    You need to have your real ID on file if you need to have checks sent.





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    I'm not on ImLive so I am not sure about that site.

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    Are you actually listening to and entertaining these guys? Bah, maybe I'm just a bitch but I ignore the fuckers until I hear "katching", then I'm sweetness & light and all over them

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    you are beautiful op! and i don't even need a picture of you to tell you this

    simply put, we all put up with these haters. i'm petite (5', 94 lbs) and am always told how 'fat' i am, or 'anorexic', and just the other day i had legit 4 guys troll me hardcore like it was all plannedd to come in at once and do it, about how ugly i was and how my face seemed stretched out and how i musta been in a fire. honestly, yeah it got to me a bit, but hell if i'd show them that! we are all beautiful and independant working women, with the hard job of putting ourselves out there. that alone makes up way more brave/strong/amazing then the average low-blow-smoe-joe. keep your head up doll! remember the nights you had fun, those nights will happen again! and you'll be rolling in the doe, and idk about you but that is what keeps me happy!

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    IMLive has to be the worst place for the insults (at least in my experience) sure I get them once in awhile on other sites but nothing compared to what I get on there.
    The name calling bugged me for a couple of days but then I started seeing that they do it to everybody. You could be a Victoria Secrets model and there would still be some person that goes in their room saying "ewwwww...nasty crack whore"

    I find the best way to deal with people like that is to make fun of them and get everyone else in your room doing it to so they become the butt of the joke. They always leave on their own then with their tail between their legs

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    Everyone, and I mean, everyone has been trolled about something whilst working on cam. I mean, guys have their preferences, but to actually make fun of a girl/guy instead of clicking on another cam model is just trolling for the lulz.

    I'm not a fan of responding to guys like that for the following reasons:

    a) Trolls thrive on attention. There is extensive internets evidence in support of this

    b) Sometimes responding to these guys can get you more involved, and make you more upset. Whereas if you have a default response to any negativity (banning without comment), it becomes automatic and you don't really think about or dwell on the trolls.

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    I had a guy in my room last night say 'I can't believe you lame guys pay this bitch' and the other guys even said...'why are you here then if you don't like her?' And then I hit ban before he could say anything else. Everyone will have haters no matter how you look !

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    You should not be worried or concerned with any grown man who comes to a site full of tits and ass just to bully females. I mean guys like that don't even deserve a thread IJS. But anyway while he's talking trash you're making cash. Keep it up!

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    " back in da day".. when I was on Live jasmin.. i was getting SO many haters.. like really.. it was every hour...
    on a " normal" site . u get a few haters a day... on LJ, It was raining with haters and I suspect it was other models and studio bosses trying to mess with the other girls.. thats when they had the awards and everybody was fighting tooth and nails to get awarded...
    anyway..
    I found the BEST comment to tell/type to someone who was harresing me ( by typing to me)..
    I told them
    " I have a special contract with this site.. the more people TYPE in my chatroom, the more I get paid because it shows I bring them traffic ( bla bla)... so thank you.. keep it up!"...
    see they dont know any better so from their point of view that could be possible...

    whats worse than a hater?
    a hater that makes you money !!
    ( from the hater;s POV..)

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