I have only been camming since Feb and I am having a hard time not taking some stuff personally. When I have a bad night I am really hard on my self. If I loose a regular (which I know happens over time) I wonder what I did or didnt do. How do you not take it personally?



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When viewed in that light, a slow night means that *we* are being rejected, when in reality, what we sell is entertainment and fulfillment that we create with our minds and bodies, just as people in every other profession do. Tits and Sass (thanks Roast) has a wicked article on the 'Language of Selling Yourself' that challenges the way sex work is often perceived in mainstream discourse and it may help you realize that what's being desired or rejected on cam is NOT you, it's the character you play and the work that you do.


and so are you

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