Hi ladies, i just moved to another state PA state .My bf is about to attend school this AUGUST.He just got out of Army,we have been both applying for countless day jobs but no luck. I got 2 interviews however i did not hear anything after all.Before i got a day job and i had no problem about hiring procoess.Same for my bf too. It's been 3 weeks there are jobs posted on websites like, snaga-job,indeed, craiglist etc... I applied some places online and i received stupid answer at 3 am! which i am not qualified for job. Same thing happened my bf too. After couple min he received an e mail says he is not qualified.A lot of places did not even call a simple interview! Why getting job is so hard in this town? Is it town or r we both unlucky people?
I danced last 1,5 year Wisconsin in NC and WI. I have made good money but could not save.I averaged 5 grand a month although i divorced my ex i needed that money for moving expenses, new furniture , rent , living also i sent money to home... I have a family overseas.I traveled to Europe , i shoped etc... Last month before i moved PA i saved 4300 $ after i paid my rent. My bf had some money from his paycheck too.Even though we saved money when we moved another place money s gone! The place we rented wanted to charge double security deposit due to our job status. It was 1600$, military did not pay for our moving expenses, we have to claim our expenses and we can get some money back.rent is 865$ , after u haul , gas etc... all money we had s gone almost...Only 600$ left ! My bf got some money from military , also qualified for unemployment every month 2280$.Also his GI bill will start after August 1480every month.... I do not know how r we gonna make a liiving this amount of money. He definatly does not want me to work at strip club. He seemed ok before now we moved another state , he keeps sayin he was ok for a while because he thought i was gonna do that job for only limited time. I always said yes i ll quit one day however i cant even find one simple day job! I realized this place suffers lack of employment! I cant buy a car or do saving with little paycheck i will make. I m having major depression due to quitted my well payin job... I averaged 5 grand now i am broke... I love my boyfriend i dont wanna break up but cant take it anymore. I feel like he retains me from life i wanna live. If he could not exist in my life i could have more money, i could send my family money, i could go more vacations whenever i want, taking day of from work would not be problem... I could save money but now its impossible. He tells me he will pay bills whatever i make from dayjob will be mine... I dont wanna work forever for such a small amount of money.Actually i cant even find this job...I wanna dance i m so depressed, i love dancing,i burnt out and ranted him little bit before. Now my feelings has changed i even see myself dancing in my dreams. I miss the money i have made.
What should i do? I need a job , he doesnt want me to dancing.He SAID his friends doesnt respect me and emberrased. He wants to marry me in future and dont want me to be his kids mom who used to dance forever.He said he was ok for a while but not anymore. Yes i told him i wanna get out now i realized feelings has changed again.I dont wanna leave him however i do not wanna stop dancing...He wants me to go school.I wanna go school but i cant. I have many concerns. With such a small paycheck how the fuck am i going to pay my school ?I am foreigner price of school will be even more for me...I am so scared i would go school than cant even afford anything else. Also i do not know what degree i should go for anyways??? I want something i can make decent living in future.Thank God at least i can get financial aid because of my immegration status still it doesnt cover school expenses?



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