OP - May I point out , I have noticed little correlation between attractiveness and self esteem ! While it would make sense that an uglier guy/girl would worship the ground you walk on , and find you 'extra' attractive , I don't find this to be the case in life at all .... In fact often ugly guys are the first to nit pick any little flaw on a beautiful woman. In the same respect , often men with great bodies , carry a low self esteem .... Body builder in particular are well known for having low self esteem ----- ( obviously that's a generalization, but it makes a bit of sense that the guy shy guy got pumped to have something other than his personality to hide behind ) ..... Anyway , of course generalisations are just that , but what I am saying is , there is really small link between what people consider beautiful and how they look themself !! Believe me when I say , a conventionally ugly guy with a big ego , is no more likely to worship your beauty than a conventionally attractive guy with a small ego ....... While it would make sense for the trend to exist , it really doesn't , same for the other way round ------ How many truly ugly bitches do you know who walk around thinking they're the most beautiful thing to grace the planet...I can tell you , I know literally 100s.... and On the same level, I know many beautiful girls who consider themselves less than shit on the beauty dar - Beauty is of course in the eye of the beholder - it's an interpretation, a criticism even - and generally in life - beauty does not pair up ------- Most couples are not on the same level , in general, financially yes, professionally yes , but beauty ---- I don't believe so .
I understand this wasn't your question , but I just wanted to add that in .
As for switching - I am dominant by nature , and lead a lifestyle which relfects that - I can't switch , not even for a customer - I physically can't do it , I feel like I'm violating my sexuality - I would sooner dominate a woman ( I am straight ) , than submit to anyone - I know many girls who switch for work , I know many insta dommes/subs who play only a role on cam --- and while many lifestylers have a problem with it , I couldn't give a hoot .... In fact , Lifestyle Dom/subs who have the ability to switch for cam , probably deserve more respect than me who won't/can't. It's not because I feel like a fraudster acting sub , It's because I feel like I'm being raped , and I won't do anything I hugely dislike, even for money - I almost wish I could

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