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    I have a few miscellaneous issues I'm having with the clubs and customers right now. Rather than making separate threads I thought I'd put them all in here for advice on what to do:

    1.) I've had a domination customer for over 3 months. I usually see him every Saturday from 3-8 PM for $540, no nudity. I meet at his home and we do domination and hang out/have dinner type stuff. The last two Saturdays he has been too "busy" to see me (which has happened before) but something seems different. My school starts this week and I have class from 9 AM - 5 PM every other Saturday so I said we might have to switch to Sundays. When we were texting he said to call and check his availability but he can't promise anything. It's not that he hasn't acted this way before (he owns his own law firm and is REALLY busy) but I don't want to keep texting every week and getting turned down. It's great, easy money that helps pay the bills so I don't want to lose him as a customer...but eventually I'll just give up on the situation because I don't want to look desperate. I'm going to text him Friday and ask if he can see me Sunday. How long should I keep texting him if I am repeatedly being told he is "busy" each week? What should I say if he says that again Friday?

    2.) A rich customer gave me his business card this weekend and said to text him when I am coming to the club (which I am this weekend). He spent about $240 on me in a half hour. He is the CEO of a company that works with the U.S. Military and he works about 80+ hours a week. Should I text him the day before or the day of work? And what should I say to him to entice him to come visit? Since he is so busy I don't know how much notice to give him but I haven't texted him since he gave me his card which was Saturday.

    3.) My current club has me on a free lance schedule (it's a Deja Vu) which means they take 45% of what I make except tips plus $10 house fee. The drive is 1 hour each way which is about $20 in gas. In the past two weeks this is what I've taken home and paid them: Two Fridays ago: Take home $540, pay out $312. Two Saturdays ago: Take home $330, pay out $186. Last Friday: Take home $350, pay out $201. Last Saturday: Take home $340, pay out $171. I've given them $870 in the last four shifts I've worked. I'm falling behind on bills and I hate it because I need that money and it's so unfair they are getting that much out of me. The rest of the clubs in the area are dirty, and there is a new Deja Vu Gold club that opened nearby that is topless that I'm thinking about going to. Should I stick with my home club because I know the run down or take a chance on a new club this weekend with lower fees ($40 house fee and $2/dance)? I need money this weekend and I heard the Gold Club was slammed last weekend. I just need a good weekend to get ahead on my bills. What would you do?

    Edit: for #3; I worked 5-6 hours each night. Not a full 8 hour shift.
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    Default Re: Random questions/issues I'm having with customers and the clubs

    1. I think you should text him one last time on Friday like you plan to and then if he turns you down again leave him alone for at least a month, maybe even two, and then give it one more try. If you get turned down then again I would move on. Another approach that could work depending on his personality is DEMANDING him to make time for you this Sunday, it might work since he likes to be dominated.

    2. Yes text him today or tomorrow, either or, since you dont really know him you cant know whether he likes to plan ahead or not. I would write something like this: Hey there how are you? Hope all is well and that you are not working too hard I will be working again this weekend and I would love to see you again, it was so much fun! XOXO

    3. Now I dont know the clubs at all that you are talking about but I would probably at least try one night at the other club. Its impossible to know if it will be better or not but you wont know unless you try! From what you write about the high percentage versus the low tipout it sounds like its worth a try!

    Good luck!

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    1. Maybe try texting him, & ask if he dosen't want to see you on Sun., that you will expect that he will let you know what day/time is good for him, & that you don't want to keep bothering him, asking about the Sun. schedule, so you will not keep texting him. Does this make sense
    2. I would text him both days, & just say, "Hi hun, thanks for your card, which you gave me last Sat., I'll be in the club tonight, would love to see you?
    3. Try the new club, work in in your schedule as best you can, like C. says, you won't know until you try. Btw, that really sucks, how much they take.
    Good Luck!

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    #1) This guy likes domination but he has a dominant personality IRL and when we are just relaxing. I've thought about ordering him to see me Sunday but it could backfire. I figure it is probably a good last ditch effort. Something like "Master Laurisa expects her bootlicking French poodle will clean her boots and sniff her ass no later than Sunday!!"

    #2) I'm going to text the guy late tonight or tomorrow. He was SO respectful and nice, I think he deserves a bit of notice. I kinda want to see if he'd meet me for dinner instead of at the club. More money for me and he seems "traditional". I could do dinner with him and still work. How much should I charge for dinner? An hour VIP is $300 so I was thinking $300? Or is that too high? He seems like he would pay it as he is a niave, new customer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa
    #1) This guy likes domination but he has a dominant personality IRL and when we are just relaxing. I've thought about ordering him to see me Sunday but it could backfire. I figure it is probably a good last ditch effort. Something like "Master Laurisa expects her bootlicking French poodle will clean her boots and sniff her ass no later than Sunday!!"

    #2) I'm going to text the guy late tonight or tomorrow. He was SO respectful and nice, I think he deserves a bit of notice. I kinda want to see if he'd meet me for dinner instead of at the club. More money for me and he seems "traditional". I could do dinner with him and still work. How much should I charge for dinner? An hour VIP is $300 so I was thinking $300? Or is that too high? He seems like he would pay it as he is a niave, new customer.
    I personally would prefer to meet him at the club, especially if he is a new and naive costumer, he might think you actually want to date him and it might get awkward trying to get him to pay? Club is much safer in all ways!
    And yes play the domination card on the other guy...it's worth a try

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    Default Re: Random questions/issues I'm having with customers and the clubs

    No he knows he has to pay I texted him already. It's a public place and I'd go to the club after so he couldn't follow me home and my car isn't registered in my name or to my address. My real name is similar to Jane Smith, no joke, I'm hard to find.
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    ^Oh I see!

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