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    I am a mom of five and find it hard to find time to work at times. What do you do to give you time to work?

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    I think in a way, all us mothers feel as if we could be doing 'better'...I am a single mom where the dad is still around so I'm lucky I can work if he's with his dad...even though I work during the day and he has racing and karate I still find it hard to find time as well. I basically use the time at night so I know I have time to focus and will not feel bad for not logging on. I typically will wake up at 7 and work out (which I think is key to keeping a healthy head and body) and after I drop his off at school I'm at work then off then make dinner and pick him up and go to either karate and/or racing then he either goes to my house or his dads. I give myself some time on SW and am on until midnight. I figure its hit and miss as far as the money goes...atleast your putting in the effort and if it's going good...1am isn't too bad as 6 hours of sleep is still pretty good. During the weekend I try to be on for one 'day' so I feel as if I put in the effort. The only time I feel stressed about it is if I'm telling myself I should've just logged on...that's where my guilt comes in...anything else I can handle hope that helps

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    School time and bed time is the only time. I wish I could cam more because the times I make the most are mid day but that usually doesn't work out for me unless the little one is with grandma. I would also like to hear what other ladies do to make more time =)

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    I don't have family support, and we can't afford daycare yet, so my three-year-old is always with me. This means that I can only cam at night after he goes to bed. I'm generally on between about 8:00pm and midnight; sometimes a little later. Now that my boyfriend has started working days again, he's able to help out at night with putting the little one to bed while I get ready. I can't do day shows until I can get a computer of my own and do it in the bedroom on the bf's days off, or until the little one is old enough for school (or we can manage to get him into daycare). It sucks, but you do what you gotta, you know? I use the day hours to update profiles, respond to any messages, and send out videos and photos if anyone's ordered them. It's not much, but it's all I can do.



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    I have a 4-year-old and an infant. Fortunately my husband stays at home with me so he generally watches them whenever I need him to. However, I still prefer to cam mostly when my baby is napping. She takes a 2-3 hour nap around noon every day so I always try to cam then.

    The rest of the day, I can't really cam longer than 1 hour stretches because she's breastfed and gets fussy if she goes too long without me. All in all, I don't really work very much (average 2-3 hours a day).

    I cringe when I think about how much I could get done without kids! lol. Oh well.

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    I have two kids and a hubby. Hubby works a day job, kids go to school, I cam. I cam in my bedroom, so I can't work at night. I just do what I can do during the day...

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    my kids are 1, 3, 6, 7, and 8. I don't get much alone time ^_^ I usually do a show when the youngest is napping.

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    i'm amazed youre not exhausted! i have two children aged 12 and 2 and im constantly tired out. however my man works part time so i do the days hes not working. id rather work full time and have him give up his job but he he needs his independance too i guess! if i work past midnight i feel so tired the next day. i love to do days.

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    My daughter is almost 7 months. Fortunately for me, her dad is still around. So, I work when she's sleeping, with his mom, or when he's watching her.
    If I didn't have him, I'd only work during her naps and/or after she goes to bed.

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    Oh there are days I am a walking zombie LOL. DH works around 57. hours. I do 98% of all house work but when he gets home he jumps right in and helps with the kids.

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    i'm amazed youre not exhausted! i have two children aged 12 and 2 and im constantly tired out. however my man works part time so i do the days hes not working. id rather work full time and have him give up his job but he he needs his independance too i guess! if i work past midnight i feel so tired the next day. i love to do days.

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    These last few weeks of school my son has been home-schooled, so I haven't been able to get on cam during the school day like before. So I get on cam at night after he goes to bed.
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    THANK YOU FOR THIS THREAD i a 3 year old little girl and DAM I am sooooooooooooooooooooooo tried most of time, going to the park and doing therapy when she she goes to bed, I do not feel like camming or anything

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    I feel ya, it can get tricky. I have a 2 year old son and hubs works 9-6 through the week My son still naps on occasion so I usually cam for an hr or 2 when he does. Then when hubs gets home we eat dinner, spend time together, put him to sleep and I am on to cam for a few more hours. I usually cam 4 hrs a day, 5 days a week. I know I could make more if I worked an 8 hr shift everyday, but I like that I can be home do the stay at home mom and housewife thing and still bring in extra cash for the household.

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    OP, Excuse my ignorance but how can u manage the situation having 5 kids one after the other almost and doing household and still willing to cam? I mean it amazes me how can u guys can manage with all expenses, how u had the courage to give birth to 5 kids and not let ur body rest inbetween, docs say ideal is to give body 3 years to recover after giving birth... i mean sorry again but i just come from different world here (eastern europe) and my life was and is not easy at all, i divorced when my son was 8 month old (dad became alcoholic), now my son is almost 18 and i am almost 38, i know my life was soo difficult trying to get a well paid job that pays my bills and food and all, my parents will watch my son in village area till he was 7 and then i bought him home and put him in school. That exact summer in 2001 i started to work in a studio as a cam girl and after i saved enough for a pc/ cam/ internet i started working at home on my own, so i was at home with my son and watch him, i was working nights when he was asleep, i was always tired especially cause i have a condition with my eyes and i cant be at pc more than 4-5 hrs a day/ nite. After some good years my son and family that visited often understood what my job is about, they understood this is the only option to keep us alive so here i am still camming. Tried to go off cam for like 2-3 years inbetween but the jobs i could get simply did not pay enough to keep us going. I am still single cause i dont have the courage to get involved with someone as i am not willing to tell what i do 4 a living.
    My son's dad died from alcoholic coma and pneumonia in 2009, this is soo scary when u think he died at 39. I mean if i had 5 kids with him and being together still and he was the only one bringing money at home, if i'd lost him i'd be fucked up with no income to raise my kids. The Gov't here gives for each kid a messy $12 PER MONTH as child benefit. My ex did not care for his son so it was me only raising him up and i did and still struggle alot.
    Some members from US told me that for each kid u have there u get a nice amount of cash and that some women will give birth to kids just to get support from gov't cause they prefer not to work for whatever reasons. Happens the same in UK, i lived there a year, moms can live nicely w.o working, just pay all from the benefits they get from govt. Here we get nothing, if u get sick and cant work anymore u fucked up simply (this is my biggest nightmare).
    Again, my comments ARE NOT intended to hurt anyone's feelings, God bless all of your kids and bless u and partners, wish u good health and long lives so u can bring ur kids up and offer them good living condition and education, i am just amazed how can some of u girls have the power & courage to do all these things. Guess i am too traumatized by my own life experience to give a man credit that he'll take care of me and our kids whatsoever.

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    Moms here in the US don't get money automatically. Unless you are willing to be on welfare. If I am correct in my thinking though, you can only receive welfare for three years, once in your lifetime.

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    I think religious affiliation aside, Alicefun is right. The female body is traumatized during the gestation period and childbirth. Hormones and organs are out of wack for several years after. That being said, it is obviously not impossible to have children back to back and it really depends on WHO the mom is. My mother had my sister and I 16 months apart, and we were both healthy and happy babies. The real danger comes with lack of nutrients for the mother. My mother took prenatals and extra vitamins when she was pregnant with my sister and after she was born her teeth started to fall out due to lack of nutrients. A baby will seep all of your vitamins naturally and the issue with having children back to back is your body cannot replenish those vitamins for the mom before the other baby starts sucking them up again.

    Now that we are completely off the topic, lol. OP congrats on your 5 little ones. It is your choice to have children, whenever and how many you would like. I know I can barely handle it myself and I only have 1 little one running around.So you are more of a woman than me Good luck to you

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    WOW! 5 kids???? I too am amazed that you have time to do anything else! Especially when they are so young.....

    Anyway - amazement aside!

    Other than trying to work during naps, schooltime and after bedtimes, there are a few things that you can do to help you squeeze it in wherever you can...

    - don't get too hung up on a schedule, or a plan. Just work whenever you have a couple minutes!! Lets face it, it is lovely to be able to log on for a few hours at a time, but even logging in for 20mins can still make you money.
    - Along those lines, log on whenever you are online!! Coming on to SW? Log on. Checking e-mail? Log on. I am almost never on my computer without being logged in - sometimes people will take you pvt even if you are ignoring them entirely!! Its always worth it, its not like you can LOSE money by being logged on!
    - Keep your cam area set up, if you can. It makes it easier to leap on for a bit if you don't have 15 mins of set up to do! If you don't have a separate cam room, then set up your area in the morning in the bedroom, and take it down at night before bed. Keep your computer and cam on, your toys out, and any "costume" parts nearby. Obviously keep the door shut and the kids out though!
    - Minimise your "prep time" as much as possible. That means that as well as keeping your area set up, keep yourSELF set up! When you get up in the morning, put on your full camming makeup - it may feel a little odd to take the kids to the park in full whorepaint, but if it makes you money, who cares? I am always walking the dog in sweatpants and an inch of face paint....LOL
    - Use your time with the kids around to do other cam-related stuff. While they are playing or watching tv, answer e-mails, tweet, upload videos, do research....basically get all the other stuff out of the way if you can't be logged in.
    - And finally, if you have a support network, USE IT!! Get grandma to babysit once a week if she wants to - and then use that day to cam like a crazy woman! Ask your SO to get up an hour early to watch the kids before work while you cam, or to give you time before bedtimes to work while he takes care of the kids.
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    single mom, I cam from 10pm to 2am when the kids are obviously sleeping

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamChick View Post
    Well I have an almost 2yr old & no childcare whatsoever. No financial support either,therfore I do what I have to. The only time I get to cam is at night when he's asleep. I can usually put in a good 8hrs depending on how perky I am. We're together 24/7 & I have gone out exactly three times since he was born. I also aim to cam at least 5 nights a week which means I only sleep with him at naptime[no more than 3hrs] & on the weekends. I'm trying to work my a** off so I can afford childcare & get back to colledge[I'm 23]. So I get no sleep & I have no life. Ahhhh.....the beauty of Motherhood!
    Our situations are so similar! Only I'm 24 and my son is a year and a half. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone!

    ETA: His grandmother, who lives halfway across the country, is planning on taking him for a couple of weeks, in July. You best believe I'm going to be working my ass off then! smh


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    The 8 year old. the 6 year old and the 3 year old are all my step children. They are like my own children. I have been raising the 3 year old since he was 9 months old. My husband has custody and they only see their mother every other weekend. We are also planning on adopting a 6th child (We just found out in January I have a genetic desiese and my youngest has it). The 7 year old is my own and the 1 year old is ours. We are also on NO form of public aide at all. We manage without any goverment aide. We take care of our children.
    In this case it was the MOTHER who could give a rats behind about her children. My step kids mother does not want to spend ANY extra time with her kids, it's like pulling teeth to get her to even take them to the park on her weekend. They are normaly all in ONE room (her bedroom) the whole weekend while she pounds away at the computer. then throws a fit that she has to pay 100$ a MONTH for THREE children in child support. I am lucky to have found a man that steps up to the plate with his kids. He works his maximum hours (he is a CDL driver so is limitied on how many hours he can work) then comes home and helps with the kids. My oldests sons father does not contact his son or pay child support.
    Quote Originally Posted by AliceFun View Post
    OP, Excuse my ignorance but how can u manage the situation having 5 kids one after the other almost and doing household and still willing to cam? I mean it amazes me how can u guys can manage with all expenses, how u had the courage to give birth to 5 kids and not let ur body rest inbetween, docs say ideal is to give body 3 years to recover after giving birth... i mean sorry again but i just come from different world here (eastern europe) and my life was and is not easy at all, i divorced when my son was 8 month old (dad became alcoholic), now my son is almost 18 and i am almost 38, i know my life was soo difficult trying to get a well paid job that pays my bills and food and all, my parents will watch my son in village area till he was 7 and then i bought him home and put him in school. That exact summer in 2001 i started to work in a studio as a cam girl and after i saved enough for a pc/ cam/ internet i started working at home on my own, so i was at home with my son and watch him, i was working nights when he was asleep, i was always tired especially cause i have a condition with my eyes and i cant be at pc more than 4-5 hrs a day/ nite. After some good years my son and family that visited often understood what my job is about, they understood this is the only option to keep us alive so here i am still camming. Tried to go off cam for like 2-3 years inbetween but the jobs i could get simply did not pay enough to keep us going. I am still single cause i dont have the courage to get involved with someone as i am not willing to tell what i do 4 a living.
    My son's dad died from alcoholic coma and pneumonia in 2009, this is soo scary when u think he died at 39. I mean if i had 5 kids with him and being together still and he was the only one bringing money at home, if i'd lost him i'd be fucked up with no income to raise my kids. The Gov't here gives for each kid a messy $12 PER MONTH as child benefit. My ex did not care for his son so it was me only raising him up and i did and still struggle alot.
    Some members from US told me that for each kid u have there u get a nice amount of cash and that some women will give birth to kids just to get support from gov't cause they prefer not to work for whatever reasons. Happens the same in UK, i lived there a year, moms can live nicely w.o working, just pay all from the benefits they get from govt. Here we get nothing, if u get sick and cant work anymore u fucked up simply (this is my biggest nightmare).
    Again, my comments ARE NOT intended to hurt anyone's feelings, God bless all of your kids and bless u and partners, wish u good health and long lives so u can bring ur kids up and offer them good living condition and education, i am just amazed how can some of u girls have the power & courage to do all these things. Guess i am too traumatized by my own life experience to give a man credit that he'll take care of me and our kids whatsoever.

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    I wanted to bring this thread back from the dead and get more ideas and more networking as far as the camming mom's on here!

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    Yay! Camming mamas! I have two kids (8 &10) who are homeschooled. I'm mom by day and camgirl by night. I'm so thankful that my kids are really self-sufficient in the mornings (i've never been a morning person, they're both early risers, the gods are testing me I tell you lol) so I can cam til the wee hours of the morning and they feed themselves breakfast and f I'm lucky they'll do their chores and co-exist peacefully until I get up in the late morning and we enjoy brunch together before school and housework. It's a pretty awesome situation when it works. Then there are days when I sleep like crap and the 8 year old has nightmares and winds up taking up half of my bed and they wake me a zillion times a morning and ugh lol Overall though, I love it.

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    Being a cam mum is great right now. My daughter is 5 and she's at school 6 hours a day (cam time for me), and goes to bed at 8pm (more cam time for me), THEN she goes to her dad's on the weekend so even more cam time! Ha. She's a really good kid and I'm so pleased I can take her to school, pick her up, go to all of her school events, tuck her in at night and still have the means to make an awesome income for us both. It's great!

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    I am a mom! I have a crazy 18 month old still breastfed co sleeping little bean. It's hard being that he still breastfeeds but its only getting easier. I'm so ready for summer to be here so his dad can take him outside and tucker him out without boob milk. lol

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