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    Default first day blew

    i made 50 dollars, but my total was 33....bleh.
    girls threw my shit on the floor.
    met some awesome guys who i love to talk to...id rather talk than dance.
    i felt like a total newb on stage...scared...shakey and felt like i didnt move smooth at all
    some things were repetitive. anyways im napping

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    Default Re: first day blew

    on the bright side, the first day is over !

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    After a while you will learn to club-hop to find clubs that have a specific environment such as girls who aren't as hostile or ghetto. Keep living and learning. Practice makes perfect. Don't stay loyal to a club out of personal fear of auditioning elsewhere, or because of laziness, or simply blind loyalty.

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    im actually texting my manager and tell her i cant do it.

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    I can't stand those girls that are all like, "I made $800 my very first night every stripping!" No bitch, you didn't.
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    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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    how much did you make? i fucking hate it....and now i cant bend my knees so called in on my graveyard job which will end up getting me close to being fired because of my call ins are greater than 3 within 6 months......although they were suppose to drop off on the 1st...im so fucking jdfbrbaskbjhbwkjab. stripping is not easy and its not what i thought it was....unless i just suck

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    You absolutely HAVE to give it at LEAST one month before you decide if it's for you or not. It's so inconsistent. Tomorrow you could meet a guy that pays all your rent and buys you a car. It happens all the time. Do you think I paid for my car or boobs? No ma'am....
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    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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    Yup, the only way is up!! My first night I made $76 and I left early because I thought I sucked so bad, and I cried in the car while my friend drove me home. Within a week I had a $500 night (ahh, those were the days) and I remembered why I got into it.


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    Those first few weeks are always the hardest...especially in clubs with vets that have a low tolerance for newbies. Thd vets straight up peed in my bag, all over my clothes ( including what I wore to work that day) in my uggboots and all over my my makeup on my second day working.

    They eventually became some of my close friends=) They are just giving you a tough time because that is what was done to them when they were new.

    As for the money: Honestly, that is just how stripping is. One day you might make a thousand dollars and then the next day you might only make 20 dollars. Stripping is incredibly inconsistent and anyone who claims that it isn't is fucking lying, lol.

    Anyway, don't give up! It'll get better!
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    but 33 dollars just suck...even one of the new girls that started with me is catty....but shes danced before and likes to show off.....she was competing against another girl....the other new one who is a doll shes danced before too. so...i just feel let down. not sure what im in for.

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    ^We have all had financially sucky nights. All of us.


    (though some of us will never admit it)

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    ^^ Yup!!! And sometimes it's the whole club, but other nights it's just you. I've had nights when a regular had me in the VIP all night while the rest of the girls struggled in a dead club... and I've had nights when everyone else was throwing money around the dressing room and I was asking the DJ if I could pay him his tipout tomorrow because I didn't make enough that night.

    The other new girls that have danced before are just showing off because they know its cut-throat, and they're showing off to try and fit in with the other girls so they don't get targeted for being a newb. Don't worry, it really will get better! Before long, you won't be the newest girl anymore and if you stick at it long enough, you might wind up being one of the vets lol. So many new girls come and go in strip clubs that girls don't even bother making friends with new girls until they know they're actually gonna stay longer than a week. You can do it!!!


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    Listen, I made 80 dollars take home my first night. This job isn't rocket science but there is a learning curve. Keep on trucking and I promise you will make money. good luck!
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    Thank you all for inspiring me to do this. I am going through with it....my boyfriend is just freaking out because i only made 33 dollars...actually 50 before house fee...but he is worried ill lose my retail job because i called in last night bc i was tired and i asked for sat. off short noticed....so hes just worried about bills....worried i wont make 900 in a month. thats my goal.

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    You know, what that girl said about your boobs sounds like jealousy to me. Sometimes girls are just catty, period. It might also be because you're hot and will be super competition for them if you stick it out. =]

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    I've never peed in peoples' shit. And no way would I ever be friends with someone who did that to me.... where does this shit happen? I've never worked at a club where I would remotely fathom this happening..... the housemom watches shit like a hawk.
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    I've never peed in peoples' shit. And no way would I ever be friends with someone who did that to me.... where does this shit happen? I've never worked at a club where I would remotely fathom this happening..... the housemom watches shit like a hawk.
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    I don't think I'll make $33 my first night to be honest! Lol hunny You're ahead of me, u already auditioned and took the plunge! I'm nervous as H E L L it's my first time ever

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    I've never peed in peoples' shit. And no way would I ever be friends with someone who did that to me.... where does this shit happen? I've never worked at a club where I would remotely fathom this happening..... the housemom watches shit like a hawk.
    Popes Nude Bar in Palm Springs. Oh man that place was a dive, but ot was also a goldmine because it was the only strip club in Palm Springs at the time...

    And money practically grows on trees in Palm Springs...jesus.

    Why is it strange that i befriended them? They all apologized a few months later and were actually pretty cool.

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    ...oh wait..never mind. I just remembered that SW is the land of ridicule...:p

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    Hang in there girl, the first couple of weeks are so hard and stressful. Just keep reading stuff on here about how to sell and approach guys and keep going to the club to work, because experience is gonna be the best way to see your money go up. And I don't know what city you're in, but $900 a month should be no sweat! You're gonna be making that in a couple of days

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charismaa View Post
    I don't think I'll make $33 my first night to be honest! Lol hunny You're ahead of me, u already auditioned and took the plunge! I'm nervous as H E L L it's my first time ever
    Haha, this for me too. =] That's $33 you didn't have before~

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    Whoever said stripping was inconsistent is right on the money..literally. You can't let your first night bring you down. You need to leave the negativity and desperation at the door. Go back with a fresh outlook every night. Sometimes that's really hard to do, I know. Figure out your weaknesses and go find a thread about it in Hustle Hut. Sitting too long with customers and not asking for dances? There's a thread in HH. Afraid to approach large groups? There's a thread in HH. Need lines to use to sell a dance? There's a thread in HH.
    This business revolves around confidence. No matter what, paste a damn smile on your face and keep moving!

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