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    I feel like there are some night's that i go to work and i really just can't get into the whole money making mode i guess you could call it. I end up wasting my whole night doing practically nothing because i just don't want to be there but i know that i need to make money so i end up either getting depressed about it while I'm there or i try to get into the right attitude and failing epically and leaving at the end of the night depressed about the fact that i made little to no money. Does anyone have any advice on how to get out of the rut that many of us seem to fall into some nights? I know that it only takes that one guy but sometimes i just don't really feel like talking to anyone and really need a tip on how to get out of this zone when i fall into it...

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    Default Re: can't get into the mode some nights

    I had been in a rut for the past couple weeks but I "literally" had a talk with myself and now I'm back in hustle mode. You just gotta shake yourself back into it and it'll be fine

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    I read a chapter from the book 'Think and Grow Rich'. It helps put my mindset into "money making mode" and motivates me to meet my personal goal for the night. Seems to be working!
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    I find that having a dance or two helps get myself into work mode. It's sometimes just getting those, breaking that ice if you wanna call it that, that is rough. It helps me to know that once I've gotten past that, it's much smoother sailing.

    Wouldn't recommend it normally, but maybe try a quick "wanna dance?" until it works and gets you outta your funk.

    Of course, this only works in a club that has customers to hustle *le sigh*.

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    i work at a club where the "let's go do a couple dances" or "lets go have some fun" line works a lot but sometimes i just feel depressed for no reason and i can't seem to pull myself out of it. The rough thing about it is that i work at a club with an $80 house fee so if i get into a funk i actually can end up losing money at work (which actually ended up happening once -- i lost $20 on a tuesday). But you're all right i guess we do all have those days and it helps to know that i'm not the only one that does.

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    I get in bad moods on nights where it's pulling teeth to get dances. People usually start spending around 11, but by than I'm pissed off. Maybe bring a magazine to get you into a better mood?

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    If you are able to get online on your phone at work I highly recommend you and anyone who is in a bad mood to read the thread "stupid annoying shit I've heard on cam" in Camming connection here on SW...its hilarious!!! It's really really long and has been entertaining me for weeks now, I just sit and laugh out loud...its an instant mood uplifter for me.
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    Go get my free ebook- it's actually called "In The SuperStripper Zone" and it helps you get into it.

    Just scroll down to the part that says: Enter Your Best Working Email Address and We’ll Send You “In the SuperStripper Zone”, a 6 page special report, FREE! and put your email address in there.

    We ALL get into that funk.

    Let me know if it helps!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiley99 View Post
    The rough thing about it is that i work at a club with an $80 house fee so if i get into a funk i actually can end up losing money at work (which actually ended up happening once -- i lost $20 on a tuesday).
    This really sucks.

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    this happened to me wednesday night, then i got hammered and got really pissed off and completely lost my shit. yelling about freeloaders in the club int he dressing room then smashed my phone. oops. girls at the club prolly think i'm crazy now lol when for a year i was the most level headed girl there.

    sometimes it takes a wakeup call. i had never been talked to before that and my boss called me into her office and had a sit down talk with me that i need to be less stressed and to come back when i'm feeling better.

    now it makes me appreciate that we are only there for a certain amount of hours (even 12 for me sometimes), so we need to make the most of them. being pissed off isn't going to pay my bills. i'll harass customers, if they get pissed off, then fuck them, if they don't want to pay me for looking at my nakedd they can leave, i don't give a fuck. but i've learned to never make failures in the club about me. don't get it down. now i tell myself if i'm not making money, fucking losers in here aren't willing to spend on my lucious luxurious body. then i keep my head up and keep strutting my shit and if there's someone there with money, they will spend it on me. if not, its not my fault the club is full of cheap asses.

    ever since i've had that attitude that it's not me, it's them, the cheapasses don't get me down and the big spenders appreciate my confidence and that i'm always happy (cuz i'm never getting depressed over myself).

    of course the "i dont do anything wrong its not my fault" mentality is not a way of life, just in the club... if they don't like it, then they can leave, FUCK 'EM!!

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    is there a strip and grow rich or think and grow rich ive heard both and im confused

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    There's both.

    The first is a stripper wealth course, and the last is a book by Napoleon Hill.

    HTH

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    Default Re: can't get into the mode some nights

    That's what happened to me when I used to work at a club but now I do webcam. Anyways I get depressed alot because I start thinking about bills and stuff and when I used to be at the club it was slow as hell and I thought how am I going to pay my rent blah blah. So anyways I always got ready to leave aroung like 12 then all of a sudden when I go in the dressing room and come back out the darn club is packed so I would go back in the dressing room happy as hell and put on my costume. If you feel you get depressed alot find something that makes you happy, talk to a guy that you know is going to make you smile better than sitting being miserable anyhow. I also take over the counter anti depressent. St johns wart really works. Good luck

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    Lol yea it's so funny ,it did make me laught big time

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    Quote Originally Posted by britneyireland View Post
    Go get my free ebook- it's actually called "In The SuperStripper Zone" and it helps you get into it. !
    that takes me back to my old alter ego which I used when I first used when I joined this forum many moons ago in my original incarnation - SuperStripper! I used to wreak havoc all over t'internet with that moniker! Glad to see it's still doing the rounds!

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    I would recommend reading the 'law of attraction' thread on this forum, applying some of the advice in there has helped me be positive and confident always.

    I think the biggest help for me has been changing negative thoughts (camille has posted here about the book 'you can heal your life' by louise hay). The main thing i took from that is to stop any negative thoughts. You control them, so make them positive. You get one dance, think 'awesome, my night has begun.' 2 'these guys want to pay me x just to see me naked for a few minutes!' 3, 'great, i can afford xxx now!' If another girl goes to vip with a customer, be happy for her. Project love. If a girl/employee pisses you off, don't bitch or think about how they annoy you, just ignore.

    Not sure if this is helpful for getting into the mood but i've found it so general in all areas of life, hopefully it will stop you falling into the rut in the first place.

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