
Originally Posted by
Cam_Model_Jess
You should NOT be worried about sounding rude at this point. I know it's hard. You have build up a thick skin and learn how to be a bitch sometimes.
He is being completely disrespectful to you. You told him no and he's completely ignoring your wishes. He's trying to FORCE you into something which is extremely aggressive, possessive and dangerous.
Please, be grateful for the money you have made from him, and ban him without any further contact.
If he hadn't already threatened you, and if he hadn't already told you he won't spend more on you, I'd say try to work it out. But at this point, it's very clear exactly what he's done.
He came to you with the INTENTION of meeting up with you one day. He honestly believed that you would agree to it if he spent enough money on you. And now he feels that you're not holding up your end of the bargain by meeting him. I understand that you told him no from the start, but that doesn't matter at all. It's not what you TOLD him, it's what he BELIEVED that matters.
He will not pay you again, and he will cause more and more trouble for you. I would cut your ties and thank the universe that you made some money from him while it lasted.
And you're right, this is fairly common. Lots of guys come to camsites looking for a date/escort/relationship/wife/girlfriend/fuckbuddy. Some girls choose to entertain that fantasy for the guys, and they must accept the consequences of that choice (guys getting mad for all the lies, etc.), but you have chosen NOT to entertain his fantasy. It's a normal part of camming and you'll develop your own way of dealing with it. But take it from someone who has been doing this a while... he sounds dangerous.
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