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    A regular sent me this. I was new to mfc not to long ago but I realized I was charging too low. Everyone else got on board except him.

    "so i wanted to let you know that until i get my income stabilized i dont think i can afford you im still gonna hang out cause i love talking to you... but as far as skype and tips... probably not "

    "i hope you don't mind"

    I feel sorry for him but at the same time. Even though guys pay more for tks than we get its still nothing compared to what's paid to a stripper for that much attention and time AND they get to tell us what to do within limits on top of that. I know its called MFC but its a paid porn site if they don't intend on spending any money they need to bounce.lol

    I love mfc but I hang out there for hours on end for a reason.

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    Your time is valuable (and can never be recovered), dont let him waste it when he doesnt intent to give anything in exchange for it.

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    I'm not on mfc, but girls already mentioned that guys can buy dirt cheap token packages. I ain't gonna buy that he cannot afford a few dollars to spend. If he cannot, then he should lift his ass up and go to work if he wants to hang around in your room, and want your attention.

    DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR HIM!

    I also have a regular, he spends, but he talks about how he has no money, how others have more and they can take me to longer pvts yadayada. I just ignore him, when he starts it and I'm sweet to the others who are paying at that moment, and guess what somehow sooner or later that dude always gets his money together and pays. Maybe he comes in 10 times to my free chat, but after a while he gets fed up with me ignoring him, and pays. You think he'd be paying if I went on with the "oh bb so sorry, no problem talk to me for free?" Hell no! I do not ban him, because he spends more or less consistently. Once he will stop it for a longer period and continue the "I want you/love you/need you, but I have no money" he's gonna get banned, without a tear.

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    As soon as they say they aren't going to spend, I ban them.

    If he really loved talking to you, he'd tip whatever he could. Stating that he won't even send tips - given that it is down to him to how much he sends - to me it sounds like he doesn't think you're worth it, and any guy that does that can get bent.

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    Don't feel bad for him. We are a luxury. We aren't food or water. I feel bad for people who can't afford what they need to survive. If he is unobtrusive you could let him stay in the room, but don't give him the attention you would a paying customer. Personally I would tell him well see you when your income is stable again.

    I have had regs contact me and say their income is not stable and they won't be around until it is, but just wanted to let me know. They don't ask me for anything free. They go away and they have all come back when they were able to pay again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
    A regular sent me this. I was new to mfc not to long ago but I realized I was charging too low. Everyone else got on board except him.

    "so i wanted to let you know that until i get my income stabilized i dont think i can afford you im still gonna hang out cause i love talking to you... but as far as skype and tips... probably not "

    "i hope you don't mind"

    I feel sorry for him but at the same time. Even though guys pay more for tks than we get its still nothing compared to what's paid to a stripper for that much attention and time AND they get to tell us what to do within limits on top of that. I know its called MFC but its a paid porn site if they don't intend on spending any money they need to bounce.lol

    I love mfc but I hang out there for hours on end for a reason.
    You already know what you intend to and should do. Unless he entertains you when nobody else is talking to you and doesn't take attention away from your soliciting other clients, he's wasting your time.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
    "so i wanted to let you know that until i get my income stabilized i dont think i can afford you im still gonna hang out cause i love talking to you... but as far as skype and tips... probably not "

    "i hope you don't mind"


    Dear custy,

    I wanted to let you know that until you get a better income and can afford me, I'm gonna ban you. As much as you love talking to me, talking doesn't pay my bills, tokens do. So as far as just hanging out in my room without tipping.....definitely not


    Hope you understand

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    I'm there to earn money. Not to pet losers.
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    This is a business.. that's all.

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    Yet another hard luck story. You will learn soon enough.

    I can't afford to shop at Harrods, do think they are bothered? More to the point am i bothered - NO, because their are PLENTY of OTHER SHOPS to shop at.
    The moral of my story. Don't be sorry for the customer who claims that can't afford to paid for your time. His loss.
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    I HATE it when guys think that it is ok to hang out for long periods of time for free!!!

    I would respond, and tell him that if he can't afford you, he shouldn't be spending time there - simple as that. And if he has a problem, ban him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessJenny View Post
    Your time is valuable (and can never be recovered), dont let him waste it when he doesnt intent to give anything in exchange for it.
    THIS!! Also know that talking to them in free chat WILL NOT lead to them spending more money later on. I learned that lesson the hard way.
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    It really depends on the custy...but honestly yeah if he cant afford a few dollars (i mean the lowest one is 2.99? lol -.-") just give him MINIMAL attn. I would let him stick around as long as he's not too obtrusive and what not, because it'll click in their head 'oh $$=attention' whether its conciensly or subconciensly and some will eventually spend.

    What really irks me is when guys continually say shit like 'i want to tip u soooo baddd' 'sorry im so broke' 'i would tip u if i could bb!' -.-" stfu and either tip or contribute something (convo? i like good convo lol...it can help liven a room up) but dont talk about how u arent tipping me. but one of my regs who lost his job, still manages to tip me at least 25 tokens a week. baller status? obviously not, but he still spares a few and i appreciate the gesture and the lack of whining about being broke.

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    I still struggle with this one.. because I continously think they see me as a human being.. .. one thing I have learned... those who engage in tons of convo in free chat do not spend money in pvt..

    Quote Originally Posted by the shy girl View Post
    THIS!! Also know that talking to them in free chat WILL NOT lead to them spending more money later on. I learned that lesson the hard way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    I still struggle with this one.. because I continously think they see me as a human being.. .. one thing I have learned... those who engage in tons of convo in free chat do not spend money in pvt..
    I have only found a single one who does spend after talking talking. After a while he ends up wanting to show me something on cam (not sex stuff) and comes to private lol. Also he is entertaining when noone else is around...

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    Quote Originally Posted by the shy girl View Post
    THIS!! Also know that talking to them in free chat WILL NOT lead to them spending more money later on. I learned that lesson the hard way.
    So true.

    I was honestly scared to even post this but I really appreciate the reply's. (Especially Princess Jenny, Glasses, Glittery Goddess, and Rina.) I thought I'd might get slaughtered with "its common sense you know what to do". I'll definitely NOT cater to the free loaders as much/tolerate BS. If I was tougher which I'm working at I'd make alot more money. He messaged me on Skype and we talked.

    Me: "But upon thought .This really disturbed me the more I thought about it. Stating that you wouldn’t even give tips. MFC is cheap the lowest token package of 200tks is the price of a order in pizza or DVD. And the second highest is the price of my cell phone. And I’m not rich by far."

    Him: I did not mean that I had no intention of tipping at all, I just wanted you to be aware that I cant most of the time
    of course if i have money to buy tokens, the i will tip
    i realize the site is cheap, and I promise you that I am not trying to take advantage of you. I am sorry if i made you uncomfortable in any way, it was not my intention
    do what you feel is necessary
    I honestly feel very bad about this... reading all that makes me feel like i was taking advantage of you
    I guess as intelligent as i think i am, i thought there was a little more of a connection than just money here
    if you choose to trust that I am being honest, let me just say one more thing. I have no recordings or screenshots of anything we have shared on MFC or skype

    Me:thanks for saying so but I do feel taken advantage of. I think your motive was to masturbate to my image for free.
    or close to it.What does honesty or choosing to trust you have to do with anything? I have no conspiracy against you. It's simple. You’re cheap and a user. Actions speak louder than words. $$talks bs walks.I'm done.

    Him:honesty has everything to do with it, wether you choose to accept it or not. I have not decieved you. You have not told me you were unhappy. There was severe miscommunication.
    You have obviously made your judgement. I am sorry you feel that way. I am not cheap. I am broke. There is a huge difference (LOL at this part)
    I tipped what you asked because i could actually afford it sometimes.
    Im sorry, I am just wasting your time now. If you ever change your mind feel free to message me, I would love to hear from you.



    He didn't even deserve that much of my time but whatever it was more for me anyway. When he said I'm broke not cheap I felt like saying I'll upgrade you to being a broke user then.lol

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    Dear custy,

    I wanted to let you know that until you get a better income and can afford me, I'm gonna ban you. As much as you love talking to me, talking doesn't pay my bills, tokens do. So as far as just hanging out in my room without tipping.....definitely not


    Hope you understand
    That cracked me up. I was so tempted to send him that.
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    Wow wtf is all of that he's writing. Like a fucking thesis on having no money? Dude get the fuck out! Shut up until you can pay. Ugg I hate when they ramble on about shit that's not even important. This is business. Does he contact Trojan when the price goes up bitching about how he can't afford that brand of dick sleeve any longer? Lame!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Wow wtf is all of that he's writing. Like a fucking thesis on having no money? Dude get the fuck out! Shut up until you can pay.

    HAHA so right. Yet he has money to buy drinks all the time and enter pool tournaments.

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    I know these guys. I ban them for period then after awhile I will try again. I will give second chances but the more they annoy and don't tip ...the longer they are banned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post

    I guess as intelligent as i think i am, i thought there was a little more of a connection than just money here

    If you ever change your mind feel free to message me, I would love to hear from you.
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    He is either delusional or trying to manipulate you, a connection past money? LOL thats funny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Truebebeblue View Post
    He is either delusional or trying to manipulate you, a connection past money? LOL thats funny.
    I bet he is just a version of the "I'm different from the other guys, so lemme do the same shit for free okay? Ima tell you that we have connection and stuff, so you can show me your pussy for free okay? No worries I'm not like them. "

    Yea he is not like them, actually worse cause he doesn't want to pay. Who cares of his lifestory? Come back if you have money and pay for explaining why you didn't come before, if you really want me to know it....

    Either way lol it's better to get rid of him. I hope he payed well for your skype at least.

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    You girls are so right its hilarious we hear the same stories everyday with their own little personal touches. I'm different ..I'm not like other guys...damn if I had a dollar every time I heard this line. Guys are dilusional.

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    Quote Originally Posted by the shy girl View Post
    These lines should be in the stupid annoying shit customers say thread! I hear something similar almost every time I cam.
    lol seriously, that's how every delusional regular who takes things too far and I "break up" every time. Don't think of it as being a bitch, being a bitch would be leading him on for more money when it's not going to go any where. You're doing him a favor by keeping it real and professional. Dealing with these guys always ends up messy, I'd ignore him til he starts spending money like he should for your time/services. Other than that, he's no longer a paying customer so he should receive no attention.

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    I don't give much wiggle room to guys who come in my room over and over and don't tip. I flat out don't want those people in my room. I think if a premium sees a bunch of other premiums in the room, they use it as an excuse to not tip because they think the other guy will do the tipping for them. I don't say it in a bitchy way, but if I recognize a screen name coming into my room over and over and over, I ask them why they don't tip. And then I ban. If they come back later and STILL don't tip, I perma-ban. And I'm very vocal about the cheapie token packages. I educatate them on exactly how many tokens they can get for less than the cost of a BigMac, and I tell them exactly how/where to find that purchase option. There's really no excuse to not tip now and then, even if a guy is broke (but apparently not so broke that he can't afford the internet). You're providing a service for every member who comes to your room and decides to hang out. Be ruthless about getting paid!

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