Update: He had the nerve to send me this message AGAIN. After we talked incase I didn't get it the first time since I logged out quickly of skype. What a loser. I'm even more disgusted with him. Blocked and banned.lol
Update: He had the nerve to send me this message AGAIN. After we talked incase I didn't get it the first time since I logged out quickly of skype. What a loser. I'm even more disgusted with him. Blocked and banned.lol
Last edited by Deaddolly; 06-13-2012 at 09:10 PM.




You know what would be awesome? If ppl at the club told me straight up that they have no intentions of spending money. It's a gift in itself because then I wouldn't waste my time on him.





I pay my therapist, doesn't mean I don't like her or she doesn't like me. I think we genuinely enjoy each others company. I do think that she wouldn't continue to see me if I stopped paying her and I wouldn't ask her to see me for free. Sometimes I bring her gifts (Christmas or her birthday). I know I don't have to and I know that if I brought her gifts all the time it would make her uncomfortable. I would never expect her to give me a physical gift in return but sometimes, because she likes me/knows I'm a valuable client, she gives me a little extra time or doesn't charge me the missed appointment fee. I would never invite her to come hang out with me, even though she's super cool and I think it would be fun. That's just not appropriate. Our relationship has boundaries and I'm not deluded as to where those boundaries are.
Due to the nature of camming, these guys sometimes don't see that the relationship we have is much like the relationship a client and therapist have. ...Um...a masturbating, lingerie-wearing therapist but okay! There are guys I see who I remember and like. When one wins a give away I'm happy to see him on Skype or make a video for him. When I haven't seen one in a while I brighten when he comes into the room. When a long time reg who has spent on me in the past and whose company I enjoy can't spend I understand and let him hang for a while in free chat because he keeps me sane in a sea of free chat losers. The second I feel he's monopolizing my time or taking advantage of me I cut him loose. I'll miss him, but he's taking advantage of our relationship and that's not cool.
It's not *all* about the money. It's *mostly* about the money. This is a job. A job that, despite the draw backs, I usually love.
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