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    Question What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    For my first four years of stripping, I would always turn down drinks when offered them. I believe I lost a lot of money and camaraderie by doing so, which made my job more difficult.

    I'm still a non-drinker when I do strip (which is very rarely these days), but I've found that it makes my job much easier to either order something when the guy offers or to let him order me something. I then pretend to drink it by taking very small sips.

    So this is where you guys come in.

    I have no idea what to order. I don't want to give off the wrong message (I once ordered a very pragmatic glass of white wine, since I reasoned that it wouldn't stain my teeth while sipping--bad decision! The waitress looked at me like I had three tits, and the guy was like "You having a fish dinner tonight or something?"). I'd like to hit the right chord if possible. So what drinks do you guys like to see a girl order? Or do you not care? I'm alcohol-tarded, since all I ever drink at home is the occasional glass or two of red wine, so I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    One of my favs orders Grey Goose and Cranberry juice when a customer offers. The bartender at her club knows to go light on the Grey Goose. She can sip these all day and not get buzzed and it looks sexy...
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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    Charlie, there are plenty of guys on here who will say "order what you want" or "I don't care if you drink alcohol or not", but IMHO these guys are not representative of the average SC customer. Many club customers want to feel like it is a social affair and that they are having drinks with the dancers sitting next to them. I will readily admit that I fall into this category to a degree.

    IMHO a girl's best bet is to go the fake alcoholic drink route, such as ye ol' "vodka" and club. This makes the guy feel like you're sharing a drink with him while allowing you skip the alcohol. This is a time honored tradition which doesn't bother me too much so long as the fiction is maintained.

    Anyway, just my

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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    Agree Rick, if you are to look at reality the guy in the SC is trying the same tricks as in the normal setting, restriction from barriers or easy play. Charlie if I were you I wouldn't care what they thought of your drink, order what would give the bartender a bigger tip, shot of Patron=water

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    Tom Collins....and please film the waitress' reaction

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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    Some clubs won't serve fake alcoholic drinks to the dancers. In Illinois a club could lose its liquor license if caught selling alcoholic drinks that don't really contain alcohol.

    Personally it doesn't really bother me what a dancer drinks. At a couple clubs I go to the dancers mostly drink the same as the patrons - beer. At other clubs its mostly mixed drinks. Maybe try some different drinks and see which ones you prefer? Take a look at what other dancers around you are drinking or even ask a few what they like. People have different tastes and tolerances for different types of drinks so its sorta a trial and error thing to find "your" drink.

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    good question..im a huge scotch and whiskey drinker and i sometimes feel that it turns some customers off..well now i know to order a vodka/cranberry.

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    The drinks I enjoyed purchasing the most for dancers were the relatively very few I bought for a dancer-turned-friend in the club who didn't drink alcohol at all. She declined drinks so regularly I pretty much stopped offering to buy her drinks when our paths crossed. She would occasionally ask me to buy her something resembling a coffee milk shake (alcohol-free) when she really wanted it and i never hesitated to treat her to one of those when she asked. At least I knew she really really wanted it when she asked.
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    ...shots...

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Charlie, there are plenty of guys on here who will say "order what you want" or "I don't care if you drink alcohol or not", but IMHO these guys are not representative of the average SC customer. Many club customers want to feel like it is a social affair and that they are having drinks with the dancers sitting next to them. I will readily admit that I fall into this category to a degree.

    IMHO a girl's best bet is to go the fake alcoholic drink route, such as ye ol' "vodka" and club. This makes the guy feel like you're sharing a drink with him while allowing you skip the alcohol. This is a time honored tradition which doesn't bother me too much so long as the fiction is maintained.

    Anyway, just my
    I once worked at a club where selling drinks was part of our job. Since I don't like to drink on the job (I believe in being sober at work)I struggled with this until one bartender would make me this cranberry drink that looks alcoholic but is not. So when a customer would buy me a drink this is what he bought me.

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    I always order vodka and soda with extra limes.. Not only is it classy but it's low on calories too! I lost 14lbs when I started drinking them

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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    To be clear, I have no intention of actually drinking these drinks, really. I hate the taste of alcohol--I'm only now getting to the point where I like wine. And alcohol feels like poison to me, so I avoid liquor.

    I'm very good at distracting customers at the right times and working towards getting a dance quickly so that my drinks mysteriously disappear. I just want to know what drink looks classy to customers without making me look like an alcoholic. I think my persona probably isn't so much a shot girl...probably more of a mixed drink girl.

    So I'm hearing cranberry/vodka or club soda/vodka is a good way to go?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    good question..im a huge scotch and whiskey drinker and i sometimes feel that it turns some customers off..well now i know to order a vodka/cranberry.
    I usually order scotch either on the rocks or with soda water...most guys seem to like that!!!I see girls drinking beer some times.I could never drink beer at work it makes me really bloated

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I always order vodka and soda with extra limes.. Not only is it classy but it's low on calories too! I lost 14lbs when I started drinking them
    I like this drink too...low calories plus the limes make it "healthy"...lol

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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    When I was dancing, I would always order a non alcoholic. Only very few customer seem to mind that I would order water, juice, or coffee instead of alcohol.





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    The rare times that I go to alcohol-serving clubs I usually order for myself a diet soda, coffee or water, and when I offer to "buy the lady a drink" I'd reckon that about half of the dancers in turn politely decline any drink for themselves when they see that I'm not drinking alcohol. But the other half tend to order the much beloved vodka/cranberry, vodka/Red Bull, or shots of either Patron or Don Julio. Every great once in a while they'll order a light beer on the rare occasions that I order one for myself. Either way it doesn't matter at all to me what they order, just as long as they don't take a small sip and then abandon it there when they leave. That drives me nuts. But that happens way more often at juice bars, which is the type of club I prefer to visit.

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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    I changed to mixed vodka drinks after I got a strange look for ordering whiskey on the rocks... I agree that ordering something more "delicate" seemed like it was perceived as a better choice.

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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    i've never seen a dancer in a club drinking wine but i think i'd view it as classy. Not that it matters what she's drinking, but i think i'd have more appreciation for a girl drinking a glass of white wine over a girl ordering a shot of patron...in the end though, they can have whatever they want.

    I'd be blown away though if a girl ordered a single malt served up neat though!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    The rare times that I go to alcohol-serving clubs I usually order for myself a diet soda, coffee or water, and when I offer to "buy the lady a drink" I'd reckon that about half of the dancers in turn politely decline any drink for themselves when they see that I'm not drinking alcohol. But the other half tend to order the much beloved vodka/cranberry, vodka/Red Bull, or shots of either Patron or Don Julio. Every great once in a while they'll order a light beer on the rare occasions that I order one for myself. Either way it doesn't matter at all to me what they order, just as long as they don't take a small sip and then abandon it there when they leave. That drives me nuts. But that happens way more often at juice bars, which is the type of club I prefer to visit.
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    Default Re: What drinks do you like to see dancers order?

    Wine is problematic since red wine stains my teeth. And white wine just seems...I don't know. Bizarre.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    ....... it doesn't matter at all to me what they order, just as long as they don't take a small sip and then abandon it there when they leave. That drives me nuts......
    THIS exactly. Followed closely by recent experience where I offered to buy a lady a drink and she ordered a DOUBLE goose and cranberry AND a Patron chaser. My fault for not stopping it but was sorta shocked by it and the waitress was gone and I wasn't about to chase her down.

    Order what you like...the heck with what the people think. If you don't end up drinking it...take it with you to the dressing room so it is not realized by the person buying.

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    Order what you like, I'm not going to judge you. Maybe I go to different clubs then some on here but quite a few girls I know routinely get wine. They mostly order red so I guess they're not concerned about the teeth staining thing. I don't scrutinze teeth, I'm checking out other features typically.

    In fact if a fave is a wine drinker I'll sometimes join them. I'm more of a white wine guy though. Other girls will sometimes make a remark but who cares and I think it's usually just to make conversation.

    A former fave liked Blue Moon. I don't typically do beer in a strip club but with her I would.

    My mainstays are Seven and Seven and Jack and Coke. Some girls will say "I'll have one of those". I do think it's neat when they do although some quickly realize it's not their cup of tea so to speak.

    Had a new girl to me ask me what she should order other night. How the heck should I know? lol She went with her standard Grey Goose, which was kind of pricey.

    If I'm interested in you I feel obligated to offer a drink. But I'm not insulted at all if I'm turned down, if the girl says she doesn't drink or doesn't drink at work. I'd rather she be honest and not waste my money (so I have more for fun time).

    It also drives me up a wall when they order a Grey Goose and Redbull without even asking at like $18. I'm sorry, I don't do that pricey stuff and if you do - especially without even asking if it was OK - we're not compatible. Get someone else to buy it.

    Got to give one girl credit. She asked me if I'd buy her a drink and she'd comp me a lap dance. Then proceeded to get the $18 combo. The compensation was a good lap dance and led to several others. Win/win.

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