Sorry if this is an age old topic or there's already a thread-I couldn't see one.
What I mean by the title is, situations with other girls. Scenarios such as;
I went over to two guys tonight-another girl already sitting with one of them, I asked the other for a dance-guy with the girl said 'Go on get a dance *Mick!'
The other girl had been sitting with guy 1 for a while, she was new to the club so I said to her 'Sorry what's your name , hun? Okay guy1, have you had a dance off *Jewel , yet? You best be getting one!Anyway then guy 2 that I had gone over to took my hand, and handed guy 1 a £20 note to get a dance, off ME.
Because this girl had obviously been trying to get a dance off him, herself, I said to her 'Do you want to split £10/£10? And she said yes so we both danced for guy1 that guy2 had paid for and I took a £10 instead of the £20.
As we walked to the private dance room this girl said 'Thank you' to me and I said, well I didn't think it would be fair for me to just take the money that *you* had kind of earned, for myself?
Reason I did this is because I had just walked over and got offered a dance, from 'her' customer (albeit the other guy paying) and I didn't see that as far as I had done no work to get him, and she had.
I can't help but think most girls would probably have just taken the £20 and danced by themselves.
Another scenario, I went over to a group of six guys, one girl already sitting there, I joined in the conversation and then girl said to them, 'Okay so you all want a dance from me? (they'd obviously already been discussing it.) They all got up to go for a dance with her by herself and she said to me 'You coming too?' and I said 'No, won't steal your dance hun'. Because she had obviously already talked them all into having dances from her, I hadn't done any 'work' and had just walked over assuming that she would be getting a dance off one of the customers, not all six. But she had hustled and got them all to take her alone, and I had gatecrashed.
Another scenario-completely different. I am friends with a girl, as in we always have a proper chat, she's invited me to her place , I speak to her on fb-I've not seen her out of work, yet-but she's more than just a colleague. She was absolutely skint last week and the club was dead, so I took £30 from the cash machine and bought us both a few beers. To me, that's a 'normal' helping a friend out and cheering us both up on a dead night where we wouldn't make money anyway so from my POV we may as well make the most and have a nice night together, if we weren't going to make money my spending a few £ is worth it and better than being miserable all night!
Reason I ask about that one is, I mentioned it to another girl during the ride home and she was like 'You bought Jules a beer? ! I'd never do that-I'd never buy anybody a drink,I'm there to make money!
For the record, that girl had had a regular in and had made about £130. Nothing on a 'normal' night, but Jules and I made nothing at all, we didn't get lucky and the club was DEAD I mean proper dead.
Don't get me wrong this isn't just for my benefit that I do things like this, I don't believe in altruism. But had I done the alternatives, I may have been unfavoured by said girls and then they're less likely to look out for me, if situations arise that have me in the opposite position. I am personally willing to lose a few £ to figure out people's characters, in that sense. If say, with scenario one, that girl wanted a double dance, she would be more likely to come and find me than anybody else? Also if the same scenario happened but the other way around, she'll be more likely to do the same favour for me?
Anybody get what I mean?



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