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    Default My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    So I have this guy who spends 1k, usually Fri or Sat nights in one sitting. I adore him because it's no work. Usually we just talk about current events but I always bring it back to sexy.

    Tonight he was different, I failed to notice it, my bad. He wanted me to get completely nude so I played the usual tease game.. "ooh left boobie pops out for a 20 gold tip", and "right boobie follows at 60 gold tip". This is not unusual for us but tonight he got pissed and instead of leaving 5 stars as he normally does he left 1. I so see the humor in it because to me it's just a nerdy guy getting pissed off at his cyber GF for not putting out but I wonder what the best way to handle his return will be?

    As previously stated my guys are ALWAYS in debt with me so I'm thinking he must kiss my ass to get back in my good graces but with the power of reinvention I'm looking for new ideas.

    I think I have gotten so good at the spend game that he is pissed off that I blew through his 1k so quickly. *shrugs* I did my job.

    Make up sex... that's what I am looking for. Ideas?
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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    Make him some pics or a good-natured apology video? Lol, I don't know girl that's a strange issue right there.

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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    What is strange about it? LOL. The fact that he spends 1k on me or that I refer to myself as his GF? This is what I do for a living. What do you do?

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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    Ok, devil's advocate here...are you sure he's going to come back?

    It seems to me like he felt he'd bought you or that you had something special together. By not picking up on what he wanted you were demonstrating that you were in fact the one in control whereas he thought he was, and he didn't like that or that you don't have that special thing he thought you had together afterall.

    If he comes back I'd apologise for not picking up on how he wanted something different that night...I appreciate that's just me, I don't do the Dominatrix thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cvarga View Post
    What is strange about it? LOL. The fact that he spends 1k on me or that I refer to myself as his GF? This is what I do for a living. What do you do?
    No, I am a cam girl too lol. I meant his sudden change in behavior is strange, that's all. I think you misunderstood me, sorry girl. I think it's fucking awesome you have a client like that, go you! I was just saying I wouldn't be sure what to do, that I'd probably try to send him some pics or a cute video or something.

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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    just write him and ask what the 1 star was about. Tell him it upset you to see him give u that 1 star rating, because he's "your favorite"

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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    "sudden behavior" is very normal with EVERY regular customer. we all know that they will eventually get crazy. find a new one.


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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    Both very good suggestions. I hate it when the big spenders turn over.

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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    One of two things has happened here.

    1) your dude has reached his expiration date. This happens. He will never be back, and there is nothing you can do to influence the outcome. He's done.
    Or..
    2) he was "in a mood", and you pissed him off or annoyed him, but if you respond appropriately, he will "forgive you."

    Here is what i would do, to ensure the latter:

    -write him a 'mea culpa' email, expressing how sorry you are for having misread him, blah blah... Make it really heart-wrenching and tear-jerking.
    -He will feel bad that he made you feel so awful about "not delivering a satisfactory performance"...
    -he WILL come see you again, IN PAID VIDEOCHAT. When he does, again launch into how sorry you are about last time. Launch into explicit details of how badly you felt when you realized you hadn't understood his mood right. Discuss your feelings at length.
    -if done properly, the above videochat encounter should take at least sixty minutes.
    -once you've cleared the air (and made 60 x whatever-your-per-minute-rate-is), you've got your old regular back.

    Just my two cents. ;-)
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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    I like Cinnimon Kiss's answer. The "GF guys" are tricky, for sure!

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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    Personally...maybe it's just me, but I would never just tease a guy who spends 1k a week. I tease cheap asses not guys who are throwing that much cash at me.

    You need to send him vids, pics, whatever you know he would like obviously without charging him to get him back to where he was. Or just have a nice talk with him or a private skype show. That's what I would do.




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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    "sudden behavior" is very normal with EVERY regular customer. we all know that they will eventually get crazy. find a new one.
    Yeah pretty much this. They all expire eventually. Sounds like this one has turned sour.

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    Default Re: My k per night dude. A lovers quarrel.. Need input.

    Thanks ladies. I have his e-mail address and will contact him. I agree. I think the best approach is to e-mail him in a genuine manner. Ask him what happened, let him know it wasn't intentional whatever it was that upset him, offer an apology and try to make nice. I honestly enjoyed his sessions. He is a very nice person and we had some fun conversations.

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