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    Default What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Lose them forever? Lately, most of guys want to use only Paypal and I have not found a solution for this problem, and is not good for business to lose them forever and anyway Paypal do not accept adult related. Also i have my own site and not all guys want to pay using ZOMBAIO. They prefer PayPal

    Also Alertpay is having BIG FEES!

    Please help me with some ideas...



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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Yes, I have lost a part of my customers that paid via paypal, some of them pay me by zombaio now

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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    YES, some of themes accept , somes of them not and they go away quickie and isnot good for us. Maybe they will soon because i heard that Paypal blocked many accounts these days



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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Is setting up a Payoneer account a possibility for you? Your members/fans may be uncomfortable paying through a billing service that is specifically adult entertainment related; they might be worried about what shows up on their billing statements, whereas Payoneer is pretty unassuming.

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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    I 've tryed many times with Payoneer too and i tell them what methods i use and they want Paypal



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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Well, you want to go the gentle route you could try saying you've had a lot of problems with PayPal in the past, and due to the bitter experiences with their lack of customer service and retrieving funds you simply refuse to deal with PayPal ever again. Or you can go the more direct route and say "My site, my rules. I do not use PayPal. This is not up for negotiation. You can use ZOMBAIO or Payoneer, or you can move right along."

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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    AlertPay's fees arent (well, werent) that big at all? I dont use them anymore but they were very competitive when I did

    Quote Originally Posted by justme23 View Post
    I 've tryed many times with Payoneer too and i tell them what methods i use and they want Paypal
    Because they're jerking you off.

    Assert your boundaries, if they want to do something you dont want to do - you dont do it. That starts a very unfun slippery slope to the beginning of a customer/service provider relationship. Simple?

    If you lose them, you lose them. Theyll move onto someone else to jerk off. Ive had a few "PayPal!!!" guys cave in, the more persistant and assholish ones move on (which is fine with me), but some cave. The ones who seem serious about buying but dont understand Ill explain why it isnt an ideal option for them to use, which makes it a more compelling argument. If you have guys arguing and arguing with you that means (silver lining) theyre engaged enough to buy ..... but want to see how far they can push you in the process. Which can include just the timesuck of long back and forth arguing. That kind of customer is a big pain in the ass.

    One of the biggest strength you can have in camming is to not view each prospect of a sale is "do or die". Everyone's bottomline is different so Im certain that is a privileged statement but it can be a very helpful thought to keep you sane.

    If you dont like gambling, dont use PayPal. If they wont accept your payment options - even if you give them the courtesy of explaining why --- I mean, what... what else is there to say?

    If youre stringing guys along or debating them about PayPal they will sense your (possible) desperation and keep pushing. Your boundaries > a sale. If you perceive that your bottomline is tanking because you wont take PayPal, reevaluate what you're doing, where you're working, who you're engaging with and giving too much time to (or conversely, not enough time to). Many girls earn well without taking PayPal. This whole forum is full of them. There is a whole list of options here: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ment&p=2361431

    If your own boundaries of "No paypal" start to erode and you think that the risks are worth it (and the risks are spelled out here many many many times) - I mean, what else do you need us to tell you?

    People respond positively to boundaries. Impose yours.

    Or - start gambling?
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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Most of the guys who want to argue with me about using PayPal use the "Why don't you trust me?" line. My experience so far is that the ones who are actually willing to spend money on you are generally going to be understanding. There is far too much risk involved with PayPal for me to ever want to use it. I have an account that people can donate to, but I specifically state that any PayPal transactions are a gift, and not a payment for any services whatsoever. If they want to pay me for a service, then they can use the payment options that I have available, or they can move along.



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    If a guy can't follow the rules for payment he will a pain in the ass about everything. You don't need these kind of customers.
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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    If they insist on paypal? Sucks to be them, I've always got another booking waiting, whether I really do or not ;3

    I like to tell them when they get insistent that paypal will ban BOTH our accounts

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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Absolutely true and Paypal sucks for other reasons too .... and we must something with this guys who insist with Paypal.....



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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    If he can whip his credit card out for Paypal, he can use it on another site. He's just being a whiny dick.







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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Maybe Okpay is good solution? as i see they accept adult related and is like Paypal system and they don t have high fees as alertpay have.
    Does someone know something about OKPAY?



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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    What do you do with a customer that pays through PayPal only....... You don't! It's my way or the highway, if the guy really wants time with you he will pay through whatever processor you tell him to. If not oh well his loss, move on to the next one.

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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Say fuck 'em and move on

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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    If you wanna go a more 'woe is me' type way.. i always say "awee... i can't use paypal anymore.. someone reported my account and it got banned and i didnt even get any of the money i was given. " and i've only ever had one single guy insist after that. I said 'it sucks how one guy ruins it for everyone ' (i tend to use LOTS of sad smileys lolol) he suggested me to make a new account but I said I couldnt trust a site that stole hundreds of dollars from me. then mention how I have payoneer set up and its always worked amazing.

    idk it doesnt work for everyone and i understand the my-way-or-the-highway attitude, but i act as a really sweet girl-next-door and it seems a bit harsh for my persona to be that way.

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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    I totally know what you mean about the girl next door type attitude and not wanting to come off as anything else...my cam personality is very much the girl next door type but I just politely say that I can't do that because it isn't allowed and if they keep bugging me, I'll block them. I have no problems at all with blocking some dickhead because I KNOW that if he is going to bug me about doing one thing that I'm not comfortable with, then hes going to push for everything ELSE that I am not comfy with either.

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    Just tonight some idiot on ImLive asked if he could send me $1,200 via PayPal for me to get on cam and step on small animals...preferably "mouses" (as he called them). Isn't that sick?!
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    Default Re: What do you do with member who pays trough only Paypal?

    Quote Originally Posted by justme23 View Post
    Also Alertpay is having BIG FEES!
    Alertpay probably have the best e-wallet fee's around. 0.50 cents to transfer to bank, free transfers between wallets etc

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