Well its always good to add another arrow too you bow. Ive had my fair share of fantasy money slaves. Like the GlamourRouge hit the nail on the head with this one.



Well its always good to add another arrow too you bow. Ive had my fair share of fantasy money slaves. Like the GlamourRouge hit the nail on the head with this one.
Don't Like Me? Have A Seat With The Rest Of The Bitches And Bastards Waiting For Me To Give A Flying Fuck.
congrats kim!!! i have had a few wannabes but not a serious one yet. i dont advertise for it either but it would be nice to have at least one piggy![]()
There's a lot of money in it, it's just very competitive. But if a guy likes YOU and YOUR look & style, run with it. And money slaves don't last forever. I give them a life span of a few weeks to a few months if you're lucky. Sometimes less.
I don't agree that they necessarily have to send a big tip right away before speaking to me. I will allow them 1 message and my response, or maybe 3 mins of chatting just to make sure we're on the same page. THEN if they are truly interested in the fetish, they will pay, generally without being asked. I like to find a balance between draining cash from EVERYONE who talks to me, and not wasting my own time.
The tips MistressX posted about blackmail are spot on. I'm still getting the hang of blackmail, it doesn't come as naturally to me as a lot of other fetishes, but a ton of guys ask for it. The thing I hate though is most of these guys expect you to "seduce it out of them" which is fine but there's all this work up until they are actually ready to get down to business. And a lot of them don't want to pay for that part of it. MissX how do you go about getting them to pay up front? Maybe once they approach asking for blackmail, tell them it will cost, say $50 to begin the process of luring the info out of them?
Oh and about what GlamourRouge said about advertising as a fin-domme. I have seen soooo many girls profiles with "YOU WILL PAY ME BECUZ I AM THE TOP BITCH QUEEN GODDESS BOW DOWN TO MEEEEEEEE!!!!! $$$$$" lol Idk I'm sure you know the ones. It seems immature and not genuine to me.
I'm definitely not saying guys don't go for the immature, bratty teen type. That persona is HUGE. Guys LOVE that. BUT there is a difference between working it right, and looking like you are just trying to be someone you're not because you *think* it's easy money. It can be easy money for a minute, but you really have to know what you're doing to keep the cash rolling in.
It's a fine line, and one that you can't necessarily put your finger on, but I think most can see through it. What it comes down to is - be yourself! Advertise yourself representing your strengths - the things you know you're good at. By all means don't hide the fact that you're a financial domme if you ROCK that fetish. A lot of guys just have their boner in their hand and don't have time to read between the lines lol.
But it's true, guys respond a lot better when you come up with your own material and style.





To help you if you need time to get your game down with the financial domination guys, I can offer you this tip~ once he is in exclusive, tell him he MUST prove himself to you by sending you gold,(the amount will usually be around 10 gold,or so.) That way you can keep him into private a bit longer, and get more money at the same time. Also, ask his experience with other sessions,and then tell him that you are NOT like the others,You WILL drain his wallet.They love it! Hope that helps. i love these customers!





Going back to some of the earlier posts...
If a guy isn't telling you ANYTHING about himself, but is still asking to be blackmailed, then just go for generic terms for who you are going to tell. "I'll e-mail your boss and you'll get fired! If you want to keep earning money, you better be sending me 10% of those paychecks!" "I'll tell your family - you won't be allowed to family reunions when they all know your filthy secrets!"
I like to get guys to take pictures, especially embarrassing ones - get them to take a picture of themselves wearing women's undies, or film a video of them dancing naked to Britney Spears...then tell them that you will use that to blackmail them! Don't actually put stuff on youtube, but threaten to..
The big thing with blackmail is that you aren't actually doing these things, you are just THREATENING to unless he pays...so dream big! Find out his town and tell him that you will put a full-page ad in his local paper telling the WHOLE TOWN that he is a dirty little moneypig, tell him you'll get a skywriter to write "pervert" above his house, tell him you are friends with a tv presenter who is willing to show pictures of him in a collar and undies, or that you will send dancing videos to Tosh.O.
And yes, this IS just a fantasy. I wouldn't actually ever follow through on threats - for one thing, that's illegal in most places!!! Most slaves won't last that long - a few weeks, maybe months, and then they wander off...just enjoy em while they last, and then pass them along.
I take cash, debit or credit. I just don't take shit.
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I have gotten requests from guys before I want your stinky shoes, you socks, humiliate me, make me do this, tell me to do this, 90% of the time after I send them the video, item, etc I never hear from them again, theres one that occasionally asks for a video and when he does he pays very well, but he never emails me any of the information I ask him for but keeps coming back randomly. I got one today that I was quite surprised about, I open my fan mail stuff and theres a letter with a $50 giftcard in it to my favorite store, and all it said was that he liked my videos. Then tonight I receive an email telling me he wants to be my slave, and that he has been buying my videos, (I checked and yep its the same guy that bought 5-7 of my videos three days in a row on clips4sale, just tell him what to do. I'm excited my first real slave I think. Real as in he sent a gift upfront expecting nothing in return only to ask to be my slave. Now if I can just not fuck it up...
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Real findoms FIND you and surprise you without even having to ask. They might mention it beforehand, but usually it would be followed with immediate tips/gold/tokens




Yes I think this one is really one this time, the surprise gift card yesterday and after replying to his email request of wanting to be my slave, he did not give me all the information I demanded of him but gave me part of it and sent 2 more gifts to show he was sincere.Yay! so happy I started uploading all those humiliation of other guys videos and he found me...
Lol I've only been camming since January so guys take me by surprise still alot.
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This was awesome! I am soooo new to findom, had no idea it even existed, good to know, just in case i get one! Just starting out. Sounds like a cash cow, must be rare to get one. One question though... I wonder about the legalities with dominatrix stuff. Do you have to have them sign something, or type you something (and print screen it), and clarify how far is too far?? I would be worried that someone would turn around angry and then try to get you back, maybe legally? And just to clarify, so with a findom, if they tell you to spend, you actually do it? and you can do it and they have no legal recall later?? Just want to be clear. Thanks for the info so far though, you gals are gr8!
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