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    Dizzy Rejected or accepted??

    So I'm totally new to this, but dang you gals make some big money, so decided to give this a whirl as my 9-5 office job barely covers the mortgage after my ex moved out last year. Gold and Silver is the only club in the area (SW VA). I actually went up there last year and they said I could start that same night, but I wasn't ready grooming wise if you know what I mean, so I said I'd come back the next night. But my boyfriend at the time threw a huge fit, so I did not go back. I was nervous as hell anyways, so a bit relieved it was not going to be an option for me.

    But I digress...so I drove up there (45 min drive) lookin' good, mini black dress with black boots. Also I'm 5-7, 120, 34A, trim but really toned, short brown hair, white girl. I'm attractive, but definitely a different look, more athletic look and more striking features than "pretty". I must say this place is considered a dive, like you need a scuba suit you're diving so low. So I see the bouncer up front to get the application. He is really talking to me, saying how he's big time in the club and helps out all the newbies, that I most likely have a job, that they don't do auditions. He said "you're a decent looking girl, well, I mean your above average, so you should do fine". Then he starts talking about a REAL hottie who just started that night (I'm guessing he means blond, big boobs...). So I'm waiting for the manager to come out, chatting to the bouncer and to customers. One guy already asked if I'd be in there and the bouncer said, hell yeah just give her 5 minutes. I'm getting excited, might make some money tonight!

    Then the manager comes out.

    He won't look me in the eye or barely at me all. He says I'll call you in a couple weeks when we have an opening, shakes my hand, and walks back inside the club. WTF? I was a little awkward talking about stripping...well I did say HI my name is _____. Well that s my REAL name!" a little dorky perhaps, but not totally a job killer, right? So I leave, and I'm wondering if I made a faux pas, if I didn't have the right look, or if I actually have a job but it seemed like I was being blown off?

    Any and all comments and questions, welcome!!!

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    Well the behavior you're describing (imho) indicates uninterest. There aren't any other clubs nearby?

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    There's Southern X about an hour and half in the other direction, but I know they go for 18 y/os and I'm 28. And the way they hire is you dance for free at amateur night, and if the guys like you, they hire you. So I guess I could try it, but I thought I was a shoo-in at this other place. Serves me right I s'pose.

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    I'm in a different area, but to me these days, clubs seem funny/weird about hiring practices..

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    And maybe they remember me from last year and are intentionally making me wait? or else due to the economy, they have more options and I may be a lot lower on the attractiveness scale now than I was last year...I think the bouncer/assistant manager was going to hire me on the spot, but the owner obviously has the pull. I did leave them a message today to thank them for talking to me, and offered to dance as a fill in if any girls called out sick until they had an opening. Is that too desperate sounding? I really do need this, its the only club within an hour's drive, and it's always full of customers in the early evening. I think there is potential to earn big (being the only one around, full nude juice bar).The bouncer did say they had hired some very unattractive and/or older women recently, so again, I thought I had gotten it!!! ergh its frustrating when I had just assumed I'd be countin a stack this morning. Sigh....some words of wisdom are welcome right now.

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    can you post a picture of yourself? Maybe you need help with styling.
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    Nice username.

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    ^I reread it twice before I realized.


    I'd wait a week or two then go back at a different day/time to try a different manager. You keep adding qualifiers when you say you're attractive, so perhaps Sadie is right and you need to change your look.

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    ak sorry, I'll change mine, I swear my nickname in highschool was Loki and I thought Lola would be a fun sn....and I don't have any hot pics, I'm a natural gal with make up and hair most of the time, but can do it up if needed which I did last night. The one of me on the horse is most recent, but I did straighten my hair and put on make up last night.
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    Well, I think you belong in the pictures thread of hot girls with short hair. I think the manager just had some PMS that night. Maybe try another shift?

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    You think I should? That's very heartening, thank you dianadixon. I'm not fishing for an ego boost, but do want to know how I can secure this....one more question....attitude....Im very approachable and friendly, but have been told I can be a pushover, TOO nice. How can I use this to my advantage (assuming I get the job), OR should I just try to be more...aggressive?

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    I think you're attractive enough. If I had to offer some sort of constructive criticism I'd say that you're putting most of your points into an androgynous column and that perhaps makes you too much of this or too little of that to appeal to a wide customer base, or even the manager, assuming he had an issue with your look and wasn't just being a dick or something.

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    hmmm so maybe get a wig? no money for a ba, and I do alot of sports so big boobies are not ideal. I do have a booty though from cycling and running,maybe wear something to show off that more feminine assett? (edit: well actually this is why I wore a short dress to show off legs and butt) I dunno.

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    I think a wig would be fun and helpful. I'm biased though because I've never had short hair and definitely couldn't pull it off. I have small boobs too and it hasn't really been an issue, though I know more girls get attention for having larger breasts than I do for having small ones. No one can dislike a good butt though!

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    I've had short hair forever and a day (actually went bald for a few months but then winter hit and bald heads release ALOT of heat) so I think I look weird with long hair and actually more androgynous as the short hair brings out my face better. But I may give the wig a shot!...thanks ladies, ya'll rock and I'm incredibly envious of all you vets!

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    How about trying a clip on ponytail or something similar?

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    Ahh, you're leggy! Next time swap the boots for a pair of high heels!

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    I too have short hair, and in my daily life it is SEXY, I adore it, and everyone thinks I wear it well. However, it is not "clubby" and doesn't appeal to the masses, so I wear a wig. My wigs are my best investment. For every $40 Forever Young wig I buy, I make at least $250 more per shift (and the wigs last for about a dozen shifts before I switch styles or they get ratty)... I guess that was all I wanted to say. I still think the manager was PMSing because I got hired with short hair and no one seemed to care except me, and it sounds like we have similar personalities and looks.

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    I have short hair but I have 34F tits so I could be bald and nobody would notice. I wear wigs occasionally when I don't feel like using the flatiron on my hair. (I'm in the process of bleaching it platinum blonde so I try to avoid heat styling it as much as I can)

    Wigs are good investments because it gives your hair a break from time to time.

    A BA is a good investment. You don't have to have circus tits like mine. You can always go with a smaller implant. Plenty of women with BA's have very physically active lifestyles including some champion bodybuilders. Boobs are an investment that pay for themselves. Ask any of the ladies on here that have gotten them. Nobody has reported a decrease in their earnings.
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    Of course! I'm very comfortable with my body and feel like id be awkward with any sort of augmentation. To be blunt and possibly contradictory (I actual see it as empowerment but doubt I'd tell my women's rights groups about it) to my current job search, I'm also a bit of a feminist and don't want to bow to societal pressures of "the perfect woman". Sounds lofty but it justifies my reluctance to go under the knife. But money is money and the current desired look is not what I was born with. Appreciate your total honesty.

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    Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they improve it. Some guys like them. Some guys hate them. Some guys say they hate them then get an hour CR with Silicone Sally. Guys like tits no matter what.

    I have a shitload of tattoos and used to have a shitload of piercings. I did the whole angry little goth stripper for a long time. I was like "Fuck the Barbie look, I'm gonna be myself". I made good money. I made really good money. I took out my piercings and my earnings went up. I got my BA and my earnings skyrocketed. I bleached my hair blonde and wore pink. I dropped the weight I gained post BA. My earnings are steadily climbing. So pretty much it was greed that made me bow to "societal pressures". It's just easier to give in. Life is easier with bleached blonde hair and 34F tits than it ever was with black hair and mediocre 34C saggy bean bags.

    You said you were in VA. From my understanding VA is not a big titty place. You should be fine but the wig would help.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiLola View Post
    Of course! I'm very comfortable with my body and feel like id be awkward with any sort of augmentation. To be blunt and possibly contradictory (I actual see it as empowerment but doubt I'd tell my women's rights groups about it) to my current job search, I'm also a bit of a ufeminist and don't want to bow to societal pressures of "the perfect woman". Sounds lofty but it justifies my reluctance to go under the knife. But money is money and the current desired look is not what I was born with. Appreciate your total honesty.
    I know that ba's are strongly encouraged on this board but I really don't think customers would give a flying fuck.about the size of your boobs when you've got a killer pair of legs
    I have saggy a's and customers don't give a.damn because the only thing they are.focusing on are my super long legs(see

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    Avatar) sorry this phone is impossible!

    Anyway I'm positive that my point will be argued but I believe this business is about flaunting and exaggerating your beat feature. So if you've got legs, show them

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    Ahhhh the age old debate: Greed vs idealism. Interesting to see what will win. Lofty idealism doesn't pay my bills. I'm not saying you won't make money. You're attractive and fit. Its just a question of do you want money or more money? I have plenty of friends that do well without fakies. I'm a greedy, vain, lazy superficial bitch so I let mine do the taking for me.

    Of course a pair of fake tits isn't shit if you don't have the hustle and confidence to back it up. Its like owning a gun and not knowing how to fire it.
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    Lol So now what do I do???? Go back tonight with my wig and pushup and beg for a chance to wiggle a bit on stage? Or try my luck at the college bar in wv?

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