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    Default Re: How do I get a guy to dump a regular

    Just be prepared to have your ass handed to you...
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    Default Re: How do I get a guy to dump a regular

    If this dancer you're trying to unseat is a top earner or "queen bee" your personal hell is going to be 1000x worse believe me.
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    To be honest, I used to think the same thing when I first started - that everyone's regs were secretly in love with me and that if only they could break free from the girl's grasp, they'd be mine, mine, all mine!!

    I was at work one night and big spender had taken a liking to me. We were chatting at the table and my manager told me (privately) that if he liked me, I should stick with him because he's a major VIP guy. He gave me $200 and we started a string of dances that continued until his ATF finished getting ready and walked out of the dressing room and over to the table. He pretty much shoved me off his lap mid dance! lol and whisked her up to VIP for the remainder of the night.

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    Default Re: How do I get a guy to dump a regular

    Maybe I should just hand her her ass and get it over with.

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    Default Re: How do I get a guy to dump a regular

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    Quote Originally Posted by Samistiletto View Post
    So I am kind of new to dancing and I have met this one guy who I have danced for a couple of times. There is this other girl who he knows from before I started but it is very clear he prefers me. My problem is she is all over him the instant he sits down, so if I am chatting with someone I don't get the chance to leave them before she is in his lap. I can tell by how he looks that he was hoping she wouldn't see him, but once she is there he is too polite to send her away. He is clearly not having a good time, but then he also leaves the club as soon as he has spent his money on her, but I know it is because he doesn't want to make her feel bad, not because he is out of money So my question is, how do I get him to tell her no?
    Isn't that kind of presumptuous of you to assume that he isn't enjoying his time with her? Maybe he IS. You are not him, so you don't know exactly what is on his mind. A lot of people assume I am a certain way by the way I act or "seem" but I am actually the complete opposite of what people had originally assumed. There could be a possibility of a million things on his mind, and what you assumed he was thinking, may not even be one of them.

    You can't MAKE him to tell her no, that is just evil and manipulative and may come back to haunt you. Just let him (and other customers for that matter) make his own decisions and your life will be much easier. Karma can be a bitch, what goes around comes around. Do you want someone else doing that to you with another customer?

    Top earners do NOT seek drama. They are mature, respectable, and know what they are doing in this biz.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Samistiletto View Post
    Maybe I should just hand her her ass and get it over with.

    Hahhaaha! Your new to dancing & your already copping this attitude?! Lol, girl your gonna be in for a bumpy ride then. Count on making alot of enemies or getting fired w/ that mindset. Lol! Goode luck...
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    Default Re: How do I get a guy to dump a regular

    ^new girls are so ballsy these days! Wow! When I was new I was hazed for about three months just for being new--i cant even imagine what would've happened to me if I had an attitude...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MyButter View Post
    ^new girls are so ballsy these days! Wow! When I was new I was hazed for about three months just for being new--i cant even imagine what would've happened to me if I had an attitude...
    Oh God, yes -the hazing was horrible! The veteran girls were so mean to me! It was hell for about 6/7 months until finally one of the top earners befriended me & brought me to crash one of the other veteran girl's bday parties, only then did they give me a chance. Oi!
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Omfg I need to compose myself courtesy of Addison. Lmao to the OP. Just let it go. You are asking for trouble fucking with a veteran strippers money. You can't force someone to leave. If he wanted you he would have dropped her already. I think you were a nice appetizer but thats about it. He has his preferences and you can't change them.

    I remember dancing at a club in Moriarty NM called club 203. It was a shithole but we made good $$$$ cause of the truck drivers. One little n00b decided to try to "steal" a reg away from one of the vets. Long story short all the dancers took turns pissing in her dance bag. Retribution may not be this extreme where you are at but it will happen especially with times being this lean. (I didn't join in the community piss a thon since I was at home sick at the time)
    ...But you would have if you'd been in that night yeah?! ROFL
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: How do I get a guy to dump a regular

    I'm closing this thread. No one here is going to give you advice on how to be cut throat, which is a no no btw.

    Customers are allowed to spend money on who ever they want to, yes....and nobody owns them. He will make that choice on his own. Just remember that. At one point, he will get tired of the same girl.

    In the mean time, focus on other free potentials.

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