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    Default Working 2 guys at the same time

    In a rare departure from the norm, I ended up in a club the other night with a buddy in tow. As we were standing at the bar, a girl starts rubbing both of our chests and pitching us for dances, with her head swiveling from side to side. What a way to kill any interest I might have had. This is not the first time I've encountered this sort of thing and it leads to insta-turnoff every time. In fact, a girl touching me while she is also working another guy is one of the few things that can actually irritate me in a SC.

    Does this approach actually work for anyone? Am I in the minority on this?

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    Nope.....you aren't alone. Recently had a lady sitting on my buddy's lap and she ended up reaching behind where he couldn't see and did the ol' crotch massage scenario on me....leaned back and whispered that we should do VIP when they were done. Ummmm.....NO !!!!

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    ^That is a form of what I was talking about I suppose, but what I was really referring to are those girls who do things like put their arms around both guys at the same time and pitch their services, or flirts with both at the same time, etc.. A girl that reaches over from one guy's lap to grab the crotch of another probably fall into a special category.

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    Default Re: Working 2 guys at the same time

    That's weird. I usually just picked the more desirable of the two targets. My stripper spidey sense could usually suss it out fairly quickly.

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    It is weird. What's she planning on doing? Offering to do a 3-way dance?

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    I have done this in the past and it does work. Not touching them, obviously. But working two guys at once. Usually with younger groups of guys, in smaller clubs. If you are the hottest dancer working and both guys want you, this is great. They like to 'compare notes' if you like. They like the shared experience. All lads together. Maybe thats just a British mentality. Personally, it works great for me... Double the money in the same amount of time. I can make 80 pounds in 6 minutes for air dances. Brilliant.

    So I can see where she was coming from. But she obviously misjudged her audience, and badly! Party boys and stag groups love it, but two (I assume!) well dressed, well mannered guys sitting alone - oops.

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    Default Re: Working 2 guys at the same time

    well, i personally would not hit on two guys at once at work because i can imagine that being a turn off. ive had two guys at once before because they approached ME and it was so hot that i wished it happened more often.

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    why can't double posts be deleted here?
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    Working two guys at once might be nothing more than an attempt to get the guys feeling as if they were competing with each other for the girl's attention, thereby prompting at least one of them to fork over money sooner. It also might be an attempt by the girl to present herself as a bit on the "kinky" side when it comes to things sexual, thereby perhaps encouraging dances to be bought.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    why can't double posts be deleted here?
    I've had no problem deleting mine. Have you been unable to delete a double post of yours?
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    Yes the post where I asked the question was a duplicate of the one that followed. I was unable to delete either so i edited one. BTW, you had a double post in the last few days as well. Maybe you've since deleted it but it was there for awhile.
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    There is some kind of glitch creating double posts. There are a lot of them showing up. I have no trouble deleting mine I just don't always know when it's a double post since I sometimes log-off right after I post. I've noticed that other members have been able to delete double posts as well. I did not delete yours.
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    It won't let me delete it. Feel free to delete all but my post related to the thread topic if you wish.
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    Default Re: Working 2 guys at the same time

    In my experience one of the guys is going to step up to the offer.

    It's a way to find out which guy is the attention ho, and which one is interested and wants to spend money.

    It's not my normal deal to do this sort of thing but it happens.

    There was a time when two guys came in and I ended up dancing for the one that was really interested in me.

    They left, and 30 minutes later his friend (the guy I didn't dance for) came back and tracked me down saying he couldn't stop thinking about me and wanted to buy some dances.

    Who am I to turn this down?




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    ^ One of my long-time faves has told me similar stories about the guy who didn't buy dances coming back and looking for her later on that day or on a future visit. Working multiple guys is not her favorite thing to do but if it's slow and there are only groups in the club she will do it. The thing to remember is that even if you target one guy the rest of them are hearing your conversation. It's a chance to impress even if it doesn't turn into money right away. Nothing wrong with planting seeds...
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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    That's weird. I usually just picked the more desirable of the two targets.
    ^This exactly. But, I have seen girls do this-mainly on a weekend night when the crowd is younger and, er, often cheaper (some girls pitch to both guys in the hope that they will split the price of a dance). I've also seen dancers do it so that they can charge both the full price i.e. $ 50 per guy, instead of per dance, for the same amount of time (fair enough). But, I avoid this-after all, you can't give both guys the attention they are paying for if you are constanly lap hopping, so the chance of them extending isn't high. If two guys are interested, I just find a friend for their friend...it's more fair and more fun for them that way.

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    Default Re: Working 2 guys at the same time

    The title of this thread had me thinking something totally different...
    like I think there was an episode of Happy Days where Chachi invited 2 girls to the prom?
    I had this image of myself w/ 2 guys in different CR's, every 5 minutes I'd tell one of them I just have to go pee....

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    I asked my ATF about this; specifically what happens when two of her regulars show up at the same time. When I'm there, she's 99% exclusive to me (there are exceptions for one set with someone she hasn't seen or something). I then figured it out. I have her cell #...A cell #...and she'll text me asking about when I can make it next, or I'll tell her a few days in advance when I'm coming. I think she does this to most of her regulars and avoids conflicts. Sometimes she'll say she's 'not working' that day even though she seems to have a set schedule, so I work around that when I have to. She's the most popular girl in the club yet I get exclusive time ever time for 3 hours? Nice system she has! A good ATF is worth way more than what you pay her.

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    I've never worked two guys at a time because it's too complicated. Generally speaking I could normally tell who was more likely to spend money on me and worked on him (and was usually right). Sometimes though a group would ask me to sit with them and they would all buy dances but this was rare (and they approached me).

    Bem, I had that problem too awhile back where it was posting multiple posts. I was able to remove the duplicates by going to editing and selecting delete message.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Easy Mark View Post
    I asked my ATF about this; specifically what happens when two of her regulars show up at the same time.
    FYI, the OP is talking about working two guys SITTING TOGETHER at the same time. Working multiple customers around the room is something that dancers do all the time. Depending on how busy it is and how many of the guys are known spenders the newbs may get only a few minutes to buy before she moves on but it's rare that potential business gets totally ignored.

    Regarding your comment about scheduling an appointment with your ATF, I do that too and think it's a great idea. I have the #'s of all of my regular girls and I make it a habit to visit on their slowest days. It's a good thing for both of us!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Regarding your comment about scheduling an appointment with your ATF, I do that too and think it's a great idea. I have the #'s of all of my regular girls and I make it a habit to visit on their slowest days. It's a good thing for both of us!
    And that is how it's DONE!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by missykrissy View Post
    And that is how it's DONE!!!
    Nothing like a great regular on a Tuesday

    Yes! My normal day to see her is Tuesday afternoon. I like how the hottest girl is all mine for a few hours.

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    Default Re: Working 2 guys at the same time

    This is one of the reasons I am more likely to either fly solo at a club or spend a lot more time on the floor tipping than getting dances if I am with friends. While they are getting propositioned, I simply pick the one I like and tip her enough times on stage until I get the dances from my target for the evening. Why be in competition with friends over a dancer? That's ludicrous. However when we get approached, we usually want it to be about us, not the group. I can agree though, certain age groups/party boy types probably love the competitive side of things. Some people make a sport out of everything, it is best to just know your surroundings before approaching I would think.
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    Default Re: Working 2 guys at the same time

    I have asked two friends who were together "would you guys like a dance" with my arms around both of their shoulders or something, and often times they would go for it. Sometimes 3 wanted to do the dance at the same time. I would only do this if the guys were 20s. Strangely enough, I find that I have a higher success rate if I asked the whole group (or 2 friends together) at the same time than if I just targeted one. Not sure why. I never even knew that guys hate that until I read this thread, I'm not a guy so I wouldn't know. Woops.

    BTW, at my club both guys have to pay.

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    I have never had the opportunity to club with another woman, but the very few times I club with a male friend this scenario has never occurred, thankfully. Even when the dancers think that my friend & I are a "couple" they'll always ask us separately if we want a dance, and rarely offer a "couples" dance.
    Perhaps it is the way that I leer at them that tells them our dances would be best as a 1-on-1 experience .

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