
Originally Posted by
sugartaste
Hey ladies, I need some input here...
A few years ago, I was working at a club nearby my apartment-as in, less than half a mile away. I did great there, had lots of regulars etc..but got burned out and needed a break from club dancing. About a month later, a customer from the club showed up at my house! I asked him how he found me and he wouldn't tell me..I told him in no uncertain terms to never show up here again or I would get a restraining order. He never did, but he still occasionally sends me messages on FB that I refuse to read (I still don't know how he found my real name, or address.) A year later, ANOTHER customer left me a note on my doorstep, addressed to my real name.
Fast forward to now, I've mostly been doing private parties and worked at a few other clubs, but they've all been about an hour's drive away and I just never felt truly comfortable at any of them. The last club I worked at was just so slow and I didn't stick around long enough to make regulars. I am really tempted to go back to my old club-I just hate the driving, and being "new" at a club, and miss a lot of the girls I worked with and of course, the money. But to this day, I can't be 100% certain that someone at that club wasn't giving out my personal info. How could 2 customers figure out where I live? (To be fair, I never filled out paperwork at this club, so they had no record of my real name or address.) For a while, I though it was a certain dancer who once accused me of "stealing" her regulars, but she only knew my real first name.
So, would you chance it and go back? If I do, should I tell the managers not to let those 2 customers in the club? Or would you just avoid the club and consider all the traveling, less money, etc as a trade-off for personal safety??
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