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    Default Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    The other night I was sitting with this couple and in no time she asked me to dance for her boyfriend... I started dancing and first she instructed me to speed up which I really didn't do, and then I ran my fingers through his hair and down his neck (what I do in almost every dance I give) and then she told me to get up (after giving me some nasty bitch you can't have my boyfriend look). I usually do pretty well with couples, and besides not kicking my leg up on the back of the chair (which I don't do when I dance for couples)... I had never even thought about toning down my dances for the guy half until that night- so the question... does anyone dance differently for couples?

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    Default Re: Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    I usually focus on the girl first, it makes them feel way more comfortable when you change your focus to the guy

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    Default Re: Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    I also focus more on the girl, especially if she seems kind of bitchy and possessive.

    I find that intimate moves like running your fingers through his hair or down his neck aren't usually effective in couples dances because the girl isn't expecting that (most of the couples I've encountered, it's the first time the girl is at the club or at least getting a dance, and they tend to expect sexy stuff but not the fake intimacy that makes us money) and reads it as you being into her dude. It also doesn't have the same effect as on a single guy because the boyfriend feels bad getting into it. Basically, I give the girl a shitton of attention and show off my body by bending over and playing with my tits - stereotypically sexy things. If the girl is getting into it, I use the intimate moves on her instead. I find the female in a couples dances is way more receptive and the guy just gets turned on.

    Of course, not all couples are that way, but in my experience that's definitely the majority.

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    Default Re: Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    I make my dances more of a "show" when dancing for couples or women in general.. more visual (poses, tricks, air dancing, etc) and less intimate (close contact/grinding, heavy breathing, hair curtains, etc).

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    Default Re: Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    As the others said, I always focus on the girl first, and really she stays my primary focus throughout the dances. Any attention I give the guy tends to be given almost as an aside, like I will be straddling the girl, lean back holding onto the sides of the chair and spread my legs in front of her while giving the guy a sultry or playful look. The longer I am with a couple the more I can gauge how the girl will react to my directly attending to the guy, whether she will be cool with it or get bitchy, but when in doubt I'll wait until I get sm direct indicator that more intimate interaction with the guy will be accepted.

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    Default Re: Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    Yep, I agree all around. Especially with the compliment aspect. I lavish the girl with compliments saying how beautiful and cool she is and how lucky her boyfriend is. I'm not trying to be insincere, I'm just trying to get everyone as relaxed and comfortable as possible.

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    Default Re: Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    I toned my dances down unless I get a feel from the couple they are cool with "more". Like they're swingers or something and they want lots of attention. If it's like their first time there or something, I'll take it a lot easier and tone it down and lavish attention and compliments on them. It all depends on the feeling I get from the couple and how much I know them, etc.
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    Default Re: Does anyone tone down their dances for couples?

    When i dance for couples i concentrate on the girl first. I only dance for the guy if she asks me to

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