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    Default A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    ok this horribal boy stareted to message me asking to meet and saying he new me bt wouldnt say who it was for ages trying to get one up on me,bt i managed to find out who he was no he keeps booking me for shows and leave me crap feedback im tempted to tell his gf as i have him on facebook what do you think ??

    he doesnt leave me alone keeps asking for free meet or he will tell people what i do and such a nob grrrrrrr.

    ps sorry for my spelling lol

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    I'd block him. You might also want to mention to AW that he is trying to blackmail you, I'm sure they won't take very kindly to that. If he's threatening to out you and leaving crap feedback just because you don't hook up with him he is definitely not worth the time. I wouldn't tell his girlfriend because that would just bring more drama, so not worth it. But, I'm a very non-confrontational person so that's just my $0.02.

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    Block him from sending you emails and bookings, and block him from DirectCam if he comes in. Watch out though, if you do DirectChat he will still be able to call you and you won't know it's him when you pick up the phone. And report him.

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    Hiya Jelly,

    That sounds really bad, I'm sorry! If it were me I'd stop taking bookings from him and ban him...how bad would it be if he did tell other people? You could say to him that if he tells anyone about you, you'll tell his girlfriend. He would have some explaining to anyway if he tells people what you do, how is he going to say he found out? If you tell his girlfriend he may feel like he has nothing to lose and will then tell others...if he tells others I would then tell his girlfriend.

    Thinking about the worse case scenario and how bad it would be for you may be the way forward, either way this guy needs to be stopped, you can't live/cam like this and put up with bad feedback for nothing.

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    Keep proof. If it all comes out, at least him blackmailing you essentially for sex will make him look far, far worse than you.

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    Personally I would pretend to be interested and get him to send you naked photos and then tell him "leave me alone or i show everyone these photos" since he is blackmailing you... why not do it back.

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    Yes blackmailing is illegal. Save all of his messages and contact AW and report him.

    If you're in the US : Courtesy of Wikipedia:

    United States

    The offense of blackmail is created by 18 U.S.C. § 873 which provides:

    "Whoever, under a threat of informing, or as a consideration for not informing, against any violation of any law of the United States, demands or receives any money or other valuable thing, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than one year, or both."[29]

    Wouldn't it be lovely if he became someone's jail bitch over night?? Aww so sweet hmmm

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    I don't know, man.... this is what I would do:

    -Cease contact. (Block him from seeing anything to do with you online. Also, report his behaviour to AW.)
    -Keep proof of EVERYTHING

    But most importantly,
    -Do not let on in the SLIGHTEST WAY that him 'outing you' bothers you in the least. (Pretend your friends and family already know what you do and are supportive, etc.)

    Don't give him the power to hold something over your head.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    My first thought was..


    But blocking him would probably be better.

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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    HA HA Mila! I would double thank if I could, that's just what I was thinking!

    So Jellybabby. Are you ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that this guy is for real and knows you? You didn't say, "OMG You're Gerome, aren't you?!" and then he said, "Yep. I'm Gerome" (cops do that all the time) There are losers trying to blackmail girls for free shows ALL THE TIME. They do it because lots of girls fall for it, as you may have done. First, make sure that it's not easy to find your real name from you cam name anywhere online. If you've been in porn and been AIM tested both your names are linked on a fucking horrible website.

    Did he say your real name? Does he know real details about you that only someone who knows you would know? Try to bait him. If you think he really knows you, think of someone you two would know in common whose name he would also know. "Don't tell my mom Linda that you saw me!" Then he'll say he's going to tell her everything. Except you know he doesn't actually know you because your mom isn't actually named Linda and if he knew you he'd know that.

    At this point you're probably certain that he doesn't actually know you, but just for good measure, tell him you know the jig is up, block him, then report him to AW. If through this you become certain that he DOES know you, DENY IT. Laugh, tell him that you were afraid for a second that he really did know you and you're glad he doesn't. Ha ha! Anybody who knows you would know that your mom is actually named (fake name) and you haven't ever lived in (your town). Then block and report him.

    The reason you're afraid that someone you know will find out is probably because you're hiding this from the people you know. Now is a good trial run to see how you'd feel if your secret got out. If your life would be ruined, stop camming. If things would be pretty damn bad, take steps to make yourself harder to find (share no photos in common btwn "real people" profiles and cam profiles, keep everything 100% separate, don't show tattoos on cam, maybe even disguise yourself). If things would just be a little bad, tell everyone now. Particularly tell everyone if you find the guy really knows you. Tell them before he does.

    If you find that he really knows you don't close your profile, delete the photos and videos if you can, close it if you can't. Take steps to hide your identity better and move to another site. Never return to that profile again. It's dead to you. Sorry. He's going to take any friends who know you two in common to look at the first profile. If your photos are gone he'll camp out, waiting for you to return there. So you never return. He has no proof it's you and he'll wait there for you instead of looking for you on other sites.

    Lastly, re the spelling. If it really bothers you, most devices (phones, tablets, computers) have things that check your spelling as you type. It'll make a little red line show up under the misspelled word. Just do a google search for, "check spelling as you type [the device you're on]" and it'll tell you how to turn check spelling on. Then, when it gives you something with a little red line under it, right click (or ctrl click if you have a one button mouse) on the word. The computer will tell you how it thinks the word should be spelled. Just click the correct spelling and it'll fix it.


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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    Agreed with Isobel. There are some royal jerks who will try to "blackmail" you, even though they really have no info. Make sure that this guy really does know private info about you first. There are girls (me included) who have had guys come into our rooms, swearing up and down that we are someone we're not. I've got an idiot on Chaturbate who's fully convinced my name is Liz, and offered videos of "liz fucking" to everyone in my room. Admittedly, he did get closer than anyone else in guessing what city/town I'm from, but he was still wrong.

    If he really IS who you think he is, then save EVERYTHING. Blackmail is very much illegal, and even if AW doesn't do anything, YOU can, as long as you have proof. Pretty much everything that Isobel said is spot-on, including the stuff about what would really happen if anyone found out. Like she said, if your life would be ruined if anyone found out, then stop camming. It's not for you.

    I made a comment to someone the other day about how camming is like having sex; if you have sex, you've got to be prepared for the idea of getting pregnant (except in certain cases that don't apply to the majority). Likewise, if you cam, you have to be prepared for the possibility of being found out. You can use all the protection in the world; there is still a chance of getting found out, and if you're not prepared to deal with that, then it's not the industry for you.

    Good luck in dealing with this douchebag; I like to think that people like that are going to get what's coming to them.



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    Default Re: A boy i went to school with has found me on AW what to do?

    To answer your thread title: I had the same thing on AW & just treated him like any other client: I fucked his brains out after the usual fees had been exchanged

    To answer the body of your message: block the cunt. If he's leaving spiteful feedback then you can contact AW & see if they can get it removed (they can only do this is you have not responded to it) if it contravenes the usual rules (see the helpdesk for full details)

    He sounds like an evil twisted little fuck so if you did want to lay low just change your profile to seeking services that way he can't search for you and you don't have to piss about deleting any of your content
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