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    Default Bring fiancé to audition?!?

    My fiancé wants to come with me to my audition, fine no problem, right? Is it okay that I introduce him to the staff or manager? I mean once I start he won't be frequenting the club or anything. Is it okay that I ask to "look around" I want to see what the VIP rooms look like and what I have to work with and my fiancé wants to make sure I won't be completely left alone with a customer either, or if something were to happen in VIP I can be heard or seen. I know I can tip and ask the bouncers there and ask them to check on me occasionally.

    I know he is just worried and would like to know that I will be safe while working but I don't want to break any.. Taboo I suppose, ya know?

    Also what does your VIP rooms look like? Spacious an cfortanle, small and simple? I know we could spent $100 for twenty minutes in there and find out without asking to be shown but I really don't want to be spending too much money there, I want to make it there! Lol.

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    Eeeeeeeh. I get that your fiancé would feel more comfortable seeing everything, but I wouldn't recommend bringing him to your audition and introducing him to management. They'll think he's your pimp, and a lot of clubs don't like that sort of thing, especially if he wants to see the VIP rooms and ask about your interactions with customers.

    Your best bet is to go on two separate occasions. Go once to appease your man where you two are customers. This gives him a chance to see the club and interactions between dancers/customers - don't ask for a tour or to "look around" though. By all means, spend on the girls and go to the VIP as customers though! Then, go a second time, on your own, to do your audition. If you get hired, management will take you through the VIP rooms and everywhere else and explain everything to you.

    VIP rooms vary greatly. I've worked in clubs that had plush seating and curtained rooms, to clubs with no VIP, to clubs where it was no different from lap dance seating, there was just a door between rooms. It varies. It really doesn't matter though, as long as security is good and there are camera or bouncers checking up on you.

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    Not unless you want him to look like your pimp, "driver", "bodyguard", "life coach" etc. Boyfriends, fiancčs, baby daddies, husbands, girlfriends, wives, domestic partners whatever you may have DO NOT BELONG AT WORK UNLESS THEY ARE PICKING YOU UP.
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    I will show him this post, thank you!

    The first time we went tO the club we asked for one of the dancers to come sit with us. We probably paid her $30 for five minutes of getting a little information in the club. She told me that all the girls are cool, that she's never had a problem with theft, she makes her own hours, and make about $900 to $1000 in three to four days. I was amazed and she asked the manager about me be a dancer. I would of been able to audition that night of I had my dancer/liquor license on me. That was three months ago and since then I've gotten shoes, outfits, new make-up, contacts and have been mentally preparing myself to work at a topless club. Only thing now to do is go and get it done!

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    Default Re: Bring fiancé to audition?!?

    Ridiculous. No boyfriends, no husbands, and no fiancés at an audition ever. Never ever ever.

    You can come in as a couple before-hand to scope out the club. But other than that he shouldn't be anywhere in the vicinity when you actually audition.

    There are plenty of threads on this site where the boyfriend went nuts-o due to jealousy and insecurity.

    Fuck that. Leave your man at home.
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    Default Re: Bring fiancé to audition?!?

    Personally, I have always brought my man (when he was my boyfriend and now that he's my husband) every time I've auditioned at a new club and have found that it usually gives me a level of respect from the managers and hosts. After they have met him I have never had a problem with male employees being inappropriate. However, he has worked in the industry for a long time and he is quite a big man, so that helps too

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    Mine is like an 80 year old without Viagra. In and out. He comes in to pick me up and help me with my body bag and gets the fuck out.
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    Default Re: Bring fiancé to audition?!?

    I don't see why your fiance would have to be there for you to find out how everything works and take a look around. I'm assuming you have communication skills that would allow you to relay all this information to him when you get back home. If he trusts you to be honest, he doesn't need to be there himself to find out about how your job is going to work. All that matters is what you see, how you feel about it, and what you are comfortable with. He doesn't belong in the club.
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    Default Re: Bring fiancé to audition?!?

    If you wanna take him to the club and check it out, fine, but I wouldn't take him to your audition and definitely not try to introduce him to people. All the clubs I've worked at have had a strict "no boyfriends" rule and bringing in your boyfriend would get you pulled into the office for a warning. If your potential club is like that, it's really not a good way to start off


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    He has already been to the club with you so why does he want to go again?

    Is he a jealous person? I mean, you're an adult and really shouldn't need hand holding. It is best to leave your personal life outside the doors of a strip club.
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    Default Re: Bring fiancé to audition?!?

    Every club I have worked at has a strict no boyfriend/husband/fiancé policy. I think you may appear as unprofessional. You wouldn't bring him to a regular job interview, which is basically the same thing.

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    Hell there is already a rumor that my husband is my pimp. Everyone talks about the "scary looking goth pimp" with the black leather trench. And he was just in there to pick me up.

    Sorry total blatant threadjack but if we ever went to a pimp n ho ball I would want him to wear a snazzy Victorian era costume.
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