
Originally Posted by
rickdugan
I feel your pain J. There is nothing worse than going to a back room with a sexy dancer for a simple, sensuous experience and, instead, being molested. And you really have to watch out for that, because some of these girls are very tricky. One minute she is simply moving against you in a way that is quite nice and then, the next moment, she has her mouth over your pants and on your erection.
When that happens to me, I usually say, in a stern voice, "That is NOT OK!" If she continues anyway, obviously believing that NO means YES, I let out a high pitched squeal with something like, "PLEASE STOP, I DON'T WANT THAT!" or something else designed to let her know that I am not enjoying her violation of my body. Of course, when it gets to that point, club staff often enters to check out the source of the noise, at which point I make sure to let them know that her behavior was simply unacceptable and that I feel violated.
J, it is good to see that someone else feels this way. We should form a support group. We could call it, Men Who Have Been Violated by Strippers in VIP. Seriously dude, there have to be others who have been subjected to this gross mistreatment and who could benefit from advice and emotional support.
Now some have suggested to me that, with my size and strength advantage, it should not be a big deal for me to gently shift away and perhaps even just kindly let her know that I'm really only looking for a standard lapdance. The problem, though, is that I'm afraid that she'll think that I'm an asshole for doing so. It is a real pickle indeed.
Anyway, just my two cents.
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