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    I've been exposing myself to a lot of sexual shows to relax my mind and get focused on my passion. But I notice with the women in the shows, they're always either in a couple or they're getting paid as nude models, prostitutes, etc.

    It makes me wonder if there always has to be an additional catch with women's sexual expression, like they're in love or they're getting paid for it.

    One prostitute said she's not like sluts because she's a professional. Another got into a huge fight with a regular woman who cheated on her husband, saying she holds women to a higher standard as wives and mothers.

    Camille Paglia the abrasive anti-feminist/feminist scholar haunts me to this day. She thinks promiscuous women are fools and that women who express sexuality for money are goddesses, that women should only express their sexuality if they're getting paid for it or they're in a committed relationship.

    It just makes me think I'll never be happy. I wish I had never heard of this woman. I wish the double standard didn't exist.

    It makes me want to concede and forget about other sex positive jobs like Planned Parenthood and just go back to stripping so I can feel she respects me (even though I've never met her), that people are ok with me, that I'm somehow put in check, that I have power instead of just pleasure. So I won't hear her voice anymore or have her follow me around the house criticizing and berating me.

    What do you guys think? Do you think I should "give it up for free" or only as sex work? What do you think of Camille?

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    Hell yeah, women should be paid for it. I feel the same way as this lady, personally. I feel like, why spoil men when u get nothing back in return but just an orgasm(if you're lucky). I'm not into casual sex. Done it a few times and it's just not my thing. I like having an emotional deep connection. If an opportunity of FWB comes up, fkn pay like an arrangement.

    I don't think promiscuous women are fools....women should do whatever the fuck they want and what makes them happy, first of all. Just be safe.
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    Everyone should have the opportunity to sell sex for money.

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    Yes I do agree with Camilla. I honestly deep down think that women that have sex for free with everyone and anyone are idiots. I also think that the majority of the time the women that do this don't use protection opposed to an escort that uses protection when she's having sex with a client. As an escort, I have "civie" friends that have no clue what I do and they'll come and tell me all about their wild night screwing 4-5 guys - I'm sitting there thinking "Wow what a dumb ass you could have gotten paid well over 2 grand for that" but I just keep mum. If women want to go out and have sex just to have sex more power to them but I think it's stupid. At the end of the day they have a lot of miles and nothing to show for it LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    Yes I do agree with Camilla. I honestly deep down think that women that have sex for free with everyone and anyone are idiots. I also think that the majority of the time the women that do this don't use protection opposed to an escort that uses protection when she's having sex with a client. As an escort, I have "civie" friends that have no clue what I do and they'll come and tell me all about their wild night screwing 4-5 guys - I'm sitting there thinking "Wow what a dumb ass you could have gotten paid well over 2 grand for that" but I just keep mum. If women want to go out and have sex just to have sex more power to them but I think it's stupid. At the end of the day they have a lot of miles and nothing to show for it LOL!
    As an escort, do you find yourself having sex with men you aren't even attracted to just for the money? Because promiscuous women like Samantha from Sex and the City only sleep with hot men.

    As an escort, don't you have sex with far more people than you ordinarily would have if you had had sex for free?

    As an escort, don't you worry about getting arrested??

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    Quote Originally Posted by SlutGoddess View Post
    As an escort, do you find yourself having sex with men you aren't even attracted to just for the money? Because promiscuous women like Samantha from Sex and the City only sleep with hot men.
    TV is just TV. On occasion escorts get very handsome men that are just looking for variety but it is only on occasion.
    To answer your question, an escort that only catered to men that she's attracted to would be broke.

    As an escort, don't you have sex with far more people than you ordinarily would have if you had had sex for free?
    In my personal life, I sometimes go months and months without sex. As an escort, I see 5-6 guys a week (maybe more?) touring. I also make income that would make a doctor blush. I have been doing this for 3 years (maybe 4?). The number does add up but I also take very good care of myself. With money, I can do that. As an escort, I have also never caught an STD or met a violent client like most people think. All the guys I have seen have been super respectful, clean and treated me very well.

    As an escort, don't you worry about getting arrested??
    No I don't. Escort screen for their safety. We don't just sit by the phone and answer calls from horny men and say
    HEY come to my place the address is so and so. I also don't accept same day appointments. Also as an escort that tours, it is harder for
    le to bust me. I am literally everywhere. My screening process is checking the guy's references from other women in
    the industry he has seen. I ask the lady questions like "How was he?", "Would you see him again"...etc.
    For men that do NOT have references I check their employment, the guys know this is how we stay safe so they are willing to give this information to a reputable , well reviewed escort. To further answer your question, Fear is only lack of knowledge and that's as real as it gets.


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    Fact of the matter is this: YES I was that girl that said "EW you're an escort". I said that exactly 3-4 years ago here on stripperweb when minnie (a stripperweb moderator) told me she was an escort. I judged her and thought to myself omg how fucking disgusting. One day out of curiosity - I answer an ad by a very reputable agency in my area and my life has never been the same. I love what I do and the only way I would fuck anyone for free is if I like them/ I am in love with them.

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    I give escorts mad props for being able to fuck ugly men.
    I had two different unattractive men offer me sick amount of money $$,$$$ & I declined. One of them seriously made me gag when he spoke. He had some weird white stuff on the corners of his mouth with a wrenching smell. Ugh.

    As for Samantha from SATC, there's plenty of women like that. It's not just tv.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    I give escorts mad props for being able to fuck ugly men.
    I had two different unattractive men offer me sick amount of money $$,$$$ & I declined. One of them seriously made me gag when he spoke. He had some weird white stuff on the corners of his mouth with a wrenching smell. Ugh.
    Ahem.... Yes while we may fuck men we are not attracted to - I won't call them ugly by any means.
    Sure we get guys that are ugly but I have never once came across a guy that made me cringe.
    I posted on my website that I did not see overweight men or men with heart problems.
    Also what makes you think we see men that smell? The men we see know they have to be clear or else
    they will not be serviced.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    Ahem.... Yes while we may fuck men we are not attracted to - I won't call them ugly by any means.
    Sure we get guys that are ugly but I have never once came across a guy that made me cringe.
    I posted on my website that I did not see overweight men or men with heart problems.
    Also what makes you think we see men that smell? The men we see know they have to be clear or else
    they will not be serviced.
    I never said I thought escorts fuck smelly men. I said the one who I encountered that made me an offer, smell. I'm just saying kuddos. I wish I had the balls ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    I never said I thought escorts fuck smelly men. I said the one who I encountered that made me an offer, smell. I'm just saying kuddos. I wish I had the balls ;-)
    *slaps myself* I don't know why I read it wrong. Yes what we do is hard work (no pun intended) but I love it. I guess I'm a slut. I don't mind being a paid one

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    I've said this before, but to me escorts are one of the smartest women because they take something that men can get for free and require them to pay for it. I believe it should be legal and escorts are an issue I have zero problem with.

    Having said that, while I was never one to sleep around there were times I did have casual sex. The FWBs were mutual agreements and those I have no issue with. However, the times I slept with a man thinking he would want to marry me or even date me, only to find out he had no interest breaks my heart even to this day. I resent wasting time with these losers at a time where I could get any guy and get these same men to spoil me. That's why I am sad often when I read stories on here about a woman who slept with a man thinking he wanted more, only to find out he didn't. These guys are pretty much sociopaths and are scum.

    While both the feminist and sexual movements did good things, both caused a lot of bad. We now have a society where sleeping together before marriage, engagement, or even being exclusive is the norm. We have a society where children are being born to unwed women while the dad bails out. We have a society where women often have abortions because they have no idea who the father would be. The rise in sexual disease is scary and as a result more and more people will be sterile later in life when they might want children. If you don't have sex early you risk the guy leaving anyway, but no guarantee he will stay even if you do.

    I made the vow years ago to not have sex until at least I get engaged. Men who truly want to be with me will wait. I just wish I had made this vow years ago because it would have saved me a lot of grief. Trust me, it's horrific to see people getting married while you get dumped after having sex with a man you thought loved you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    I give escorts mad props for being able to fuck ugly men.
    I had two different unattractive men offer me sick amount of money $$,$$$ & I declined. One of them seriously made me gag when he spoke. He had some weird white stuff on the corners of his mouth with a wrenching smell. Ugh.

    As for Samantha from SATC, there's plenty of women like that. It's not just tv.
    You would think he'dd take that money and resolve his hygiene issues! DAMN!
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    A very well off man I knew once told me "sex always costs something & I would rather know the cost upfront." I don't have a problem with women charging for sex but there was a term coined by a member here, dickmatized, which makes me feel that the dick does have some value.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    A very well off man I knew once told me "sex always costs something & I would rather know the cost upfront." I don't have a problem with women charging for sex but there was a term coined by a member here, dickmatized, which makes me feel that the dick does have some value.
    I am an attractive woman though very lonely. I would never pay for something I could get for free.

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    I feel the same....Lovely

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    Women should get paid for sex they wouldn't have otherwise, as should men. No one person should be able to dictate what is right for all other members of their gender.

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    Kisca that is exactly what I see. I see women being expected to cook and clean and pay for half the dates while the man gets everything. My attitude is if a guy really likes me he will spend while dating. Once we become serious then we can split the bills and in return split cooking and cleaning. However if a man expects me to do all/most of the cooking and cleaning then he pays the bills. I've been lucky because I dated a few guys who loved cooking and cleaning, paid most of the bills, yet paid for dates.

    My mom always told me that men who are interested in a relationship will stick around regardless of having sex. If he wants sex he will leave no matter what. Also, that men are different in regards to sex and can often put women in categories of "women that are for sex" and "women that are for marriage". Double standard certainly, but nothing is worse then realizing he wants marriage, just not to you and then he marries the next woman he dates.

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    Marriage is pretty much a failure of an institution, anyway. If you want to be with someone, just be with them. Screw ceremonies and formalities.

    I'm not sure how you could reconcile hanging out with a guy and insisting on being paid for sex. If you're a prostitute, like was said in another post, you better be upfront about it. But if you're gonna go out a couple times, and then lay the bombshell that sex will cost him, then that's wrong. I do think prostitution should be legal. I don't think women who have sex whenever they want for free are idiots, though. There are theoretically many things people do that they could get paid for; doesn't mean that we all feel the need to pursue a payment. This obsession with money to the point where it dictates how we spend our free time is sickening.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Six View Post
    Marriage is pretty much a failure of an institution, anyway. If you want to be with someone, just be with them. Screw ceremonies and formalities.
    I agree. I used to look at wedding photos and think "Aww how cute". Now they symbol doom to me. Maybe it's because of all the married men I have fucked. I don't believe in perfect marriages. I see a lot of men that are in so called "Perfect" marriages. To everyone else their marriage is perfect but behind closed doors , they're miserable together. A women gets married and thinks she has the perfect man in the world while that man is out busy seeing a hot 23 year old escorts to get what she's not giving him/can't do/won't do in bed. It's fucked up but that's reality. I am 23 and I tell my married friends... "Wanna keep your man from cheating, give him a blowjob as soon as he gets home from work and it better be a damn good one".

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    As for your other comment, I am the one that said I think people that have free sex randomly are idiots. I am speaking from experience. I have lots of girlfriends that do this and they do not have a clue what I do. Once a girlfriend of mine got drunk at the bar and let some guys run a train on her till the next morning. What did she get out of that? A headache and a sore vagina? For what? For nothing. Another one of my girlfriends has a so called sugardaddy that pays her $300 A DAY to hangout. Well hangout meant he wanted to have unlimited sex. He bent her like a pretzel and really got his monies worth. Well I thought that rate was ridiculous giving the fact that the average mid range escort in the United states makes $250 an hour. I mean she could have gotten PAID. I also don't understand women that go out, have sex with strangers for free and have the nerve to put women like me down for what we do.
    Women like that to me have issues within themselves or need attention. I also believe they're the same as women that trick themselves into thinking they're in a relationship with someone when they're really just a booty call. As an escort, when I leave my daughter for 3 days, I know I'm coming home with at least 4-6k. My bills will be paid and I will have money to put in her college fund unlike those that fuck for free and have nothing to show for it.
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    Lovelyme, I had a friend like that. She would randomly pick up men for sex or oral sex and at the same time cutting down hookers. I would tell her she was no different except they were smart enough to be paid to have sex with strangers. Let's not forget all the women who have sex with me because "he bought me dinner". I've known a lot like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    I mean she could have gotten PAID.
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    Maybe these girls do these things because they enjoy them. Money is not the only motivator.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Six View Post
    Maybe these girls do these things because they enjoy them. Money is not the only motivator.
    Sweetie let's not be delusional. When women go online and look for sugardaddies they're doing it for the money. It IS the motivator. As for my girlfriend, she did not enjoy it. She did it for the money and even then the money was not worth it. She had bruises because he tied her up and walked her around with a leash. That is what he is into. I told either dump him because he's not a fun "daddy" or at least get paid in full for it.

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