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    Due to a new law requiring dating sites to provide safe features for it's members . SA is now offering a "verified feature". I personally think this is a great idea probably the best this site has had so far. I may rejoin a few months after this goes in.

    Already reading the blog I can see that most women love this idea. Most men not so much... why does this not surprise me?

    Things that will stop someone from being verified include:

    Registered Sex Offenders
    Sex Crimes
    Violent Crimes
    Domestic Violence
    Felonies and Misdemeanor Assaults
    Age lies ( yes if you're 80 but put that you're 40 on your profile you will FAIL) LOL

    Thoughts anyone?? I have a feeling that SA may be losing half it's fake and scam population or women will just refuse to meet with "unverified" individuals.

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    Default Re: Seeking Arrangement Will Now Require Background Checks to be "VERIFIED"

    i think its a good idea. that being said, still be careful. if a member on seeking arrangement is as wealthy as he claims to be, then there is a good chance if he did wrong in the past he could have hired a good enough lawyer or paid a settlement etc. to get out of trouble. just because someone has not been convicted of a sex crime in the past does not mean they will not harm you.

    if i remember correctly, the site already had an option for members to prove their income?

    anyway, im curious to hear more about this law. im assuming it applies to all dating sites?
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Seeking Arrangement Will Now Require Background Checks to be "VERIFIED"

    well seeking arragnemnts is part of ashley madison so I have always been skeptic of what they are doing.
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    ^ I thought Ashely Madison was owned by another guy named Biderman. Brandon Wade has SA, WYP and Miss Trafficked. lol (Miss Travel).

    I know they have their Diamond Member status but that only verifies the guy's wealth one time. As long as he keeps paying that fee they will never look back into his income to see that he actually lost all his millions. Also there was a guy that was sexually assaulting women to such a point that the complaints were staggering. Wade had to actually kick the guy off the site.

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    Default Re: Seeking Arrangement Will Now Require Background Checks to be "VERIFIED"

    One thing I find odd is that Ashely Madison has over 100 million members... but as of 2010 there are supposed to be 120 million married couples in the U.S. Eeks. Looks like most people aren't faithful at all.

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    Default Re: Seeking Arrangement Will Now Require Background Checks to be "VERIFIED"

    It seems like a good idea, but as a PP said, you still have to be careful. Use common sense and don't let those men use you as a cheap escort.

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    anyone have used the site?

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    I use it..its meh :/ creepy guys more bang for your buck guys flakes but some "diamonds" in the rough if u really take the time to search. ive had a little luck with establishedmen.com. in fact im waiting for my sugar date to start. siiigh i wish he was hotter. i can say that after this experience im pretty much starved for attractive men lol
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    Actually I haven't met a single guy of any of those sites. They are just too damn creepy. So many lies, fakes and scam artists. It makes sense for any old guy to join that site and just lie his ass off to get laid. They tend to despise industry workers because we're likely to see that what most offer is laughable. It's funny how so many women will accept cheap amounts yet say " I'm not a hooker". That little self lie is what those men count on.

    I think the straw that broke the camel's back for me was reading a sb talking about how her SD refuses to give her money during her menses. Also he actually wanted to check and make sure she was telling the truth. Seriously?? Panty search?? eww Then of course the demands for bareback fun?

    After a few messages from the members there in a span of 3 months or more, I felt like taking a shower with a rake with super sharp edges and bleach. It's funny since on cam you'll hear things all the time and it doesn't quite have the same effect.

    Ohh another tidbit I learned. Brandon Wade apparently changed his name from Brandon Wei. Apparently he got caught soliciting sex from some under age girl ( undercover) . Later he created well these sites. It always made me wonder why he says " no escorts" yet lets the johns of the site run free. Now obviously there are some diamonds under those lumps of coal but eh it's far too much work to talk to every "Dick" on there. You never really make it to Tom and Harry. lol

    Still I had a sub I played with online for a short stint and after that same scams types with their ever changing stories.

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    I agree with Cherry's opinion--creeps galore. However if you have the patience of Jesus you may be able to find something worthwhile. For example I thought I had struck gold cuz I found a sub on one of the sites. No sex involved--I just had to text him what to do, send him pictures of things he liked like stuffed panties, and he'd give me five hundred just for that when we'd meet up. Then unfortunately his boss started overworking him so our "arrangement" fell apart. Out of fifteen creeps that'll message me I'll consider maybe meeting one of them so I'm highly selective. I'm also very assertive when it comes to the actual arrangement, no tiptoeing around sugar issues like amount or when they'll give it to me or I'll end it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    I agree with Cherry's opinion--creeps galore. However if you have the patience of Jesus you may be able to find something worthwhile. For example I thought I had struck gold cuz I found a sub on one of the sites. No sex involved--I just had to text him what to do, send him pictures of things he liked like stuffed panties, and he'd give me five hundred just for that when we'd meet up. Then unfortunately his boss started overworking him so our "arrangement" fell apart. Out of fifteen creeps that'll message me I'll consider maybe meeting one of them so I'm highly selective. I'm also very assertive when it comes to the actual arrangement, no tiptoeing around sugar issues like amount or when they'll give it to me or I'll end it.
    I nearly died reading this line!! LMAO!!

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