
Originally Posted by
Obenta
That really doesn't mean shit. There are lots of men who "have a lot of reviews" who are bad guys/abusive/stalkers/write fake reviews etc. Just because he writes "positive" reviews doesn't mean he's ok to see. I've seen well-known (and liked) men with lots of reviews who later stalked other ladies who I know. I've had a man with over 100 reviews write a fake review of me (I never met him).
Reviews ARE NOT verification. If it's TER, you need to have a *provider* VIP membership (Your handle linked to your reviews) to do a whitelist cross-check using his email address or have him PM you from his username (you need VIP for this). THEN contact the ladies he's reviewed for refs. You will need his name, email & phone for his references to be able to verify him. Run his name through all of the blacklist sites. Check his I.D. (or multiple forms of ID) when he arrives to make sure the man at your door is the one who you screened.
You should also do as much independent verifying of his info as you can (via employment, public records, whatever you can find)
Keep in mind, mothing is 100% foolproof. Screening is to reduce risk. Be careful - predators prey on newbies, so be suspicious. If you have anything in your ads that indicates that you are "new" remove it asap.
I'm in an altruistic mood...
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