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    What's an effective way of screening a man who is retired Army?

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    and he has no references?

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    Default Re: Screening someone retired?

    Ask for references. No references , No employment info = no date.

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    Default Re: Screening someone retired?

    You could ask for a color scan of his retiree id card. It should be blue.

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    Default Re: Screening someone retired?

    You check their references.


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    Thanks girls! I looked at his profile on the review board and he has A LOT of reviews.

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    Have him PM you from his username if you are going that route. Email a few of his recent reviews for added security if you want to be that intense.
    Last edited by strippername; 07-08-2012 at 10:29 PM. Reason: I write like a moron.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuicyXO View Post
    Thanks girls! I looked at his profile on the review board and he has A LOT of reviews.
    That really doesn't mean shit. There are lots of men who "have a lot of reviews" who are bad guys/abusive/stalkers/write fake reviews etc. Just because he writes "positive" reviews doesn't mean he's ok to see. I've seen well-known (and liked) men with lots of reviews who later stalked other ladies who I know. I've had a man with over 100 reviews write a fake review of me (I never met him).

    Reviews ARE NOT verification. If it's TER, you need to have a *provider* VIP membership (Your handle linked to your reviews) to do a whitelist cross-check using his email address or have him PM you from his username (you need VIP for this). THEN contact the ladies he's reviewed for refs. You will need his name, email & phone for his references to be able to verify him. Run his name through all of the blacklist sites. Check his I.D. (or multiple forms of ID) when he arrives to make sure the man at your door is the one who you screened.

    You should also do as much independent verifying of his info as you can (via employment, public records, whatever you can find)

    Keep in mind, mothing is 100% foolproof. Screening is to reduce risk. Be careful - predators prey on newbies, so be suspicious. If you have anything in your ads that indicates that you are "new" remove it asap.

    I'm in an altruistic mood...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obenta View Post
    That really doesn't mean shit. There are lots of men who "have a lot of reviews" who are bad guys/abusive/stalkers/write fake reviews etc. Just because he writes "positive" reviews doesn't mean he's ok to see. I've seen well-known (and liked) men with lots of reviews who later stalked other ladies who I know. I've had a man with over 100 reviews write a fake review of me (I never met him).

    Reviews ARE NOT verification. If it's TER, you need to have a *provider* VIP membership (Your handle linked to your reviews) to do a whitelist cross-check using his email address or have him PM you from his username (you need VIP for this). THEN contact the ladies he's reviewed for refs. You will need his name, email & phone for his references to be able to verify him. Run his name through all of the blacklist sites. Check his I.D. (or multiple forms of ID) when he arrives to make sure the man at your door is the one who you screened.

    You should also do as much independent verifying of his info as you can (via employment, public records, whatever you can find)

    Keep in mind, mothing is 100% foolproof. Screening is to reduce risk. Be careful - predators prey on newbies, so be suspicious. If you have anything in your ads that indicates that you are "new" remove it asap.

    I'm in an altruistic mood...
    On the review site I was on, girls can write reviews on him too. They're brief, but they were all (over 20) brief except one because he asked an escort if she did BBBJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obenta View Post
    That really doesn't mean shit. There are lots of men who "have a lot of reviews" who are bad guys/abusive/stalkers/write fake reviews etc. Just because he writes "positive" reviews doesn't mean he's ok to see. I've seen well-known (and liked) men with lots of reviews who later stalked other ladies who I know. I've had a man with over 100 reviews write a fake review of me (I never met him).

    Reviews ARE NOT verification. If it's TER, you need to have a *provider* VIP membership (Your handle linked to your reviews) to do a whitelist cross-check using his email address or have him PM you from his username (you need VIP for this). THEN contact the ladies he's reviewed for refs. You will need his name, email & phone for his references to be able to verify him. Run his name through all of the blacklist sites. Check his I.D. (or multiple forms of ID) when he arrives to make sure the man at your door is the one who you screened.

    You should also do as much independent verifying of his info as you can (via employment, public records, whatever you can find)

    Keep in mind, mothing is 100% foolproof. Screening is to reduce risk. Be careful - predators prey on newbies, so be suspicious. If you have anything in your ads that indicates that you are "new" remove it asap.

    I'm in an altruistic mood...
    On the review site I was on, girls can write reviews on him too. They're brief, but they were all (over 20) brief except one because he asked an escort if she did BBBJ.

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    Default Re: Screening someone retired?

    See if he has any publicly available info mentioning his military record, and verify him using his military ID. Get at least one reference, even if it's an old reference, since you mentioned he's done reviews.

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