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    Question New Cam Girl

    Hi, this might be kind of a dumb question, but what is the best way to start your very first show? ANY tips would help out so much! haha

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    I only have a few shows under my belt, but (from my little experience) it is more about just being yourself and being friendly. I am camming as a couple with my fiance, and our first few shows were "directed" by the customer. They told us exactly what they wanted (within our limitations) and we did what they wanted. One of our shows, the guy said he just wanted to watch without giving direction. So we just had sex like no one was watching. It is really hard to say what the "best way to start a show" is, it is really up to what you are comfortable doing and what the customer wants to see. Never alter what you are willing to do for anyone but yourself! Just log on, be friendly, be chatty, have fun, and see where it goes from there. Once they take you private, if they haven't told you already, ask what they are interested in seeing. I almost always start by taking my clothes off while asking what they are into, but if you are doing non-nude you would skip that

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    Welcome to SW!

    I'm not sure about how you would like to start your own shows, since it's kind of related to what your customer wants/says to you before they go private, but there are a few things I tend to do at the beginning/end of a private show (if it's a good one, not a 30 second peeper or a jerk).

    I greet them, ask them how they are and what they're in the mood for if they haven't already talked to me about a specific reason for going private. Then I start to take the conversation in that direction, while doing a slow striptease and some teasing before getting naked and getting on with the show. Definitely don't get naked too fast, but don't try to 'stall for time', either. After a little while you will learn to distinguish a certain 'tone' from guys that tells you if they're going to be someone that appreciates tease and seduction, or someone that just wants a hard and fast show, and you can adjust your approach accordingly.




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    Default Re: New Cam Girl

    Well, it depends if you are asking about your first paid show (which I think you are?), or about the first time you turn your cam on to broadcast in free chat (assuming you are on a site that requires free chat).

    I think the above posters gave really helpful information on how to start a paid chat session. I'll usually say something like, "Hey baby, what are you in the mood for today?" while taking off my clothes. Then I'll either do what he says if it's in my comfort zone, tell him (sexily, of course) that I don't offer that service if it's something I'm not comfortable with but provide him with a good alternative that I will do, or just do my own sexy naked thing if he doesn't answer. I tend to not start with toys right away because I find it gets the guys off quicker, which isn't really what we want. Use audio, if possible. Make sure all of your toys/props/etc. are nearby before you start the show, as you never want to be out of view. One thing I've also picked up is that if you are doing something for a while and the viewer isn't asking you to do something else, don't change what you're doing! Even if it seems boring to you. A lot of times I'll be playing in one position for minutes at a time doing the same action over and over and I think, ugh, this is boring me, let's change it up. Usually if I switch positions without the viewer asking me he'll either leave soon after, or ask me to get Back into the original position. So don't feel the need to go wild and crazy and constantly switch it up unless your viewer requests.

    Also, I really love the advice to not go too fast, but not stall for time, either. When I first started camming over two years ago I would give the shortest, most explicit shows possible because that's what I thought I was supposed to do. That habit stuck with me because now (on my per minute site, anyway) my shows tend to end quicker than I'd like them to because I am a little too good at getting my guys off. You don't have to race through the show, and financially it's probably better that you don't. However, you definitely Don't want to purposely stall, either, as guys will see that you are just trying to drain their wallets and will never want to come back to you. For your first show you may have a hard time getting your pacing just right, it will probably take a few shows, but after you've got some successful sessions under your belt you'll feel like a pro. Good luck, and let us know how it goes!

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    Default Re: New Cam Girl

    Turn on your cam, switch on your availability, wait for a show, and when you get one, go with the flow. Have wet wipes, toys, outfit changes, shoes, a drink, snack etc on hand so you can grab things as you need them. Might want to keep a notepad and pen handy too so you can make a note of custies who spend a long time with you, special requests you get (ideas for later shows/ clips), anything you said/ did that worked well or not so well. And really just go from there. I logged in without a plan and did just that.. my first night i got 1 masturbation show, 3 long chats about.. well, not much actually (totally clothed), a small penis humour request (THAT was funny since I'd never heard of this fetish before!), and a guy who spent an hour watching me dangle shoes off my feet!! Completely and utterly random, no way i could have planned for it if I'd tried... x
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