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    So i auditioned at a club in Downtown DC and it went really well, but what i didnt know was that if im hired come friday ill be the only black dancer they have.I had no idea, when i came in the club there were 4 working but the security guard explained they were servers and bartenders. He explained the closest girl to my complexion was from columbia, which isnt really close at all but okay. Im not worried at all about i was just wondering why they didnt have any black dancers. Im tyring to make the transition out of the current club im at and personally i think i would do better at an upscale verses a urban dive .
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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    Most clubs have quotas, no more than 3-4, and only 1-2 per shift. Ive been the only black girl at a few clubs Ive worked and while it sounds great (sometimes it is lol) there are cons. You have to hustle harder because most men are afraid to approach "the black dancer". Also Ive had many men come in groups and reject me, yet come back without his friends to spend money. Basically, you deal with racism but not in an overt way. When it comes down to it, most guys come to see a certain type hence why they hire a certain type... For example, at an urban club you could probably ask 50 guys for a dance and get at least half of them to say yes. At the upscale club you may ask 50 guys and only get 3 (but those 3 will spend ALOT of money.) At the end of the day, its whereever you feel comfortable. Ive never felt comfortable in an urban environment, Im very petite and lazy( I try to avoid the stage). Youll be fine though, DC has alot of money good luck

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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    Until recently, I was usually the only black dancer on any given shift at my club. They'd hire more black girls, but typically they wouldn't stay around long for one reason or another. I never had a problem making money being "the black dancer." If anything, it was great! lol we have three black girls including myself working regularly now, and I do like it better that way.

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    I'm the only blonde girl with big boobs at my club, too! But for you (OP) being the only black girl could be a huge advantage, especially if it's a classy club with rich old white guys. On the other hand, there could also be a reason why you're the only one = they don't make $$. Regardless, you got hired, so there must be something to it. I'd give it a week or so.

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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    Sorry to threadjack at my gogo bar in Philly I'm the only (faux) blonde with big tits too! Blondes with big tits unite!
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    I usually see 1-3 black girls working. The black girls that work tend to talk to black customers and have a monopoly in that sense, but some black dancers I've met don't cater to black clients. Its your preference. As long as you are a good conversationist and are friendly you can make just as much off everyone that is waiting for dances.
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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    I have always been the only black girl at my home club and I prefer it! It spoils me because I don't have to hussel 90% of the time the only issue I did have was with black guys they didn't want anything to do with me lol. I think I only ever had two black customer and one was older and the other usually only liked white girls so idk what was up with that. I did have a 65 year old man politely tell me he only like white people once though, he was nice and tipped me for my time.

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    Ive realized with MOST blacks guy (not all) in a predominantly white setting that they are there for a reason...Basically, dont get happy and only focus on the blacks guys in the club, thinking that race is your common bond. Ive seen other black girls do it and then be pissed when he spends all his money on the white girl. Ive had maybe 2 black customers in an upscale club spends LOADS on me since Ive started back dancing, but they were introduced to me by the manager. Sidenote, I love how the blonds with big boobs took over this thread lol

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    i typically do very well with other races ...young black guys cant stand me at my current club..smh..i swear, they think im "boogie" which is hardly the case i just dont have time for there time wasting and always have something slick and rude to say,they want you to do alot for a lil bit of $. hispanic,white,and africans love me because im tall and really fit but i still have curves. I didnt have an issue about being the only black girl when i auditioned until the security guard who's black brought it to my attention like i was about to do something ground breaking. i told him i doubt they were prejudice this is a high class establishment so i would expect for them to be very picky if they have a specific quota. its in the middle of the city close to all the government building and offices.
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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    I believe I know what club you're talking about, and I was thinking about auditioning there, but I've been there as a customer for the past few years...and yes there are very few black girls, I think I've only seen about 4 in my past visits, but the girls said they like working there...I usually go because it's free admission and guys usually offer to buy our drinks and food. The club is very organized and clean, I think you'll do well, and given the fact that you don't have to do too much ass shaking/tricks compared to black clubs.

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    I'm really happy this post came about. I have been really contemplating auditioning at a local dive (1st time stripping) and have been very wary about it because the town I am in is all white. It gives me a little insight about what to expect.

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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    It can be a good thing for you. You'll stand out. I work in a predominately white club but with quite a few black girls. The Asian girls are the minority, we only have two.
    Whenever a customer tips me on stage, I can see many of the other black dancers charging before the poor guy can make it back to his chair. It can be tough being a minority in a club, just focus on being yourself. I'm sure they hired you because they felt you could make money.

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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    Quote Originally Posted by Liv. View Post
    i typically do very well with other races ...young black guys cant stand me at my current club..smh..i swear, they think im "boogie" which is hardly the case i just dont have time for there time wasting and always have something slick and rude to say,they want you to do alot for a lil bit of $. hispanic,white,and africans love me because im tall and really fit but i still have curves. I didnt have an issue about being the only black girl when i auditioned until the security guard who's black brought it to my attention like i was about to do something ground breaking. i told him i doubt they were prejudice this is a high class establishment so i would expect for them to be very picky if they have a specific quota. its in the middle of the city close to all the government building and offices.
    Here is the thing... Non-strippers, especially men always put in their two cents about money making potential. They have NO clue. Securities always think they know too. They don't know shit most of the time. Pay no mind to him. You got hired bc you're hot enough. Go make that money.

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    Default Re: being the only black girl ...

    dont be hun. i know for a fact you'll do fine. dont worry about the race issue, it won't be a big deal under the lights because you're there to make money, not make a statement.

    plus, i know the richer males will love you. for some strange reason, the main ones are rich and white that come after me , but it's not a problem, i prefer my men green and dead though. (MONEY) btw, im black as well but a deep brown complexion

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